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Ben Sears

@BJ_Sears

Registered existential counsellor interested in meaning making, the art of suffering, and evolutionary psychology. Loves a jog | First, do no harm.

Wales/Cymru, UK Katılım Eylül 2021
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Wales-Women’s Rights Network 💜🤍💚🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿
It's the Senedd elections in just 28 days. What does the future hold for Welsh women and girls? ❌Men in women's private spaces ❌Extreme ideologies pushed on your children ❌Gender abattoir clinics ❌Silencing of critics Know what you're voting for.
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Wesley Yang
Wesley Yang@wesyang·
"The result is I'm a 23-year old gay man who's never had an orgasm and may never experience one. Let that sink in." Jonni Skinner tells the California legislature's judiciary committee how he was puberty blocked, dosed with estrogen and rendered anorgasmic as a minor by gender clinicians that never inquired into the source of his gender confusion as a child and instead put him on a pipeline to a lifetime of medicalization. Full text of his comments below: "When I was young, I was a feminine child, and I discovered trans influencers online. They said: 'Change your body and your life gets better. Don't and it gets worse.' Or, as my doctors told my mom, I would commit suicide. The medical and mental health providers didn't bother to ask why I felt the way I did. They poisoned my body with blockers and hormones, arresting my puberty and messing with my development. The result is I'm a 23 year old gay man who's never had an orgasm and may never experience one. Let that sink in. I was rendered anorgasmic because once you say you could be trans, that's a full stop -- no exploration as to why is allowed, even if you are struggling. The former president of WPATH, Dr Marcy Bowers, the California surgeon who had performed the surgery for Jazz Jennings at 17, admitted on video that puberty blockers, followed by cross sex hormones, results in no orgasms and stunted genitals. SB, 934 guarantees that more people will end up like me, the walking but wounded. I could have been spared all of this, if any of my therapists would have explored why I felt dysphoric. But they never did. They only led me to hate my body more. The Supreme Court just ruled in a rare bipartisan decision that laws like this are unconstitutional viewpoint discrimination. This bill is an attempted workaround that will be used to silence therapists who could have helped me avoid the irreversible harms to my body and the loss of my sexual function as is the same for many others. So today, I ask you to extend some empathy to survivors like me and vote no for this bill."
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It's not clear if @BACP & @WelshGovernment consider the exacerbation of MH issues and regret about 'gender reassignment' as 'unitended consequences' of an 'inclusive ban' on conversion practices. If they do, they have never voiced it, and actively shut down those who have.
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Kurt Mahlburg@k_mahlburg

Finland tracked every gender-referred adolescent in the country for up to 25 years. Their psychiatric needs didn't improve after 'gender reassignment'. They surged. A landmark peer-reviewed study just dropped. Here's what it found. 🧵

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'Gender affirming care' is not lifesaving. It's not even care.
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Kathleen Stock
Kathleen Stock@Docstockk·
Today is publication day for my book DO NOT GO GENTLE: The Case Against Assisted Death. Kim Leadbeater's bill was the catalyst for writing it, and at the time, it felt like the task was urgent. Back then, the positive stories about assisted death sounded to me like fairytales. I wanted to explore the reality of assisted death more deeply. Justifications offered by supporters were so often mindless mantras about rights and "choice", but I wanted to see how it all fitted together, and what choices it gave to vulnerable people in reality. The writing period was a strange time. Every day I faced the fact of mortality, the nature of pain and suffering, and the darker sides of human nature. Yet I was also completely uplifted by the selfless compassion that humans can show to one another, when life is ebbing away. This week, Leadbeater's bill runs out of time. There is already talk by pro-MPs and lobbyists of flooding the private members' bill ballot, so that a similar bill arrives in the next parliamentary session. In the meantime, the public has some time to think properly about what kind of society we actually want. Is it one where state-sponsored death is treated as a solution to social ills? Or can we stand together to get something better, and far less bleak? Though times are hard, I still hope for the latter. I also hope that my book will be widely read, and especially by those tempted by fairytales.
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"Feminists originally fought to get people to see women as having a fully human nature. In practice, this means that women vary from one another — but it seems the old myth of a feminine hive mind can still occasionally be useful."— @Docstockk
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THE LIMITS OF BODILY AUTONOMY, by Kathleen Stock (@Docstockk) Infanticide should be fully decriminalised for mothers. Cases like those of Constance Marten — whose dead baby was found in a shed, placed in a plastic bag — should never come to court. Only a tiny number of mothers kill their infants each year. Those that do are inevitably vulnerable and gravely traumatised. Putting these women through police investigation and prosecution simply damages them further. Much like the old defence of domestic violence, the police should just stay out of it. Replace the general term ‘babies’ with ‘babies still in the womb’, and this was the underwhelming shape of an argument offered by the abortion provider, the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS) this week, defending the parliamentary reform that recently decriminalised late term abortion for women, right up until birth. On this approach, the death of a baby is only ever something that happens to a woman and never something she does. Yet how can women seeking late-term abortions for healthy babies both be disempowered, traumatised wrecks, but also clear-sighted rational actors whose decisions society should respect? Read more below ⬇️ buff.ly/g4tUJXW

