
Jared Benoff
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Jared Benoff
@JBenoff
CEO @ Vacationeeze | Boutique travel company specializing in group travel | formerly @x and @usdol
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@Seanfrank I plan destination weddings for a living and the amount of joy I see when a couple is able to save money by not doing it at home AND host all their friends and family is incredible. The memories are worth it
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I spent $294,000 dollars on my wedding.
I booked a boutique hotel in Mexico that is only 34 rooms- so I could book the whole thing.
I paid for all accommodations- food, alcohol, etc, for 3 nights for all the guests.
It was cheaper than doing it in LA.
Here are the details:
1- me and my wife have been together for ten years.
We got married 5+ years ago at the courthouse.
But we knew we wanted to have kids soon, so we decided to finally do the wedding party.
We live in Los Angeles, but have friends and family from all over.
I’m from Washington state, we lived in Texas, her brother is in Utah.
If we picked LA- at least half the people would be flying in.
2- asking people to travel for weddings is a lot.
I am also from a poor area, and frankly my friends and family wouldn’t have $2,000+ to drop on travel and hotels.
Everyone has kids and shit, so having people fly in just gets expensive fast.
3- LA venues are crazy.
We looked at hummingbird nest ranch, and they wanted $100,000 for the day.
We looked at some party hall rentals and they wanted $25,000 minimum, plus you had to use their food and bring in bathrooms.
The best one we looked at was the Greek, the music venue.
It’s owned by the city and because of that you don’t pay the wedding tax.
You could get the whole venue for $25,000 and use whatever vendors you wanted.
But by the time we started specking everything out, it seemed like you couldn’t do a big wedding party in LA for under $100,000
4- we hired a wedding planner, Chloe Skelly (very good and cool), and she is the one who floated Cabo to us.
If people were already flying in, why not have them fly to Mexico?
We did a tour of a few places and hotel San Cristobal really stood out.
Very remote. An hour up the coast from Cabo. Small venue, so you can have the whole hotel. Great food, fish caught right there, gardens growing vegetables.
So then we ran the math.
5- there are lots of ways to get married in LA for cheap
But when you start adding in venues, vendors, rentals, hotels and travel for the guests.
The total economic burden was easily 300k.
So we said fuck it.
We can afford it, let’s give our friends a great vacation.
We ended up giving 60+ people an all expense paid vacation for the same cost of what LA would be.
My tips:
- don’t do this unless you can afford it.
Me and my wife were happily married for free at the courthouse.
- never go into debt to do this.
This was something we could do once and not think about.
- if you are doing this, a wedding planner is key. They will have local vendors and know prices.
- the photographer and video people were so expensive because they had to be flown in. You could save 20k going with local talent. We loved working with May Iosotaluno- she did our engagement pics, so we went with her.
- you could do this WITHOUT paying for everyone and still have a great time lol
Why am I sharing this?
Just so other people can know what’s possible and the cost of stuff.
Not enough people share real costs.
So hope this helps some future married couple!




Sean Frank@Seanfrank
@big_duca Ive been married for years. Finally did the wedding last year. Doing it at a venue in La would have been that or more. So I booked an entire hotel in Mexico for 3 days and paid for the whole thing for the guests. Basically the same price, except they got a vacation
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I have personally seen 6 brands restart growth using the "hudson method"
we are talking 5m a year brands to 100m a year brands.
the steps:
1- seed hundreds of creators on tik tok
small, new accounts, no one famous
2- pay them per video PLUS commission
BUT heavily incentives them to post LOTS of videos
bonuses for posting 100+ videos a month
3- take all the creative, load it into every ad channel
you just solved creative bottlenecks and unlocked infinite ad angles
4- scale ad spend on EVERYTHING, while still paying the creators commission on the ad sales
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it isnt about tik tok shop sales.
it isnt about gmv max.
its all of it.
you get free cpms on tik tok.
you get unlimited content.
and it jump starts the whole business
more ads, more angles, more channels.
this is named after the legendary founder of comfrt, hudson. all hail the ugc king.
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@ramit Have you ever used a travel advisor? A good one could handle a lot of this for you.
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Some unconventional ways I travel:
DO:
- I use an SOP (standard operating procedure) document, which includes my airline/seat preferences, what time I prefer to fly/land, when to economize and when to splurge, and more
- I add 50% to any hotel sticker price — that's the real cost. $500/night = $750 after taxes, tips, meals, treatment. If that number is too high, shorten the trip or stay somewhere cheaper
- Every ~10 days of travel, we have one completely unscheduled day
- I send a pre-arrival letter to hotels. My wife and I don't really drink so we'd prefer berries instead of a welcome gift of wine
DON'T:
- We don't book many high-end food reservations. It's just not for us
- Eat food on plane (even business class). True luxury is bringing your own food and walking off a plane feeling great
- We never book a trip and show up to "see the sights." Each trip has a theme, how we want to feel, and we focus the travel around that. We pin items ahead of time, then we can be spontaneous while we're there, knowing we'll see a few magical things we've already set an intention for
- Treat trips as "once in a lifetime." We know if we love it, we can come back
I have more specific ways I travel (next tweet)
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I just spend a week at a Mexican resort with 150 doctors. And wow.
I can now say with 100% certainty that I know what the biggest wealth creation opportunity of 2026 is.
These guys are the best of the best, each making $500k - $5m+ per year.
