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most issues are skill issues, which are really experience issues, which in turn are courage issues
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Daniel K (in SF April 7th)
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Daniel K (in SF April 7th)
@dkazand
CEO Coach | Host of The Metagame: https://t.co/s0UnsKxKEj Helping you get out of your own way.
Toronto / SF เข้าร่วม Ocak 2011
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the only two criteria that actually matter in dating:
> are you attracted to each other
> do you both love Truth
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@AndresMSalvat it entails ego death, which is unpopular (to egos)
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@dkazand why is the second one so hard to come by seriously
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@inkolore_ ok you got me there... third criteria is "pkm match"
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@dkazand bro but what about her workflow for taking notes and appearing productive
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Listen closely;
Altman knows OpenAI
isn’t worth 800B
The spending spree on startups is his way to offload stock onto founders
TBPN wasn’t an acquisition;
It was a way to offload $150m of OpenAI onto Jordi & John at $800B
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@rococoquette lmao that's frustrating. what about Taurus Mars?
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@dkazand Oh yes definitely with Leo too ! The luminaries will absolutely help with articulation, and people will feel envious so they don’t help you 😑
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Mars-Mercury/Moon placements
Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
being articulate really sucks bc no one can tell when you’re vulnerable
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every chronic tension in the body is a fear of life
from Fear of life by Alexander Lowen
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@dkazand You don’t escape the feeling, you outsource control of it. Someone else ends up holding the lever.
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every feeling you’re avoiding becomes Leverage for people who can generate it
e.g.
> anger: a stern glance and you'll comply
> guilt: they play victim and you apologize
> sadness: they cry and reliably get your attention
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@reframenaim certain things require acceptance in order to be truly avoided lmao
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@dkazand Cyclical in nature but ironically, it’s avoidable haha
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@vJLsRpr25K21627 for sure. if in fact you really want/need to cry, do it
but if you're dropping some 'fake tears to get your needs met' that's sociopathic
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being articulate really sucks bc no one can tell when you’re vulnerable
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@reframenaim it's almost structural
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Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
The Avoidance Paradox: when you create the very thing you're avoiding through the act of avoiding it e.g. > fear of being seen as an outsider > masking to fit in > not being seen at all > feeling like an outsider
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Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
@redwaterorganic I think it's important for your most intimate relationships. It's when you're at the edge of yourself and closest to wonder/growth. Being witnessed in that is good for deep connections But agreed, it's not something everyone should get access to
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Mfw the more I describe my angst the more compliments I receive on how well I seem to be doing
Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
being articulate really sucks bc no one can tell when you’re vulnerable
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@vJLsRpr25K21627 brother yes, unironically this works
but now you're sociopath
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@TheirFirstName i don't know what this means but it sounds cool
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shadows die twice my brother
Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
being articulate really sucks bc no one can tell when you’re vulnerable
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@cammakingminds More like this:
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Daniel K (in SF April 7th)@dkazand
@redwaterorganic I think it's important for your most intimate relationships. It's when you're at the edge of yourself and closest to wonder/growth. Being witnessed in that is good for deep connections But agreed, it's not something everyone should get access to
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@thejakeseevers some people can't help but associate clear communication with power, even if the content of what you're saying is obviously vulnerable
but if you stammered, cried, floundered, were conspicuously overwhelmed etc, only then would you unlock their empathy
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