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❤️🔥Scanian Doggirl🌲
@Mikeysob
autistic post-egirl rabbit-esque doggirlfriend. 学普通话. i draw
Skåne เข้าร่วม Eylül 2021
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@lunachainsaw I don't know how you've somehow turned "SOME autistic people have the ability to- and could benefit from learning to recognise some common allistic social patterns" into "I bully other autistics"
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i genuinely fucking hate you and everything you stand for
❤️🔥Scanian Doggirl🌲@Mikeysob
A lot of autists here are so miserable because instead of hearing things like this then using it to better one’s life and social connections, you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall on repeat
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@Timothy77236895 You can have genuine valid struggles and still self sabotage
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@Mikeysob I also don't like the way it sounds like you're implying that many autistic people are just self sabotaging when most of the time they're just struggling in different and less visible ways
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Ableism aside this is a dogshit example because never making plans to hang out because you're worried people are just being polite is exactly how you don't better your life and social connections. Like just suggest a day for coffee but if they say they're busy etc. don't push it.
❤️🔥Scanian Doggirl🌲@Mikeysob
A lot of autists here are so miserable because instead of hearing things like this then using it to better one’s life and social connections, you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall on repeat
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@Timothy77236895 precisely the type of common mistake that MANY autists (including myself) can LEARN to avoid and benefit from!!
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@Timothy77236895 Yes!! you're missing my point here!! i agree with you!! Suggesting a day for coffee is OFTEN the right answer!! taking "we should meet for coffee sometimes" as a promise without follow up then waiting for an invite that never comes is-
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@spacepunk @mykola - the opposite" claim is largely exaggerated.
Myk is right though, following up the invite with a specific time/place suggestion has never done me wrong.
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@spacepunk @mykola I'll be honest i didn't really think much about the specific coffee example when making my post, it was supposed to be more general haha. I'm autistic and have never had issue with inviting nt people out for coffee. I think the "neurotypicals will always think you mean-
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My people I need you to hear me when I say that this kind of hard-earned wisdom is for you to *integrate* not scoff at!
Ok great they are saying something they don’t mean. This data point can be used to build a bridge or a wall, your choice.
You have agency here!!!!
❤️🔥Scanian Doggirl🌲@Mikeysob
A lot of autists here are so miserable because instead of hearing things like this then using it to better one’s life and social connections, you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall on repeat
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@durinpurin @alaskastardust I am giving you my first hand account of it having the chance of making things better, fym "there is no winning" ???????
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@voidpires It is my personal experience because i used to be said autist running into the wall.
Sorry for not giving extensive background context when i made this tweet to my under 150 followers largely consisting of friends who know me?
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@Mikeysob “A lot of autists here are so miserable because…you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall” so what is that. Is that Your Personal Experience or is that telling other autistic people they’re not doing things right because of how YOU see masking
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“No you guys don’t understand you’ll be happier and life will be easy if you just STUDY all the social things you don’t know and memorize and perform them forever and ever it’s literally that easy” are we kidding
❤️🔥Scanian Doggirl🌲@Mikeysob
A lot of autists here are so miserable because instead of hearing things like this then using it to better one’s life and social connections, you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall on repeat
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@voidpires Please point to where i said it was easy?
I would not equate learning to recognize patterns in allistic socializing in order to make my life easier, with masking. This is my personal experience, just like you have yours.
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This is not just something you can learn and live happily ever after, it’s a never ending acting role that doesn’t even go well half the time and I don’t blame anyone for not having the fucking energy for that. It’s stupid at best to pretend nonstop masking isn’t exhausting
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@alaskastardust this is so disingenuous; their entire point is that you can LEARN behavioral/social norms even if you don't get them intuitively. refusing to bother to avoid "masking", or encouraging people not to because it's "ableist" contributes to a culture of self-infantilization.
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A lot of autists here are so miserable because instead of hearing things like this then using it to better one’s life and social connections, you all just ignore it and continue to run face first into the wall on repeat
Cleista@CleistaCelestia
Does this phrase not literally mean that???
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@Geekerchan @Scavvvv Man i don’t know??? ”Do you want to get coffee sometime” followed with action might be a good start? Both other autists and allistics have this weird thing about there always being a right and wrong in every conversation? If you’re unsure if someone is being genuine, just ask?
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@dilemadelaeriza I am an autistic person. I would not equate learning to recognize patterns in allistic socializing in order to make my life easier, with masking.
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