Pheminine

@eezharhh Yes. If both of you are pretending, deceiving yourselves and each have another partner you're in a real relationship with cos in real relationships, there would be conflict, the difference is how maturely it is resolved

Is it possible to be married for over 10 years without quarreling with your partner?

@Prince_dc21_ Wait, so there are side chicks that make Egusi in the night? Other side chicks are enjoying foreign trips, vacations, designers and expensive gifts, this one is cooking in the night.

"If she is no longer interested in the marriage, it's fine i do not care anymore, But let her bring my twin boys back to me!! "My wife has a habit of not cooking what I want. So, about 2 weeks ago, I came back & politely told her I wanted egusi soup with enough pepper in it, cuz I couldn't eat the vegetable yam she had cooked. And ​she told me it was late, diverted from what i wanted to eat & instead asked me why I came home late. I got so annoyed & didn't have time for her nonsense questions, because this wasn't the first time. So, I immediately took my phone & called a babe just to prove a point to her. I had the phone on loud speaker, i told the lady I wanted to eat egusi soup that same night ,& asked if she could prepare it for me. She didn't even waste time, she said yes & asked me to send money so she could quickly buy the ingredients before the seller in the neighborhood closed. ​My wife said it was too late to prepare my favorite meal, but this babe is a working-class lady, & my wife isn't even working. My own wife is always at home gossipìng all over the compound & playing with the kids, yet she couldn't cook egusi soup for me her husband, claiming it was too late. But this other woman even after having a busy day, still had the strength to cook for me. Wow! What a beautiful woman with a sense of respect, just what i love in a woman So, ​I took my phone & sent the money to her in my wife's presence, & she saw everything. I was happy & fulfilled; I really enjoyed seeing how much it pained her. I just wanted to prove a point, so she can learn how to respect me. And make her understand that, they're a lot of women out there begging to take her place as my wife After the incident, I left, eager to go eat my favorite dish at this other woman's place. Before I reached this woman's house, she was almost done. I ate & slept at her house. However, when I came home in the morning, my wife had left the house, taking my boys with her. I've called everyone, including her family, they said they haven't seen her. She's not at her father's house or with her aunt. ​But someone said they saw her leaving with my sons. She has switched off her phone. This has made me to understand that something has been happening behind my back. Because, where els could she be? , its been over 2 weeks now she left, She actually had the nerve to take my sons & leave my house, possibly to her boyfriend's place. ​At this point i already know what i know, i do not need a seer to tell me tha my wife is seeing another man. Right now, I just want her to bring my sons to me & tell me where she went cuz my patience is running out. I only wanted to teach her a lesson but now she has shown her real self. A woman who competes with a man is unfit to be called a 'wife'. If she's no longer interested in the marriage, let her bring my kids back to me. She's bitten off more than she can chew. I just want my children back in my house that's all. Her name is Cynthia Amara. Let her bring my boys back to me"

@veekeeuche This has nothing to do with him being a boy and we should stop infantilizing men. A female child is not for running errands

Sometimes I wonder how people without female children cope. I just called home and my mom was complaining bitterly 😂😂 She sent my brother to the market to get groceries for her and he almost called her to glory. You know the crazy thing he did? She included sweet corn on the list of items she needed, and he bought roasted corn on his way back home. He said the corn was sweet when he tasted it and decided to buy 7. So she should start peeling roasted corn from it cobs to make fried rice?? I laughed until my jaw started paining me

@official_QV You were in the middle of a love trapezium

My friend’s girlfriend got proposed to by another man. He found out and cut me off because he assumed I knew and didn’t tell him as his friend. She cut me off because she assumed I told him and i was supposed to be a girls girl. I’ve not felt this much Peace in a while now. They made me almost consider counseling as a career.

@OhHiCal @Jennnyyyyyy You don vex oh.

@Jennnyyyyyy For the love of everything that is holy, the lion is 18 kg… it’s wild how many people on here don’t know basic math

What is the weight of Lion? 🤔 Difficulty - Medium Pro 🤠

@Jennnyyyyyy 18

@Esther_aroboto The decision to cook, wash clothes and support a man is okay but please let it be done from a place of love asin you're doing this because you love him. Also please look the scarcity mindset around finding love.

I will clean, cook. wash clothes and support my man financially in as much he loves me and cherish me. To see a man that love you this days is stressful so I’ll do anything to keep mine.

@NoFilterSkin Man keh? You're a fictional character, you don't exist

A real woman always keeps her house clean and organized, and the laundry basket empty. She is always well-dressed, with her hair done. She never swears, behaves gracefully in all circumstances. She has more than enough patience to take care of her family, always has a smile on her lips, and a kind word for everyone. Re-post if you too realize that you may be a man.

Man keh, you're a fictional character, you don't exist

@icekied See ehn, I know runz girls who started coming to church from their sugar daddy's house and today, they are counting years of celibacy, serving God faithfully. If a person keeps presenting themselves before God honestly, the word and power of God is able to transform

The choir mistress that's leading praise and worship this morning just left her sugar daddy's house. You would see her singing and crying on the altar now like one better person,you won't know she was coming from her hustle. Good morning to you all.

To the person going through a betrayal right now, God sees you and will work everything out for your good

The fact that he's poor doesn't mean he'll be a good husband. The fact that he's rich doesn't mean he'll be abusive

@BalogunSonia4 No woman should be paying her bride price. The man should look for the money

If a woman pays her own bride price just to make marriage happen, is she being supportive or is she reducing her value?

@ChisomAgbafor Use the law to fight in-laws, I'm on the fence on this one oh

How can you be a lawyer and still be scared of your in-laws? So a colleague of mine asked me for advice on her marital issues. She said the in-laws are running her marriage like a group project. And I told her plainly “your law degree is not for fancy”. Once restraining orders and lawsuits enter the chat, the family will suddenly invite you to make peace.

@rukky_nate Plenty of 9-5 jobs pay more than a million in a month og

Name three 9-5 jobs in Nigeria that can make you a millionaire within 6 months. Do such jobs even exist?

I received a message from Alhaji 'I'll be in transit, I'd like to see you' This was one kind paymaster, exotic trips, foreign currency and he was so kind and respectful. I hadn't seen in a year since I gave my life to Christ. I responded 'I won't be available sir'

Virtue signaling is sooo annoying

@GloriousGod01 I wonder why humans love to grade sin, sin is sin

What is the difference between: 1. A woman who stays permanently with her boyfriend: she cooks, they have sex, she washes his clothes and he provides for her. 2. A woman who visits her man on weekends (let's say Friday and returns on Sunday evening or Monday). They have great sex (even more than the first), she cooks for him, cleans his house, washes his clothes, they shower together and other things? Above all, love God.

@ButterBibi I studied Microbiology and I'm a marketing ex left

I studied Microbiology, but I’m now into PR and marketing. You?

Show up for your friends Inconvenience is the price you pay to have good people in your life