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WHAT ARE WOMEN LIKE?? (how it applies to "Text Game") -- They have messy lives -- They are shy, and often unsure/insecure -- They are bad at making decisions -- They are often low energy (particular dating app girls) ALL THIS ^ you will see, again, and again, with women. I bet you already see it. So for TEXT GAME, your job as a man is to be a counterbalance for all of that. -- She is a mess, you have a plan/goal -- She is unsure, you are certain -- She is "vague" you are specific -- She is low "energy" you bring the energy. And the truth is... SHE WILL FEEL BETTER when she lives in this world you bring her. And YOU WILL FEEL BETTER. None of this is a "game-y secret method," this is classic masculinity. Basic principles of masculinity help you in the PICKUP --> As you take her # --> As you run your text game --> On the date --> As you escalate --> During sex --> In the rel. In every stage of the Flow (c)

@smirkingsoldier "And then they'll give sex up, once they've shown you who they are. A lot of girls that give it up quickly, they don’t have a chance to show you how great they are. And after a guy has sex... he thinks, 'Ahh, I'm not that interested.'" -- Janka

@fl4bbergasted @Pat_Stedman > it’s the red pill who’s selling the paranoia that all women are sleeping with attractive men they’re not invested in Redpill selling paranoia... yes, exactly.

@Pat_Stedman Ok but it’s the red pill who’s selling the paranoia that all women are sleeping with attractive men they’re not invested in. Not to say this is something that doesn’t happen though

The issue is more the sense of double standards. Most guys get resentful when a girl that clearly likes them wants to hold off on sex, because they presume she didn't make other guys wait. This is especially the case with older women who are most angling for commitment. It feels like bad faith / manipulation to guys and they opt out of considering her for something more serious, in large part defensively because they feel she views them as a beta / will use sex to control them later Women have a hard time understanding this response because most of them will actually sleep with a guy they like less overall faster if he's hot enough and it's "right place right time". They know he has no future so they don't delay; the guy they want more seriously meanwhile they make wait because they "don't want to ruin it" and want him to invest more This dual strategy being revealed puts women in a bind, because the natural courtship process of delay and making the guy invest to have sex has now been undermined by her (and other women's) willingness in other scenarios to have sex opportunistically. They have inadvertently penalized the guys they want more, and these guys aren't having it The result is that women who don't want to be promiscuous anymore (and even to a large extent women who never were, because their chastity isn't believed) now lose investment from desirable men - only the desperate ones will wait. If these women try to counter this by putting out fast however these guys often devalue them anyway - it is the male sexual instinct to invest little in easy women This breakdown in trust has led to the destruction of polarity itself, and it is one of the major factors contributing to the overall collapse in the dating market. Exceptional personality chemistry is having to pull more and more weight to make anyone commit to anyone these days - everything else is commoditized So what I'd say to women who want to wait until commitment - first do not expect him to not see other women while you hold off, and second make sure you are bringing something to the table that is distinct and valuable to him in a woman besides sex. The problem is many women who want to hold off do not do this, they think sex with them is the prize, and unfortunately that is the furthest thing from the truth in 2026

@jess_ann_pin @Pat_Stedman > How long I have made men wait has no correlation This is a current internet meme, where guys with very little life experience assume every other guy is getting "sex on the first date," so they insist that is the only way they know they are genuninely desirable.

@Pat_Stedman Dude what? Men don’t know how long you made other women wait. How long I have made men wait has no correlation with whether we ended up in a relationship. None at all If men want to wait they should make women wait

@Romy_Holland A crude phrasing (from a playboy, spoken to other players), but a good read: Why women should "ALWAYS WAIT (for at least) THREE DATES:" x.com/DaysOfGame_com…

the sentiment behind "why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?" is very clearly wrong at an individual level—the reason many guys won't marry the girls they're casually having sex with is because their bar for marriage is much higher than their bar for casual sex. if a guy sees a girl as marriage material, having sex with her won't change this. but it does make sense at a societal level, which is maybe what people were historically trying to enforce. if *no* women will engage in casual/premarital sex, men are forced to date seriously and find someone to commit to if they want to have sex.

@Romy_Holland > if *no* women will engage in casual/premarital sex For an individual woman, seriously limiting her own sexual partners will be a net benefit to her, regardless of what other women do. Not "zero" premarital sex, but the more partners, the more baggage.

i was 19 and casually seeing a girl. then one day! found a lump in one of my testicles while i was taking a shower. went to the doctor and it turned out that it was cancer and that they would have to remove it. oh, and i would have to have at least 2 rounds of the most intensive chemo out there if i wanted to not die. there was also the very strong chance that i would be sterile for the rest of my life. realizing that this was something that i might not survive i ended things and dropped off the face of the planet for the girl i was seeing, as i didn't want to end up being the dead boyfriend. she found out what was going on though and basically insisted that she be with me through it all. she came to every single 8-10 hour chemo session and helped me through recovery. fast forward 6 years and we are happily married with 2 kids and our 3rd on the way.

