yogurt man

kirby is the only one worthy of determining who gets to live

@ThatAussieWoman @JoEllisReally also a trans man that looks like buck angel would absolutely get the shit kicked out of him if he tried using the women’s restroom so where does he go?

@ThatAussieWoman @JoEllisReally pure hypothetical here but if a trans woman who looked like bailey anne kennedy were to get srs where should she use the restroom? i don’t want to argue or anything i’m just curious to know your opinion.

One thing I keep coming back to with bathroom bans is that removing trans women doesn’t remove risk. It only removes some perception of risk. Women can assault other women. Men can break the law regardless of signs on the door. Bad people don’t follow rules. In most areas of society, we accept that risk can’t be reduced to zero, so we punish wrongdoing instead of restricting everyone ahead of time. But in this debate, the standard sometimes becomes: if harm is possible, access should be restricted. That’s not how we handle risk anywhere else. Imagine driving privileges, guns, etc., all being handled that way?

Calling child abuse "porn" centers the abuser's perspective. Using the term CSAM, or Child Sexual Abuse Material, centers the victim's perspective, and in no way diminishes the severity of the offense. That you believe "sexual abuse" is more palatable than "porn" is concerning.

@bingbongscho @CartoDependency @queerBengali i don’t know if this is the case anymore but historically when it was unsafe (to put it lightly) to be gay some lesbians would present socially as men so they could be with their partners, but they would still very much be women comfortable in their womanhood and not men

@CartoDependency @queerBengali Out of curiosity what are those reasons?

No. Lol Words mean things. If you’re going to identify as male, which is what saying your pronouns are he him means, you are no longer a lesbian. Words have meaning and lesbians have always meant a very specific thing.

@bruderSkin @ManySuchCases a woman faking her race to benefit from organizations put in place to aid poc is not the same as diagnosable gender dysphoria and just because you don’t experience it that doesn’t mean nobody does

@squidddad @ManySuchCases In other words, Rachel Dolezal is black. Because that’s how she “labels” herself.

There is a big difference between the sexuality of a man who is attracted to males only, and that of a man who is attracted to males and masculinized females ("trans men.") They are different sexualities and should be referred to accordingly. Gay is not an umbrella term.

@wmpwmpwmp1017 @nyanqueer_wren @hexagonalbird i wonder why so many lgbt people were charged with bigoted laws specifically passed to remove us from “civil society” 🤔 it really is a mystery 🤔

@nyanqueer_wren @hexagonalbird yeah ok LOL “90% of the transgender respondents had one sex offense conviction, while 6% reported an additional conviction,” “LGBTQ respondents were also more likely to have been charged with offenses that included sodomy and being HIV- positive.” source: williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/upl…

Acting like that's gonna make me change my pronouns. ....

@okhotsk_bgotsk @ManySuchCases if she wants to “identify as black” i can’t do anything to stop her. but it doesn’t impact me so why would i care?

@squidddad @ManySuchCases Rachel Dolezal identifies as black, and it's not your place to say she's not.

@bulkbiker @ManySuchCases i know there’s nothing bad about being bisexual! I’M bisexual! i LOVE being bisexual! but it’s not your place to define who others are happy being.

@squidddad @ManySuchCases Err yes we can...and anyway what's so bad about being bisexual in 2026 anyway.. they should embrace it. They simply aren't gay though.

We like the entirety of the male body - yes, that includes dick, dear. Our homosexuality is neither a "genital preference" nor a "big problem"; you are a homophobe for saying it is. Lastly, gay men don't date "trans men" because "trans men" are women.

@iamjeffreygmay @Fredayesthatone @ManySuchCases don’t care + didn’t ask + literally everyone who matters recognizes my relationship as gay + seethe about it

@Fredayesthatone @ManySuchCases @squidddad I'm outside all the time and I meet actual real men and actual real women. I enjoy it very much. It is impossible to change sex. You will always be a man no matter how you dress & how you wear your hair.

this goes for all sides btw! i don’t align with the left or the right and society doesn’t like that.

i’m not mad, i just think it’s funny that nobody can handle an opinion that’s different from theirs and will label you the worst of the worst in their mind because you SLIGHTLY disagree on one thing, even if you fully agree with the rest of their beliefs on a subject.

me: defends transsexuals and the reality of our bodies this fucking app:

@CoDeLuna6789 @Willowfoxxo okay i did a quick google and apparently they DO use skeletal remains (pelvis and skull) to determine *sex*, but recognize that there are limitations due to individual differences and age of the person when they died. social gender is analyzed differently.

