Ruth Hartes (REM)

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Ruth Hartes (REM)

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Texas mom writing diary-style women’s fiction about multicultural families finding joy in timeless values. New Substack → https://t.co/337E2YJjGL

Allen, TX شامل ہوئے Haziran 2019
73 فالونگ89 فالوورز
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@buckeyebettie I accidentally found myself in a traditional family structure. My in-laws live with us, I stay home, and my husband works from home. It constantly dumbfounds me how amazing this has been for our kids. So I can’t help but agree. I think it’s a real shame this isn’t normal❤️
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Brooke
Brooke@buckeyebettie·
Feminism accelerated the breakdown of the nuclear family, which is the most stable environment for a child.
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@LisaBritton For me, keeping sex reserved for marriage saved time & set the priorities straight. My husband proposed in 1 month. We started in my grandma’s garage & built our life together. We’ve been married for 10 years. I know nothing is guaranteed, I just recommend taking it seriously❤️
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Lisa Britton
Lisa Britton@LisaBritton·
Sorry for reposting the swears, but I think this is important to highlight how class and morals have gone right out the window. This is the most popular podcast for women. I think it’s interesting that her brand is called “unwell.” Wearing the merch is actually a warning to viewers—this woman is “unwell.” You might not want to listen to her.
keeno ✧@ayekeeno

Call Her Daddy host Alex Cooper advises women to stop worrying about giving the wrong impression on first dates and to F*CK their date to avoid wasting time 💀🤔 “a man won’t just ghost you because you f*cked him on the first date, a man already knows”

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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@usuallypregnant One of the main reasons I do personally recommend having kids sooner is because you’ll have more time as a Grandparent. My Grandma had my Father very young and it wasn’t always easy. But I’ve also known her my whole life. And now my boys love their Great Grandmother❤️
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Barefoot Pregnant
Barefoot Pregnant@usuallypregnant·
Marry before your 20s Have children in your 20s And grandchildren in your 40s
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@WhiteBabyFac I’m personally also not a fan of the emphasis on “independence.” Competency is good. But I was engaged at 19. We started in my Grandma’s garage. We’ve been married 10 years. I personally believe building a life with someone you love is much more fulfilling than doing it alone❤️
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White Baby Factory
White Baby Factory@WhiteBabyFac·
We should start a 5th wave of feminism centered on traditional femininity. I'm sick of all this masculine feminism. Who's with me?
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@TheXMatriarch My husband is actually the reason our family started when it did. I was nervous. I thought kids only make life harder. Everyday I’m immensely thankful I listened to him. I will now and forever say; kids aren’t a burden on your life. They make life’s burdens worth bearing❤️
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Attraction Matriarch @TheXMatriarch
Attraction Matriarch @TheXMatriarch@TheXMatriarch·
The issue is not women being strong. The issue is women being taught to use their strength against men, marriage, and motherhood.
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@jess_ann_pin @LisaBritton I hear you. I’m not attempting to explain all of history, and I’m certainly not saying there aren’t bad men. I’m only sharing that, based on my personal experience with the men in my life — and now raising my two sons — I believe men are not bad or oppressive by default. ❤️
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Jessica Pin
Jessica Pin@jess_ann_pin·
@RuthHartes @LisaBritton How do you explain 10,000 years of patriarchal history and Afghanistan? How do you explain all the horrible things men wrote about women throughout history?
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@FelonSkunk37088 @LisaBritton Well the simple/funny answer is I went to Art College in the middle of San Francisco… I can’t pin it on a single professor or anyone but I don’t remember believing that going in. I genuinely believe no one had “brainwashing” intentions. Maybe just a bit of an echo chamber…
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Dubhthaigh
Dubhthaigh@FelonSkunk37088·
@RuthHartes @LisaBritton Why did you believe that? I agree with you however that good men are "made". Parents need to focus on raising good humans above all & stop this obsession with gender.
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@Rach4Patriarchy I specifically remember dreading the idea of casually dating…even when I was in junior high, I didn’t look forward to it. I just wanted to find my husband and be done. I always felt strange for this. Am I actually strange? Or did I just not hear things like this?
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Rachel Wilson
Rachel Wilson@Rach4Patriarchy·
This is slop and I would not be surprised if she had funding from some NGO. This is perfect cultural programming to convince girls that promiscuity is fun, and that if you don’t participate, you’re missing out. Sharing body fluids with random strangers is disgusting, not cool.
keeno ✧@ayekeeno

Call Her Daddy host Alex Cooper advises women to stop worrying about giving the wrong impression on first dates and to F*CK their date to avoid wasting time 💀🤔 “a man won’t just ghost you because you f*cked him on the first date, a man already knows”

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@musestoomuch That’s fair. If a marriage is genuinely abusive, of course that changes everything. I was mainly speaking to the idea of purposely avoiding marriage in pursuit of “independence.” ❤️
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Eri ♡@musestoomuch·
@RuthHartes solitude is never the goal.. sometimes it’s the lesser of the two evils (alone vs. bad marriage)
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Eri ♡@musestoomuch·
we focused so much on teaching girls to be strong and independent that we forgot to teach them how to be soft and lean on others when needed
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@sadgirlyboss I met my husband at 19, he proposed in 1 month (a bit soon I know😂) Our first home was my grandma’s garage. We’ve been happily married for 10 years and have 2 beautiful boys. So I can’t help but agree. There’s nothing like building a life and family with the one you love❤️
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sgb@sadgirlyboss·
im still shocked when i meet people who think there is anything more important than finding your person, marrying them, having kids, raising them well, and getting to heaven. the thought that there is anything on this earth more important than that has never crossed my mind.
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@Hitchslap1 In my opinion, one of the most important (and difficult) lessons I learned after my first baby was to not neglect my husband. I personally believe the spouse should take slight priority over the children, because the best thing for the children is a happy marriage❤️
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@AdamLaneSmith I was engaged at 19. My husband proposed in 1 month (a bit soon I know😂)Our first home was my grandma’s garage. We’ve been happily married for 10 years and have 2 beautiful boys. We built our life together. So I can’t help but say no. If you love each other, leap together❤️
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@DavidEdgington I met my husband in Art College in San Francisco. We were not traditional. But when we had kids I wanted to be home with them. So my role changed to supporting him while he carried us. I’m not saying everyone has to do this. But personally, our marriage has ever been stronger❤️
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David D. Edgington
David D. Edgington@DavidEdgington·
Why do so many women think that a husband’s love needs to be unconditional but a wife’s submission is conditional?
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@musestoomuch I agree. I do also think being a competent person is important. I just personally wouldn’t recommend solitude as a goal ❤️
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Eri ♡
Eri ♡@musestoomuch·
@RuthHartes when you’re with a good man you can make a beautiful life. truly happy to hear that 🤍
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@godlywomanhood I met my husband at Art College in San Francisco. We were not traditional. But when we had our children I decided I wanted to stay home with them. So my role changed to supporting him while he carried us. Personally, I don’t believe our marriage has ever been stronger ❤️
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The Transformed Wife 🦋
The Transformed Wife 🦋@godlywomanhood·
Submission NEVER causes abuse. Sin does. God’s ways are perfect. Submission by wives to their husbands makes marriages stronger and has saved many marriages!
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Ruth Hartes (REM)@RuthHartes·
@StefanMolyneux I used to believe that men have some kind of “natural oppressive tendency.” I think the reason it didn’t stick is because I married a great man & have a wonderful Father. I now have 2 sons. I’m personally convinced men are sweethearts hardened by the world & it’s prejudices.
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Gad Saad
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Have a great week, everyone. Life is magisterial and every moment is infinitely precious.
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