@shaneparrish Pacings on this episode was alien, too fast - read by AI?? Had to stop listening. Would love to hear this story read by a human.

You might never have heard of Harrison McCain before today, but you've eaten his fries. This is the story of how a farm boy became the French Fry King, without ever leaving his small town. This is the story of Harrison McCain.

@julebrus_kongen @Pat_Stedman You're welcome.

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9/10 women will tell you that they either DON'T prefer a virgin man or are indifferent to it. Three main reasons: 1) Indicates low preselection by other women 2) Presumed to be bad in bed 3) Makes the woman feel slutty I am not saying guys shouldn't be virgins if that's what their conscience and faith tells them. These issues can be mitigated with the proper framing and timing (of revelation). But the last reason to be celibate is because you think it will improve your chances with women. And yes that includes virgin women... especially the ones who aren't crippled with shame around sex.

@simonsarris > this woman is a 10/10, immense beauty So many women can "swing" from a 5/10 to an 8/10, based on her mood, or her energy. Beautiful women can look terrible, and plain girls can be shocking lovely, often depending on what they are feeling.

Relatedly any photographer could look at a still image like this and know this woman is a 10/10, immense beauty. You would no longer blunder like that. Other people can only read the photo, but you see the person in the photo. x.com/Ambar_SIFF_MRA…

One benefit of studying photography is that you learn to see this instantly with everyone. You learn to really look at people.

BOTTOM: "But it used to be easier..." --> "It's easier to bleed, than sweat." O'Connor MID: "I work hard... --> "The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war." Schwarzkopf TOP: "I love being this good... --> "Cry in the dojo, laugh on the battlefield" Musashi

@alpharivelino > A masculine woman, SHE wants to be the leader That is sometimes true. But I think many women choose that role out of a combination of innate masc traits, AND not *feeling* safe, so they think they have to lead... They don't actually want it. It's self preservation.

@DaysOfGame_com This is what I mean: x.com/alpharivelino/…

A feminine woman is attracted to a man who is older A masculine woman is attracted to a man who is younger

@Pat_Stedman > The ENERGY the guy gives off Yes. In sex, some of that is "passion" and "dominance," but a lot of it is being "available" to notice her, and respond to what she needs as needed. Not an "actors" energy (his role, self) but a "directors" energy (guiding the ensemble).

@DaysOfGame_com Very true. The ENERGY the guy gives off is much more important than the rest, which comes with practice anyway

Years ago, women were encouraged to change their look from time to time. Change their hair, dress differently, try new things to keep the marriage interesting and maintain attraction. That is good advice. You should make an effort to be interesting for your spouse. The parallel for men is variation in behavior. A man should be able to embody different modes depending on the moment. At times, you are gentle, attentive, and kind. At times, you are assertive, decisive, and willing to push. At times, you are sexually dominant and fully present in desire. At times, you are the father, steady and directive, setting the structure of the family. At times, you are the professional, competent and respected, demonstrating mastery in your domain. At times, you are the leader, making decisions and carrying responsibility without hesitation. At times, you are the friend, relaxed, playful, and easy to be around. At times, you are the boy, light, spontaneous, and enjoying life with your girl. Men respond positively to variation in a woman’s appearance. Women respond positively to variation in a man’s behavior.

GOOD IN BED: Having some real sex exp allows a man to be comfortable and familiar enough to turn his attention to her and to the shared exp. <-- to be a captain, not a passenger. It is hard to do that if he is overwhelmed or too focused on his own physical/psychological exp.

'Culture will never conquer nature; for it is always invincible.' -- Cicero mobile.twitter.com/DaysOfGame_com…

@Ambar_SIFF_MRA > men frequently prioritize loyalty, honesty, and compatibility over purely superficial looks Healthy. Healthy, and feminine, make it possible to spend more time around a woman. There are a lot of hot girls that make it miserable to be near them.

Henry Cavill and his longtime partner, Natalie Viscuso. They aren't particularly looks-matched. Most would agree he is noticeably better looking than her. Yet examples like this are quite common. It highlights how men frequently prioritize loyalty, honesty, and compatibility over purely superficial looks.

@animal @CaitlinPacific > Same girl. It's just not a great picture. Are you sure you're not overvaluing the makeup?

@CaitlinPacific Same girl. It's just not a great picture.

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Today's Dynamic Man Podcast will be one of the more important ones I've done in awhile "Is Christianity Masculine?" Will be very important for Christian guys trying to balance faith & practical success in their dating lives, & will approach some deeper questions 1030 AM EST

@Pat_Stedman I am a big fan of @thisisfoster (Christian) BOOK: "It's Good to be a Man." In that book he says something about Jesus being a kind of (over-) correction for Adam (=my paraphrase). For me, 1st Test is masculine. 2nd Test/Christianity, much less so. x.com/DaysOfGame_com…