Quality Bear

Ibram X. Kendi says it’s like slavery that Karmelo Anthony was punished for stabbing a white boy in the heart.

this is not the diplomatic move if you are a hot popular girl vulnerably approached by a nervous nerdy girl whose husband is inappropriately enamored with you. the diplomatic move is to start subtly ice-queening the husband (but not so blatantly as to cause drama) and acting warmly towards the girl. all other moves are open aggression, which can be strategically correct, but certainly are not “post receipts on the timeline to be vindicated” moves so is this autism, or am I just southern and not competent in San Francisco Womanese?

nonsexual touch is actually magical and a cornerstone of a good marriage, you're all just pornbrained beyond any resemblance of sanity

there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.

nonsexual touch is actually magical and a cornerstone of a good marriage, you're all just pornbrained beyond any resemblance of sanity

"Come along, husband, time for our nightly non-sexual makeout session that may or may not lead to sex depending on how I feel"

Men experience not being able to get off one time and lose their minds. Meanwhile women barely ever orgasm during sex

"Come along, husband, time for our nightly non-sexual makeout session that may or may not lead to sex depending on how I feel"