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@q_squared_
multi-affectionate aroace, maverique, it/its, ith/iths
เข้าร่วม Nisan 2020
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like, I shouldn't have to use a microlabel when my label is the label that got shared in order to be inclusive. not when it can just be specified whether it's being used in a specific or umbrella way.
I'd say most english asexuals and aromantics don't want to give up their label.
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*to include graces and grayros (not just graces)
The general consensus used to be either specifying the spectrum or using ace and aro as the umbrella terms. But some graces and grayros prefer using asexual and aromantic. Like I said, I get it. Inclusivity. It's just frustrating.
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iding as aroace for almost 20 years and called dumb and blocked for not being Brazilian
in english it's just asexual and aromantic. they were turned into umbrella terms to include graces. and there was lots of discussion over not having "strict" asexual and aromantic terms.
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@podecacau the specific label that asexuals & aromantics that do not experience attraction, & who do not id with any other spectrum/grey label, is asexual & aromantic. however, often with infographs & explanations they have to share their label with the rest of the spectrum for inclusivity.
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@podecacau the specific label that asexuals & aromantics that do not experience attraction, & who do not id with any other spectrum/grey label, is asexual & aromantic. however, often with infographs & explanations they have to share their label with the rest of the spectrum for inclusivity.
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@q_squared_ Every asexual and aromantic person fits into specific labels, these people Just doesn't want to use microlabels
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Some sexualities on the asexual spectrum explained with pies, happy asexual day for us! 🍰💜
(Posting again because of a translation error, sorry)
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@podecacau Is there an English version? Sorry I'm also ace and would like to know more ace identities
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@podecacau I don't know what cara is, but I'm just saying that I'm not a dude
dude is used as slang, but it's origin and common use is still focused on men. as someone who is maverique, I prefer not to be referred to with gendered language, even if it's meant neutrally
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@q_squared_ Vocês não usam dude como gíria assim como nós usamos cara como gíria?
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@podecacau I'm not a dude
still don't know what your comment has to do with my comment
asexuals and aromantics who do not experience attraction and who are only asexual or aromantic did not get their own slice. their slices are shared with graces. like I said, I get it. It's frustrating
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@q_squared_ Those are just metaphors, dude
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@podecacau idk what this has to do with my comment
cupiosexual/romantic are specific terms that focus on desire for sexual and romantic relationships/activities despite lack of attraction under the asexual and aromantic umbrellas and they did get their own slices
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@q_squared_ Cupiosexuals can have no attraction, I'm one of them
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@TheViviFox asexuality has been defined around sexual attraction for years
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@NamesRHard310 I wouldn't define being asexual as whether or not you feel attraction. To me, it's more about whether or not you desire sex and that can take many forms from disliking it to being apathetic about it. Attraction, in this context, seems more like aromantic/demisexual in my mind.
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I hope people realize that being asexual has to do with whether or not you feel attraction, not whether or not you like having sex 😭😭😭
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@EvilsBaneX_1369 No, the orientation has been defined around sexual attraction for years.
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@q_squared_ I thought “asexual” meant “without sex” as this is the definition of the word.
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@q_squared_ This is an odd idea. I’d never heard it before.
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@EvilsBaneX_1369 how does stating that asexuality is about whether or not you feel (sexual) attraction, not if you like having sex, changing the definition which is generally "someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction"?
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@NamesRHard310 This sounds like a changing of the definition.
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@q_squared_ Look buddy if a man calls himself gay I better not catch him sleeping with women
Otherwise I’m going to question his gayness and insist he’s atleast bi
I have every right to assume your sexuality based on the type of sec you are having, that’s what sexuality labels are FOR
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@q_squared_ So you’re having sex with people you aren’t attracted to? That’s your problem not mine
You don’t have to do that, in fact you probably SHOULDNT do that
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@q_squared_ “Asexuals can be hypersexual fuck machines”. Ok sounds like the term is completely meaningless then
“Amputees can have all their limbs” ass statement
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@NamesRHard310 That’s just regular sexuality with extreme prejudice
You’re not special just because you aren’t a hypersexual fuck machine
Most people are not like that (I wish they were)
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@q_squared_ Like, i try to talk alot with non binary people and the vast majority of them dont really feel like they fit entirelly in neither of the two binary genders, and there fore, it is kinda problematic saying you are saphic or achilean to those people, but this may aply to some...
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yalls need to fit nonbinary people into binary views infuriates me
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@GuraRPG Okay, attraction to nonbinary ppl. So nothing to do with NBLW and NBLM.
It's not about physical appearance, it's about being woman and man. Some nonbinary people align with womanhood and manhood. Some nonbinary ppl include themselves in other people's attraction to women and men
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Tipo, o que eu quero dizer é que Você se dizer Sáfica ou Aquileano, e ainda assim se dizer atraído por não binários é algo quase que contraditório, já que ambas as coisas se referem justamente à binariedade das aparencias físicas de cada qual. Um NB normalmente não quer atração daqueles que os veem como uma forma binária
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@q_squared_ @YeetJones9 @Ray45653289 @butchmidas No need to get hostile. I agree and it was a genuine question.
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