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"There's not much point looking for internal coherence; ideology is entirely dictated by what might draw bored eyeballs."— @docstockk
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HOW LOUIS THEROUX OUTMANNED THE MANOSPHERE, by Kathleen Stock (@DocStockk) For people who talk endlessly about escaping ‘the matrix’ — meaning the 9-5 grind, labouring away fruitlessly for the benefit of shadowy elites — manosphere influencers, ironically, are almost entirely made up of other people’s projections. They pine desperately for public attention, and are constantly conjuring up ways of getting more. In Louis Theroux’s latest documentary, everyone is trapped in degrading roles, passive in the face of their own limbic systems — the streamers themselves; the half-naked OnlyFans girls straddling them for the camera; the liberal feminists and fat-positive influencers wheeled on to be horribly insulted; the viewers doing the slack-jawed scroll in their bedrooms, dreaming of having big channels one day too. This urge to be famous starts young. For every massive streamer account, there are thousands of unknown ones made by children, where pre-pubescent wannabes film themselves gaming or reacting to videos. In a parallel universe, boys like this grow up to have happily ordinary lives, unnoticed by the all-devouring algorithm. In this one, though, they get caught up in a freak show, dutifully becoming pitiful monsters. Read more below ⬇️ buff.ly/M4mpqgJ

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William Costello
William Costello@CostelloWilliam·
There’s a strange asymmetry where relatively niche manosphere slop content is treated like a major cultural threat, while massively popular female-oriented content (e.g., Call Her Daddy) whose popularity builds on misandry and sowing conflict between the sexes rarely receives any scrutiny. Meanwhile, the male-oriented podcasts that actually dominate the charts (@hubermanlab and Modern Wisdom) are about healthy physical and intellectual self-improvement. That tells you far more about what most young men actually find aspirational. The kids are alright!
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Just finished the @louistheroux manosphere doc. He definitely made them look silly at times (which isn’t hard tbf). But ultimately these guys don’t care how they come across. The clicks and attention are all they care about. What the doc never really interrogates is whether their “influence” is actually as large as people assume. My intuition is that their content is just slop for low IQ teenagers and not really that influential.

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"This hyperbolic reaction is an indication of how the NHS came to take foolish, unevidenced decisions in the first place. A fear of upsetting activists has led to a widespread acceptance of the language of an unscientific ideology, while overlooking potential harm to patients."
UnHerd@unherd

‘The idea that “gender dysphoria” represents a genuine mismatch between biological sex and “gender” has gone unchallenged for far too long.’ @polblonde 👇 buff.ly/ViI924o

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J.K. Rowling
J.K. Rowling@jk_rowling·
Stephen Ireland, who targeted me with endless abuse on here because I oppose the chemical castration of children and the removal of protected spaces for women and girls, has just been sentenced to 30 years in jail for child rape.
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"if someone is mentally agile enough, both to notice her own social deficits and then seamlessly compensate for them, why are we treating this as autism at all?" — @docstockk
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THE FEMINISATION OF AUTISM, by Kathleen Stock (@Docstockk) For decades, the developmental psychologist Uta Frith endorsed the idea of an autistic spectrum in her celebrated work on the condition. But in a new interview, she says that ‘the spectrum has collapsed’. Too many people with importantly varying characteristics are being included, and the concept is no longer a useful clinical tool. She proposes ejecting a large subgroup of people from the autism club: those diagnosed during teens or later, without clear intellectual or communicative impairments, but who exhibit ‘hypersensitivity’ and ‘feel highly anxious in social situations’. Most of these, perhaps needless to say, are female. The most recent wave of expansion of the autism category has been towards conditions emerging in female adolescents that bear scarcely any similarity to the original archetype at all. This was the great feminisation of autism, and it really hasn’t helped. Read more below ⬇️ buff.ly/ENx3fZu

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