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BCoop
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Follower of King Jesus. Husband to @Cory_Marie. Dad to Campbell, Mary Bradford, Gains, & John Ryle. Pastor at @NewSpring. IG: @bradcooper Memento Mori 💀💀




Luther: “The rich and divine bridegroom, Christ, marries this poor, wicked harlot, redeems her from all her evil, and adorns her with all his goodness. Her sins cannot now destroy her, since they are laid upon Christ and swallowed up by him.”

New research indicates that fathers build bonds best with their children (and craft secure attachment in them) by "destablizing the child" in a "safe environment. Fathers in the study had a unique ability to make their children laugh and therefore create more perceived safety for the child which led to stronger attachment. Mothers made children feel safe too, usually with repetition and soothing, but the laughing and playing did not make the children as attached as it did when fathers performed it. Several things jump out from this at me: First, a father who is relaxed enough to laugh and play indicates a safe environment. Fathers are biologically the providers of safety, so if dad is relaxed, the world must truly be safe. Children may be picking up on this. Second, being worthy of a father's time and attention is a huge marker for kids. A father's attention may actually mean more in many cases, as we've seen in other studies. The bond with mom is equally as important, but sometimes the bond with mom is taken for granted, where the bond with dad is taken as remarkable due to perceived other demands on his time. What this means: Dads, you've got to be playing with your kids. As silly and disruptive as possible. They need this from you. It's one of the strongest ways they can bond to you. More about the research: psypost.org/laughter-plays…


Dear Protestants, Your Bible lacks 7 canonical books, removed by Martin Luther and John Calvin as “Apocrypha”. Protestants often quote Saint Jerome to justify this removal. Saint Jerome later changed his mind about the 7 deuterocanonical books in obedience to Pope Damasus. His famous quote from the Helemeted Preface (quoted daily by Protestants) doubting the 7 deuteros dates from 391. Nine years later he wrote that he had submitted to the Catholic position and rejected his private opinion. Can Protestants please drop their fan fiction that Jerome was a Proto-Protestant? Later in life (in Against Rufinus around 402 AD), he defended the Church's judgment on the 73-book canon saying, "What sin have I committed if I followed the judgment of the churches?"

The advice is to not “push religion” on your children. Harvard followed 5,000 kids for 14 years. Teens who attended church weekly were: 18% more likely to report high life satisfaction 18% less likely to suffer depression 33% less likely to abuse substances Psychologists say religion provides three things nothing else replicates together: meaning, structure, and belonging. Obama’s Surgeon General spent years warning about a youth mental health crisis driven by loneliness, loss of purpose, and lack of community. Secular isn’t neutral. You will raise your child with someone’s values. The only question is whose. (Via Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, 2018)

For the first time ever, we are gathering in two stadiums, making room for more students than ever before. Not just expanding our space, but expanding our faith for what God wants to do. We are calling a generation to live for what matters most – the name and renown of Jesus.

“I trusted in Him not just in the good, but in the bad [this season]. I understand that suffering is good for us, as followers of Jesus. I’m taking that into my next route in [pastoral] ministry - Just leading people by example, as a servant, like Jesus was.” - High Point Guard Chase Johnston after their loss vs Arkansas Johnston was wearing a “Jesus Wins” shirt too 👏








