Part time Daygamer

All the pussies standing around and not saying anything. She could be your sister or your daughter.

Fairs

What guys call ‘Chad’ now are what we used to call ‘naturals’. I had someone point this out to me recently. Naturals are guys who are just naturally good with women. A lot of guys think “Chad is Chad because he’s 6’ making 6 figures with a 6” cock.” But a lot of Chads — i.e., guys who bang out a ton of chicks — do not meet this criteria. Other guys think “Chad is Chad because he’s good-looking,” and some Chads are… but there are also a lot of plain-looking Chads and even some ugly Chads. So what makes Chad Chad? A few things: • He either IS confident, or ACTS confident. • He has SOCIAL SKILLS. i.e., he knows how to maneuver socially. • He creates a sense that he has value. Various ways to do this: getting people to do things, leading people, connecting people with others, knowing where the party is, being generally scarce / less available. • He is nonverbally expressive but in a cool, masculine way. I can’t overstate this enough. Men who are ‘not Chad’ tend to be either a.) stiff, rigid, & wooden, i.e. not expressive at all, OR b.) expressive in some kind of girlish, giddy, feminine way that is not sexy or cool. Chad is neither of these. Chad is both loose & cool. • Not trying to status climb, but behaves as if he is already high status. Try-hard guys are constantly fighting for scraps of status with one another. It is a major ‘tell’ of someone who is NOT CHAD. Chad OTOH is unconcerned with status battles for the most part because he is secure in his status. Your reaction to status battles tells people a lot about whether you already consider yourself Chad or you do not. All this is BEHAVIORAL. None of it has to do with his jawline, his chest measurements, his bank account numbers, his dick length, or any of the superficial stuff that guys on the outside get so fixated on. If you can learn to emulate the BEHAVIORAL QUALITIES of a Chad, you BECOME the Chad, and then all the chattering classes end up complaining about how come you get all the girls, it’s not fair that there are Chads like you when other guys have to settle for scraps, etc., etc.