DecolonizeTheMic

@Nwabuezesopuru0 @tidimjones @instablog9ja Idk who you think youre talking to but it cant be me sha 😊 Every non nigerian lady I have talked to say the same things about nigerian men nkt that they wont date yall but omo

@DecoloniseTheMi @tidimjones @instablog9ja Have you seen how stupidity you sound, Nigeria girls think simps treatment is love.

35-year-old man = “perfect husband”… but 30-year-old woman = “too old”? 🤔 Double standards dey run this street full time 😭 Even YOM sef add pepper: 24-year-old man na “small boy” to 19-year-old babe 💀 Na who set these rules abeg? 👀👇

@EkelemeMartins @tidimjones @instablog9ja If yall treated nigerian women with actual love and respect the samw way you do for diaspora women rather than just dashing them money they would learn to love and respect you. 😊

@DecoloniseTheMi @tidimjones @instablog9ja Oga shut up. He is not wrong. To Nigerian women love is what he can do for them. It is poverty-motivated. He did not lie even one bit. I have tested the both. Its not the same at all.

@tidimjones @instablog9ja I'm not interested in name-calling. My point remains: it’s difficult to make a fair comparison about 'love' when the effort and respect levels you're willing to invest differ based on geography. Why is that difference there?

@DecoloniseTheMi @instablog9ja You don’t sound too bright, Just like your username , it seems you would need another Mic to Colonize cos this mic is not for you fam!

@tidimjones @instablog9ja Ona nau. Yall are so stupid for using this concept i think men who use it are fools because all thongs aside y'all dont treat nigerian women the way you'd treat women from outside nigeria so how does it compare??

@instablog9ja Love in 🇳🇬 & Love in Diaspora are two different things my bro! I pray every man live to experience both , and they would never go back to any girl in 🇳🇬

@rdj_emi @instablog9ja No 19 year old girl thinks a 24 year old is a small boy lol women date older men and are usually happy when older men approach them.

@instablog9ja She didn’t see that reply coming 😆 She thought her reasoning was the premium. That’s why it’s necessary to question your thoughts always. Ask yourself: “What if doing this will make me st¥pid” If the answer is “Yes” You can proceed if you’re comfortable acting st¥pid

@LastWeb3_hunter @Iateyourdad79 @IdongesitUduehe @Barry_sneh @Only1Etubo @ss Omo this your page doesn't say anything good about you😂😂😂 like at all after i blocked you on my other account i jad to come here to tell you youre very foolish 😂😂 uneducated baboon lmao i can see that you didn’t go to good schools thats why sufferhead is plenty in your body

@Iateyourdad79 @IdongesitUduehe @Barry_sneh @Only1Etubo @ss Nahh Sheybi you want to argue blindly? You'd think alot of people you come across this space are stupid like you Went through your timeline and I already know the kind of person you are So for the record FUCK YOU!