I gave a keynote about how to implement AI into their practices, and what I learned kind of shocked me.
I asked how many knew what an AI wrapper was.
MAYBE 2 hands halfheartedly went up.
Vibe coding? Crickets.
Replit? Nope.
How many have ever uploaded a file to AI?
Maybe 20% of people.
I couldn't even get through my 2 hour talk because they were asking so many questions.
These guys were almost all 35-55 year old wealthy Americans, on the cutting edge in their field.
I don't care what size the business is - small, large, medium, it doesn't matter - business owners are DESPERATE for someone to do 3 things for them with AI.
1. Solve problems.
2. Save money.
3. Make money.
So what's the opportunity?
Get in front of them for free. Any way you can.
In your local area, preferably. Rent a freakin' Holliday Inn conference room for an hour if you have to.
Promote the event with the FB ads + Eventbrite integration.
Have your buddy sign them up for a demo in the back of the room.
You will have 5 figures in monthly recurring revenue in a matter of days, not months.
You don't have to do an event, but the close rate is stupid.
I know of at least 10 people doing this today.
X is a bubble.
The stuff you see here about OpenClaw, AI wrappers, Claude's capabilities, etc, is all 2-3 years ahead of the general public.
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@KevinEspiritu @epicgardening Which revenue level saw the most things break and taught you the most?
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Just found my old revenue tracker for @epicgardening:
Side Project Era
2014: $968.72
2015: $4,761.99
Full Time Era
2016: $17,262.97
2017: $73,486.34
2018: $159,835.15
2019: $498,887.36
2020: $2,520,958.59
2021: $7,340,230.39
Funded Era:
NOT TELLING YOU BUT IT'S HIGHER
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@sam_allsopp_ Loved this. I’m 1 year in and can’t believe the sheer amount of daily decisions.
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@NiklausFuller This is incredible. What a journey and path you’ve carved.
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I quit my job 3 years ago to pursue independent consulting.
It completely changed my life.
Here’s a quick 3-year update:
Year 1: Built a lifestyle business, lived in Europe for a month, worked 20 hours per week, earned 2x my previous W2 income.
Year 2: Brought in a business partner (great decision), worked a ton, hired 10 FTEs, became the #3 global partner in our industry, earned 5x my previous W2 income.
Year 3: Welcomed baby #2 and took 1 month of paternity leave, scaled to 25+ FTEs, stepped back from daily delivery, hired a full sales team, maintained global partner leadership, earned 9x my previous W2 income.
Extremely professionally fulfilled.
Excited for 2026.
Looking to invest or buy a (tech) services business - let me know if you have one.
Nik Fuller@NiklausFuller
Well, I did it. I quit my job yesterday to build a one-man consulting shop. Wish me luck!
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$25,000 went into developing this project
I created a collectible card series for entrepreneurs. All generated with AI
I did this not as a joke, not as a product, but a marketing experiment for my peer group business, Scalepath.
121 unique designs, 250 decks, 12,500 cards.
Did it for most of the speakers at Main Street Summit, and a few friends and members of my business, Scalepath.
Every design captures the entrepreneur’s personality and essence of their business in a fun pop culture theme that mirrors their journey and unique work.
If this works, I’m a genius. If this flops I’m an idiot.
Image of every card is included is included in this thread here.
Enjoy!

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@mhp_guy Also incredible the locations they open. Some are super small and in undesirable locations, yet attract huge crowds. Also pricing is 🍌🍌
10/10 will buy again soon.
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@thesamparr Etereo. Easy flight from NYC, short drive once you land.
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@StrongpointRich This was me. Closed on our first business when our baby was 4 months old; closed on our second when he was a year old 😅
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@JBenoff This is fascinating! Thank you for sharing!
I received your email, too!
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@NewRetirement @ramit 100% Many couples I speak to often have 4-6 weddings per year for a multi-year stretch. Between potential travel, gifts, and outfits, it's likely thousands of dollars per year.
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Standard caveat that this is anecdotal, general, and purely based on my experience (we plan ~80 weddings per year in Mexico/Caribbean, $20k avg budget, 70 guests on average):
-Couples from HCOL cities generally save at least half by getting married abroad (ex: a recent couple was planning to spend $150K in LA, but spent $48K in Mexico). They also generally assume their friends/family have a higher propensity for travel and are a bit more likely to push the guest budget.
-When the groom is the primary driver of the conversation, the guest budget is often a lower priority compared to the overall vibe and wedding budget concerns.
-When the couple keeps the wedding small (i.e. under 40 people), I tend to see guest price as a big factor and the couple is more concerned with making sure their "core people" are there with them.
-More people invited generally means more people to please and therefore more activities, restaurants, etc at the resort. Some of our largest weddings are at the largest resorts; this isn't a coincidence.
-Generally, with South Asian weddings, guest price and vibe are the #1 and #2 factors, respectively, more than any other affinity/religious/cultural group.
Emailed you with more thoughts!
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@JBenoff Please tell me more!
What patterns do you notice? Are there differences in genders/cultures/sizes of parties?
Also, what do you mean about COVID?
Please feel free to email me if this is easier: ramit.sethi@iwillteachyoutoberich.com
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@NWischoff Do Mexico. We're out of peak season and the weather is still super nice before getting too hot around July.
-Rosewood Mayakoba
-Etéreo
-One&Only Mandarina
-Esperanza
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