@squidddad @Willowfoxxo I think it's mostly by how they were buried because even if there's any specific difference, a good amount of people can also have those differences because of some reasons, intersex, hormonal unbalances,... So that wouldn't work mostly just because bodies are diverse

True!

@JRMillerCWI @SimpPolice911 i despise the way men are treated when it comes to custody and child support

@JRMillerCWI @SimpPolice911 my mother kicked me out and forced me to live with my dad, with my sister and half brother staying with her. my dad was still forced to pay child support for my sister even though he took me in on one income while my mom and hers and her husband’s.

"If a woman files for a divorce, she should take accountability and be the one to pay for child support" 💯

@MUTANT_Q @Lispy_Dipshit yeah, i suppose. tomboy and femboy types in media but irl it’s always trans people which is a little funny to me because i can’t tell if he’s seeking them out or the other way around

@squidddad @Lispy_Dipshit So he's GNC attracted

@Lispy_Dipshit i’m not a woman myself but he’s bisexual so he is also into women, trans or otherwise

@Lispy_Dipshit i feel like some people would try to argue that my partner is a chaser. not that he specifically seeks out trans people (that i’m aware of at least) but his preference is for those who don’t necessarily 100% match what’s typically male or female, most notably transitioning adults

@thepeacepoet99 i’m 27!

@squidddad How old are you now?

When I tell my story of transitioning in the Middle East and detransitioning in the wake of the profound mindset shift I experienced about my life priorities following the traumatic events of Oct. 7, insignificant leftist trolls on this app often say: “You were never trans/never transitioned/you know nothing about what the trans community goes through.” Or, “You killed Palestinian children, you Islamophobe Zionist murderer!” But here I was four years ago: Living stealth, integrated into religious, non-gender affirming (highly gender segregated) sectors of society being perceived as the opposite sex, and still doing my part to promote peace between Jews and Arabs. What were most American pro-Palestine & trans people my age doing back then? They were having temper tantrums about being misgendered while not even remotely trying to ‘pass’ as the opposite sex. They were claiming victimhood status for not being asked for their preferred pronouns in every single interaction. They were promoting Palestinian terrorism as “liberation” while doing (and risking) objectively nothing of their own to promote peace between Israelis and Palestinians. They were virtue signaling. —————————————- My life in transition was insane! I had incredible, enriching, meaningful adventures while pretending to be a guy. But ultimately, I was living a lie which required deceiving everyone around me. Trans 🏳️‍⚧️ was an invigorating lie to live. I had so many incredible adventures that most women (female people) would never have had the chance to experience. But living this lie made my life increasingly more complicated in ways I could never have predicted. I couldn’t risk getting too close to people because hiding the truth took precedent. I didn’t want to be “trans.” I just wanted to be normal. I thought transition would reduce the social friction I’d experience in my life. And in some surface level ways, it did. No one pestered me about why I wasn’t putting on make up, having boyfriends, growing out my ‘beautiful’ curly hair and wearing form fitting clothes. But that came at the price of having to protect this lie at the cost of so many relationships, my health and my sanity. I was so committed to living a transgender life forever despite all the doubts because still, my life was happy and exciting. For this reason, I was unable to recognize my doubts as doubts. It took living through multiple terror attacks for me to begin to appreciate my health and to understand the importance of my body in keeping me alive. But that understanding was intellectual. It took living through the horrors of October 7 for me that my gender troubles suddenly became way less important to me. And that earth-shattering experience wherein I was forced to contend with my own mortality made me promise to myself that if I were to survive these manifold ever-unfolding horrors, that I would quit living the trans lie. And so I did. And I now live with the consequences to my mind and to my body from a decision that I’d made my mind up about as a confused, idealistic and autistic 12 year old girl who was not told the truth about just how developmentally, psychologically and physically derailing it is to pretend to be someone you wish you were- but objectively are not. ———————— Over the last decade +, trans people have been able to tell their stories: on TV, on the news and all over social media- without being accused of causing harm, without being threatened with death and rape, without being doxxed. They were celebrated. Why shouldn’t detransitioners be afforded the same?

@Yankeesfantwt @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 i ask a person if they’re sure BECAUSE i know it’s not about me. i want them to make the decision that’s right for them, with all available information. that doesn’t mean force women to listen to a 6wk “heartbeat” - it just means going over it and making sure she understands.

@squidddad @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 It has nothing to do with you, so you’re not allowed to. It’s as simple as that.

Lawyer here, the reason why prayer is allowed in Trafalgar Square and elsewhere is that praying is not illegal. Trafalgar Square is a public space and anyone can pray there if they wish no matter which god you worship.