NullPointerReprised

but if you feel you've been taken advantage of, if you feel love has been used against you, if you feel you've gone over an agreed upon budget, if you feel vows and promises have been broken, i think a quick-n-deadly deactivation may be the most appropriate way to handle it. Sad but one's own emotional health has to be the priority.

Taking some time off to yourself when you feel like this is important and 100% valid. What makes me sad about it most of the time is how sudden it is. I understand the urgency to do it at times, but communicating your need to take a time off before doing it is also something I’d want.

Nobody talks about how sad it is when your fav sub deactivates

@Rich_In_Christ_ @AtheistPhoenix lol, god is a fairytale, your bible is not as well written as grimm's fairytales and you need a corporate sponsor to tell you what it says every sunday as you fill his coffers with cash.

@AtheistPhoenix God never invented any diseases. Every problem was brought by Humanity.

Why did your god invent cancer?

@ladycashmere32 a lot of new dommes think anyone who sends is a loser. And the irony of thinking i'm a poser who is a time-waster, lol. Ignorance. I don't suffer fools and don't put up with bullshit.

@NullReprised I can’t imagine entering someone’s DM’s like this!

I think she meant following. But nah, i don't randomly tribute someone because I followed and I bite back. Respect is earned. You don't get it for existing. Sorry if this (me) doesn't meet your aesthetic of a simp or a sub but if you diss me, you better be prepared for fire and brimstone in return.

@honeyslair thanks, so sweet to have so much care. Much appreciated.

@NullReprised Glad to hear you’re feeling better!

Hey guys, just wanted to update you. The amoxicillin has helped immensely. Day 3 now. Infection has moved out of my chest. Still have it in my sinuses but feeling much better. And my BPD depression has subsided and I feel good this morning. Much love to everyone who checked in on my.

@BunniBaixo Feel better, me too

I've been on antibiotics for a day now. The Princess has been ill. Get me a "feel better soon" treat 💖

@payparkerr You're gorgeous

Sometimes I wonder if the reason my media never gets stolen is because my watermarks work or if they think I’m ugly

@worshipsirena7 agreed.

@NullReprised True, but that is a simple generalization of human nature

"Dommes are evil and heartless!!" Meanwhile I'm dedicating My entire career to saving lives, I volunteer, I donate to shelters, I help refugees find housing, and most Dommes I know are actively involved in their communities in one way or another. Curiously, the people who complain the most about us are usually the ones who have never done anything for anyone without expecting something in return. How peculiar!

@goddess_ginger6 yes, makes sense.

@NullReprised “dislike the majority of it” was referring to the general stereotypes hierarchy of (fin)Dom/ (fin)sub, make sense? seems not your cup of tea

Not looking for a findom dynamic. When someone refers to me as a dynamic, it hurts. It's relegating me to an anonymous member of a flock. Ideally, a findomme should be as obsessed with me as I am with her. I'm not a dynamic, I'm a love interest. I'm not a loser, i'm a confident, talented, good looking man who loves RP. I'm not a bitch, though I might play one in session. I'm not owned unless we own each other. I'm not a simp. I do not pay you for attention, I pay you because I love you and want you. I'm not a finsub, i'm someone who pays women because it's hot. And remember, labels are for mayonnaise, not people. It matters not whether we are black, white, green with pink polkadots. At our core, we are all the same, all deserving of respect and love. I'm not saying there are not assholes out there who deserve disdain, but don't automatically assume, who we are, based on a community label. We are not all subs, not all losers, not all a dynamic.

someone tell her how much I've spent on findom in the last 12 months 🤭 But also, i'm not the bitch. Look in the fucking mirror, that's your answer. And how courageous. lobbing a hate grenade and then hiding behind a block because you know you are outmatched.

@goddess_ginger6 several times you have inferred that I hate findom, that's what I was referring to. No biggie, i'm a big fan of yours btw...

@NullReprised .. keep saying what exactly? was a question from a place of curiosity not malice, love, no one is telling you that you cannot think aloud

@scorpioniceyes yes, i see that. And in general I believe you are right. But it goes beyond fetishizes. I think most men in this community fall into that category. Especially young men who are influenced by toxic masculinity role models and weak fathers.

@NullReprised fairs, but the general population knows that a good number of fetishizers don’t actually love/respect women they just view us as sex objects so that’s the difference

submissive men are direct, organized, clean, responsible, generous, and sweet. you don’t have to spoon feed them because they are already competent. they are like knights defending their princess at all costs. don’t confuse/ conflate pathetic fetishizers with true submission.

@MoreForClaire @youpay tired of @ThroneSupport . They never reply to problems.

Thinking of removing cash gifting from my Thr0ne entirely and limiting it to YouPay. Too many shenanigans over there. If @youpay added physical gifts then it’d be oooover for them 👀

@scorpioniceyes i don't. Just giving my thoughts to something that appeared on my TL

@NullReprised if you’re not a “pathetic” fetishizer then it’s not about you so don’t include yourself 🤷🏿‍♀️

In the findom community, there is darkness, ugliness, homewrecking, blackmail, debt, ruin. But there is also deep love and respect. People often mistake my willingness to name the darker edges for disdain toward findom itself. That isn’t the truth. I have found real love here. Real respect. Real humanity. And that is one reason I stay, and why I continue to write and share.