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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿

@BigBenInLondon

Programmer Hobby Machinist #Bitcoin Maximalist #DeSantisConservative

Richmond, VA Katılım Mart 2009
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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿
The number one killer of children ages 1-4 is accidental drowning. I've added a blue square in my profile to call for common sense pool reform. We're not trying to take your pools, but no right is absolute. No one needs access to a deep end. #EndDeepEnds #ItsThePools
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@mindoverweaknes If you've watched the show you'd know that their relationship was far more complex than this. Both have valid points. Marriage is a partnership and if it's not working for both of you than you must tackle that as a shared problem.
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Mind Over Weakness
Mind Over Weakness@mindoverweaknes·
Many marriages are like this. Men sacrifice their personal life for the family but women want more and more. Nothing is good enough for them.
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jordan@jordanticus·
my thoughts are just noise my feelings are just sensations my anxiety is just my amygdala my love for others is just oxytocin etc etc etc This logic is exhausting, reductive, and incoherent. You can't declare one part of you as noise and then make up meaning for yourself anymore than you can tell yourself you love the taste of dry chicken but that you find the taste of ice cream revolting.
Chris Alvino@ChrisAlvino

Learning Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) combined with lots of meditation. What you learn from this is that thoughts are just noise, they don't mean anything. And emotions are just sensations in the body. YOU are the one giving them meaning. And guess what?

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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿
@Buckeye_Nut1993 @alphafox My wife would tell me to save the kids. If I had to choose during a major conflict whose side to take (like, I'd become estranged with whoever I didn't pick), I'd choose my wife over kids. But which life to save? I'm positive we'd both say save the kids over each other.
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SuspiciousJ@Buckeye_Nut1993·
@alphafox In a Christian world view its God, Wife, and Kids. Sorry, but I am saving my wife, I choose her to spend the rest of my life with, kids grow older and move on.
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AlphaFox
AlphaFox@alphafox·
Would you save your wife or your kids if your house was on fire?
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Fr Matthew P. Schneider, LC
@shebringsjoy Did you get your actual prescription? I don't know about your heavier glasses, but I know a few others who found glasses matching their prescription cheaper online than with insurance.
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Sarah St. Onge ن ♀🦬@shebringsjoy·
What is the point of insurance, even? My glasses broke last week- it’s been almost two years since I had an eye exam, so I scheduled an appointment for this afternoon. I went through the whole process, only to find at the end that the exam itself was $45, and the ugly glasses, with no glare reduction, coatings of any type at all, single vision, etc…. Are $321. I literally just paid the exam copay, and left. So I just paid for a service I can’t even utilize, when I am having trouble putting groceries on the table. Note: I am coke bottle glasses near-sided. I cannot drive, cook, etc, without my glasses. Like- why isn’t this covered by my insurance? This is worse than the fact that dental care isn’t covered. This is what I mean when I say I am tired of living this way. What is the point of this?
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Siji Oladeji@Lightgang_·
@fwdaniels @grok This question itself is flawed. Daily ejaculation leads to frequent orgasm, and frequent orgasm causes a sustained elevation in prolactin levels. Chronically elevated prolactin suppresses the neurological and vascular signals responsible for penile erection, and this occurs
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kache@yacineMTB·
All of the money you are spending on your one hour therapy sessions should be reallocated to hiring cleaning staff to clean your home. It will help your mental health more than a bad quality reaffirmer ever will
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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿
The toxicity may be them, but it may also be yourself. As an anxiously attached partner, these things present themselves repeatedly; not because my partners were bad but because I was hardwired to perceive threats where none existed. Working on my own anxiety has changed the way I react to my partner (and my children, and even my dogs).
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"Fake it till you make it" is pretty on point here. Nervousness is your body detecting potential threats. The neuroplasticity of your brain can alter the threat detection model through repetition and the conscious observation that being around new people isn't actually threatening. You literally have to expose yourself until you learn it's not so bad.
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TheLizVariant@TheLizVariant·
I came across this post and let me tell you … the comments are wild. 🤣🤣🤣🔥
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LIZZY💥@LizzyStarrrdust·
🇺🇲🔥🤘🏼 America. FUCK YEAH!!! 🤘🏼🔥🇺🇲
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𝟚𝕤𝕞𝕠𝕜𝕖𝕪𝕪
Resentment is weird because yes i want to forgive you,whole heartedly but my mind is struggling to comprehend why did you do that to me.
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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿
@MomsPostingLs You COULD let the outcome be the teacher; trying to teach your SO can backfire just like this if you don't thread the needle properly. I speak from experience. I'm sure it turns out fine either way if you monitor it, why risk making your SO feel devalued for a pot of pasta?
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Guns and Rosaries
Guns and Rosaries@GunsAndRosariez·
I would rather smell cigarette smoke than marijuana smoke. Every day. All day.
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Married Man's Mystery - Dominant Polarity
It's a skill issue yeah, and also a woman's natural love of having some kind of drama in her life. This craving for drama gets a bad rep but they can't help it, so it has to be worked with. I've seen my own house turn into a dumpster before when I was mentally out of action for a week or so. I wasn't leading, or spiking her emotions in anyway during this off time, and magically 100 little issues like this one sprang up. Women are natural drama magnets so I've found it best to control her source of drama by becoming it, which isn't as dark as it sounds...
Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️@NoahRevoy

This is a skills issue. She was never taught how to be a wife and mother. Never learned how to clean a house, organise tasks, get things done efficiently, finish what she starts, etc. Now of course its going to be overwhelming when you are not properly prepared for the task. Sadly so many women don't know and its ruining the joy they could have. Which is sad. It would take 30 minutes of concentrated effort to put that place in order.

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Sosa | Mental Strategist
Sosa | Mental Strategist@MetaMorpehus·
Patience is a form of violence. Quite obvious to anyone who's felt it. Clenched jaw for months. Slow business. Then all at once, demand after demand. Pure test of heart. What most never learn is how to recoil. Bite until their gums bleed. Every day is war, until they notice they haven't slept properly in years. Fire and return.
Sahil Bloom@SahilBloom

The ability to quickly reset and recover. From a bad interaction. From a bad day. From a missed workout. From a poor decision. You can start over whenever you want. You can't always control what happened, but you can control how long you carry it.

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Benjamin Wunder 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🇺🇦🟦₿
@nickimoraa Deserve is not a word for the way the world treats us. No one deserves to be raped. But rapists exist. Just like no one deserves to die in a car accident but negligent drivers exist - you have to be on the lookout for underserved pain because the world does. not. care.
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Nicki 🫧🪷@nickimoraa·
If you tell women to change their behaviour to avoid being raped, what you’re really saying is, “make sure he rapes the other girl instead.” There will always be a woman who is more vulnerable less sober, less confident, with fewer friends around her, or walking alone in a darker part of town. She deserves to be safe just as much as I do. Safety shouldn’t depend on which woman was easier to target that night. The problem isn’t women’s behaviour. The problem is men who choose to commit rape as an act of violence.
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