Nick Perham
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Nick Perham
@PerhamNick
Married dad of three, metalhead, cognitive psychologist, love films, craft beer fan, supporter of Nottingham Forest. Views are mine.
Wales, United Kingdom เข้าร่วม Mart 2018
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@helenstaniland My wife tried to do this for our daughter a few years ago. Some still worked
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@StanCollymore One of my favourite ever Forest players. Not seen any other Forest players like him.
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@Thehullboy1 @MindCharity Absolutely incredible. You and your family should be so very proud. What an achievement!
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THE YOUNGEST PERSON AND FIRST UNDER 18 TO RUN THE ENTIRE LENGTH OF THE UK🫡
£111,000 Raised for @mindcharity
1347KM Ran (837 miles)
1 car crash and 2 of the most difficult but greatest months of my life.
I’m an emotional mess tonight but I just want to say, no matter how dark a place you are in. It can and WILL get better. 2 years ago I was in the darkest place in my life, 2 years later we have made history.
Thank you to everyone who believed in me. I love you all very much. I’ll do a post when I’m able to process what’s just happened. MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS ❤️



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@Thehullboy1 You are an absolute star and inspiration! Cry, run, cry, run and cry and run some more. Do you need any music suggestions?
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WEEK ONE COMPLETED ❤️ Day 7 completed of running the length of the UK.
20 miles smashed out today in what I would say has been the toughest day so far. Physically I’m feeling great but certainly feeling the 6 hours of alone time in the middle of nowhere everyday. Hoping the progress of moving up the country will help the motivation a bit. Got to be real, I burst into tears in a random Devon field listening to oasis, idek myself.
But as they say, it doesn’t matter how much motivation you have it’s all about the discipline and I know I won’t be going home until I reach that finish line no matter how slow or long it takes.
Time for an early night and then 14-15 miles to Tiviton. Thank you for all the donations and love- mental health matters ❤️
Day: 6
Day KM: 32.2 (20 miles)
Total KM: 203 (126 miles)
KM to go: 1160
Total money raised for @mindcharity: £17,880
gofund.me/546f1699



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What do you consider a 10/10 horror film?
The Exorcist
Hereditary
Martyrs
Bone Tomahawk
The Thing
Jaws
Near Dark
The Substance
Zombies: Day Of The Dead
Toxic Avenger
The Beyond
Day Of The Beast
Have I missed any out?
Horror N Haunted@HorrorNHaunted
I personally have never given a #horror movie a 10/10. But curious. Is there a horror movie that any of you think is a perfect 10/10?
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Hot off the press! We are delighted to share the latest issue of the BPS Cognitive Psychology Bulletin explore.bps.org.uk/content/bpscog…
Thank you to all our contributors. It has been a pleasure to work on this issue with @harrietsmith15 and @PerhamNick
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Over the moon 🌙 that "A Student's Guide to Open Science" has won the British Psychology Award 2024 in the Textbook category!
Thank you to everyone who's read the book, written reviews, & supported 🥰😁
What a way to end 2024! 👏🎉
Thank you to @OpenUniPress!
#OpenScience

The Psychologist@psychmag
Huge congratulations to the @BPSOfficial Book Award winners! @PeteEtchells @monty_lyman @drcpennington @utafrith and Chris Frith. Links to interviews and articles from The Psychologist in this announcement bps.org.uk/news/congratul…
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Narcissistic/psychopathic parents often ‘emotionally kidnap’ their children.
That is, they create such an extreme mindset in their children against the other parent, that the children refuse to see the other parent ever again and actively misrepresent the protective parent to others.
The narcissist/psychopath is able to emotionally kidnap the children by:
1. Accusing the other parent of their own nefarious deeds. For example, if the narcissist/psychopath abused the children and had affairs, the narcissist/psychopath accuses the protective parent of abuse and having affairs.
2. Creating extensive and deeply undermining false narrative which undermines the other parent’s legitimacy.
3. Systematically replacing the child’s good memories of the protective parent with experiences in the same locations with themselves.
4. Subtly demeaning the protective parent to the children.
5. Bribes and incentives.
6. Focusing a huge amount of attention on the child and then subtly pulling that away if the child shows any positive feelings towards the protective parent.
7. Manipulating others to talk and negatively about the protective parent to the children.
8. Intimidation and threats.
9. Talking themselves up to the children. Self promotion. Organising to receive awards and then ensuring the children are there to see that.
10. Organising the cessation of the children’s relationships with all friends and relatives of the protective parent unless they can be manipulated.
11. Taking the children to mental health professionals who have been manipulated by the narcissist/psychopath.
12. Orchestrating extreme acts to make the children more dependent on them such as ‘accidentally’ leaving tablets out for a suicidal child (not enough to kill them but enough to get them into hospital) so the child relies more heavily on the narcissist/psychopath and sees them as their saviour.
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ULTRA MARATHON COMPLETED ❤️
Over the last 24 hours i have battled sickness, injury and fatigue but it means the world to say that i have officially ran a 60KM ultramarathon.
When I began running a mile a day in April, never did imagine that a day like today would ever be possible. It got tough at many points during the night/ morning but the thought of still being here and battling was a huge reason to keep going.
Mental health is no joke, no matter what people say- every day we keep talking and spreading awareness. It can and will get better ❤️




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@GingerWildheart I went down a bit of a rabbit hole with Current Joys
youtu.be/6cUdOo26YV8?si…

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I'll be giving an online talk about the book on Mon 28th Oct at 8pm GMT. Get your (free) ticket here eventbrite.co.uk/e/book-launch-… #Friday_Motivation #BookOfTheDay

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🥳📖 Out today! My new book 'Humanise: how knowing ourselves could change the world'. It will change your views of #humanbeings and show new ways to think about the challenges facing us and how to build a better world! Buy it here tinyurl.com/3237pfa2 Outline below 🧵

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My new book 'Humanise: how knowing ourselves could change the world' is out today! 🎉 Here's a quick introduction to the fascinating stuff within it! youtu.be/d9r_pjBsD5M

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