@FloridScott @MistrexCheshire @surphs__upp @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander “Floridian” sees girls and women as the same thing.
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@MistrexCheshire @surphs__upp @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander What are you on? Do you need men everywhere to admit that raping lizards is bad?
The video sermon guy says run from a woman dressed provocatively because men are no match for the temptation. That IS taking responsibility.
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Men, I cannot plead with you enough to stand against the normalizing of this kind of behavior.
If someone is sexually aroused by a little girl in a mini-skirt, this is a deviant proclivity and should never be normalized...
Sheila Gregoire--She Deserves Better is here!@sheilagregoire
Little girls in mini-skirts in church parking lots? Here's Josh Howerton, telling the men in their congregations that if they see such a little girl, "run, Forrest, run--you are no match for that enemy." Because apparently little girls are tempting. And they're your enemy.
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@FloridScott @bezalelplace @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander The more I think on your responses to this issue the more I realize your belief system is pretty puerile and really not worth commenting on any further.
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@bezalelplace @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander Worse than Satan?? Friend, I didn’t say that or think it. Women want attention from men. It makes them feel good. The easy way to get attn is to wear less clothes. This isn’t deep theology or psychology.
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@FloridScott @bezalelplace @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander Your belief that women and girls ALL dress for the male gaze is bordering on hysterical! Who raised you? If you know anything about the messages women receive through media and the public, you would understand that women/girls are foremost influenced by fashion trends. And 1/2
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@AngEngland @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander Ultimately, most functioning, self-regulated humans cannot make sense of those behaviors because it is about an unhealthy idea of appropriate, not just normal, behavior. Those perps have lost or maybe never possessed a moral compass due to their own abuse, trauma or violence.
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@BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander Do you see where those attacks are caused by a woman’s clothing or by a man’s immaturity? (Note they are called youthful lusts on the part of the luster not impropriety on the part of the lustee)
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@AngEngland @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander That’s where most people who don’t understand the dynamics of abuse go off-track. We think a man who sexually assaults babies and toddlers are sick because “who would sexualize a baby?” All abuse is ultimately about power and control and maybe some mental pathology, but…2/3
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@AngEngland @BenDRudolph @R_Denhollander He holds beliefs that are problematic and no matter how logical or word-based you are you will not get through to him. He’s symptomatic of patriarchal norms. Little girls wear shorts to run around on a soccer field; participate in PE, go to bed, etc. It’s power and control… 1/2
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@miketheD88 @R_Denhollander If you see this as “gaslight” then you you either have low reading comprehension or you are who she is referring to😐
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@BenDRudolph @sheilagregoire @R_Denhollander Actually, Ben, when speaking of girls being a temptation to a man that is what he is saying w/o saying it directly. It’s interesting that he didn’t mention shorts, only skirts. You’re here thinking you’re being provocative. But you’re sounding like, “saying you’re a pedophile…”
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@sheilagregoire @R_Denhollander getting some strong witch-hunt vibes from you ladies
a) what part of "And" in my OP to Rachel do you not understand?
b) you said "CHILD". Josh did not. You are the one reading some kind of prebubescent pedophilia into this
c) nor did he said the girl herself was the enemy
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Please, USA, get ahold of yourself. This is not ok in any way. We need *national* policies & laws which emphatically & incontrovertibly PROTECT WOMEN’s & GIRL’s basic rights. We are under siege & need help! @SenateDems @POTUS @WhiteHouse @HouseDemocrats @OVWJustice @UNHumanRights
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In Florida, gop lawmakers have decided to pass a bill which will allow c-sections to take place outside of hospitals. That's right, major abdominal surgery which has numerous risk factors associated with it no longer needs to be performed in an actual hospital in Florida. Actual medical experts including OBYGNs have stated that this law will put women at risk. Highlighting once again that the gop are not interested in the well being of pregnant patients.
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@Harrys_Garage @davidgmandel You’re as stupid as you look 🤡
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@davidgmandel Most abuse, neglect and murder of children is by mothers.
Most DV is perpetrated by women on men.
Apart from that, you're spot on 🙄
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A short excerpt from the chapter on "The Myth of Failure to Protect" from my soon to be released book "Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers: How to transform the way we keep children safe from domestic violence"
"Failure-to-protect culture ignores the role that systems play in creating ongoing danger for children. Instead, it makes the survivor the sole person responsible. She’s not only expected to overcome the perpetrator’s actions but also the failures, limitations, and missteps of systems."
To get updates on the book's release sign up here: share.hsforms.com/1HoyBU-O6R3GY9…
#coercivecontrol #StopBlamingMothers #StopIgnoringFathers #FailureToProtect
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Mothers in the courtroom are damned if they do, and damned if they don't.
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A system that fails to protect our children from abusers - simply bc there is an assumption that children need 2 parents - is a system that is archaic & broken. Children thrive with one protective parent & do not need to love or spend time w an abuser. It’s twisted to assume so.
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Atefeh, a mere 36, stood as a valiant voice in Iran’s #WomanLifeFreedom movement. Nightly, she boldly cried “Death to Khamenei” from her balcony. Tragically, the Islamic regime’s agents snatched her away, subjected her to brutal torture, and took her life. Her body was ruthlessly returned to her balcony, staged with a gas hose in a horrific attempt to fabricate a suicide. This heinous act exemplifies the regime’s deep-seated hatred towards women, their freedom, their hair, their dance, and their song. This is the cruel reality under a barbaric regime.
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This is the kind of accountability we need.
A system where judges can make horrific judgements with no consequence for themselves - will only breed more horrific decisions that devastates children and families.
Judicial immunity produces a culture of impunity.
Center For Judicial Excellence@JudicialCenter
In May 2020, a Cleveland, Ohio judge ordered two teenage boys to a weekend in a juvenile detention center for refusing to go with their allegedly abusive father. That judge now faces the Ohio Board of Professional Conduct and may see sanctions including losing the seat he has...
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@grantwyeth gets to the heart of the matter. We live in a violently enforced, self-perpetuating hierarchy, one we all accept and promote - of male supremacy, and nowhere is this clearer than in family court systems.
themovementofmothers.org/2023/11/03/hig…
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'We implicitly believe that men have the right to a certain amount of violence. Our laws may pretend that we don’t, but the application of these laws demonstrate we do.
It is within this environment that the idea of “parental alienation” has thrived.'
themovementofmothers.org/2023/11/03/hig…
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We continue our 🔥❤️🔥🔥 presentations and discussions tomorrow - with speakers from the fields of advocacy, media, law, academia and survivor communities - helping us increase our understanding of coercive control in all its guises.
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This is the phenomenal ICCC 2023 lineup today with presentations on a great range of topics, all connecting the dots and discussing how coercive control shows up in systems large and small, from families, to social and justice systems, to governments and nation states. Join us!
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Too often the justice system enables the abuser & fails to protect victims of violence & coercive control. Professor Amy Bonomi and prosecutor David Martin will report on how this happens & their work to reform for stronger accountability and better protections for victims.
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