I have tweeted this a few times, and I will tweet it again. Firstly, we cannot say they didn’t build or buy a house for their fathers just because it wasn’t posted online. Secondly, if they didn’t, there must be a story behind it. Lastly, and most importantly, we men underestimate the importance of bonding, showing up, and emotionally supporting our kids. We act like these things aren’t as important as providing. Many men don’t even try at all. no bond, no emotional support, and just providing. Do you know why many men are quick to disown their kids? It’s because there is no bond. We see it online all the time: a video of kids making mistakes, and men commenting, “If any of my kids try this, I will disown them.” That easy? The first thing that comes to your mind is to disown them? I changed so many diapers, soothed their sickness, and endured every tantrum, and you just want me to disown my kids? Many men see kids as people they only need to provide for. If all you do is provide, while the mother does the showing up, emotional support, and bonding, then when the kids grow up and it’s time to give back, they will do the same. Not because they are bad kids, but because that’s what they learned. They will celebrate their mother more. They will talk to her more. Meanwhile, you as the father who only provided, will only receive financial gestures and gifts. You will be taken care of. They will like post their mom and rarely post you. Ask people who openly celebrate their dads if all he did was provide. But if you never celebrated them when they were young, why should they celebrate you? You can’t expect them to miraculously create a bond you never built. If you’re lucky, your kids may unlearn that pattern and try to build a relationship with you, but it will be difficult, because they were raised with, “As a father, it’s my way or the highway.” I work 12 to 16 hours sometimes, and my daughter has a game right after that. I get tired, really tired, but I still show up. And many times, when I get there, the smile that lights up her face when she spots me in the crowd is priceless. I love seeing that. Do you think I always have the strength to go to parks, birthday parties, pools, and watch her play sports? Sometimes I want to rest, but I still try. And whenever I can’t make it, I communicate that with her. I don’t just fail to show up. I explain and give her reasons. So, my brothers, providing for your family and being emotionally present aren’t mutually exclusive. Try. Otherwise, when you are down, your kids won’t be beside you on your deathbed, but they will make sure you d*e comfortably.

@TheEbayMichael @Sauc_y2002 @spiritbeing01 @jefferykhalid1 @DeluxeWrites @George_karebo @Ewatomiby If you like dont go qnd read the constitution and learn about your rights and possible crimes yiu can commit be here yapping that theyre slaves 😂😂😂

@Sauc_y2002 @spiritbeing01 @jefferykhalid1 @DeluxeWrites @George_karebo @Ewatomiby Slaves. It's pure oppression. Na una wey no guide dem fit dey use this kind things dey oppress sha.

Got arrested and detained at Area F in Ikeja over what I thought was just harmless banter. I was invited by the DPO, so I went there calmly, thinking it was something I could easily explain. I explained everything… told them it was just cruise. That same day, I was locked up. Spent over a week in a cell because of something I didn’t take seriously until my lawyer came through 🙏🏾💔🥲

@Siador4 @TaeTaeFound @cynugwudike Be better people. Nigerians can never properly maintain stuff

@TaeTaeFound @cynugwudike How can we fix it

at a supermarket in cotonou and omo 😭😭😭😭😭 god i hate nigeria

@pretty_nonye Omo there is always a woman who tries to belittle our efforts when we try to fight for all women. May God also do the shit you do right back at you

I’ve never been raped Sexually harassed or assaulted And I’ll never be🙏 Y’all should stop generalizing

@Dikankandi @Darrenpro001 @DaTwin24 @msbisiagain Why not pray it happens to him that they rape him why pray they rape his innocent daughter? 😳 thats why i asked why will you pray such for the gir

@DecoloniseTheMi @Darrenpro001 @DaTwin24 @msbisiagain The girl that stepped out and was harassed in the video isn’t someone’s sister or daughter? Or your morality and consciousness only begins when it hits home?

raping girls in broad daylight, the videos are scary asf. i hope every one involved dies the worst way possible!

@Darrenpro001 @DaTwin24 @msbisiagain Why would you pray that for his daughter?

@DaTwin24 @msbisiagain I pray your future daughter would be ganged raped brutally so u can come up and tweet "it's a festival too"

@DaTwin24 @msbisiagain You know that right to freedom of movement is a fundamental human right yeah? 🙃

@allieviews @sofiimusee @maxvayshia Naaa let's be honest men look down on women who go into those types of fields male lecturers make things harder for them and then their coursemates treats them differently

If men decided to pull out of Obstetrics and Gynaecology this minute, you ladies would immediately become extinct. Over 90% of Gynaecologists are MEN cos you people don’t even care about eachother enough to go into such a stressful and VERY MESSY discipline. Always wanting the soft life. Lazy arses.

@NdamPonjul99 @bigstepper890 @ItzCephas @maxvayshia Persin wey get fufu for brain

@bigstepper890 @ItzCephas @maxvayshia Chemistry, law and accounting no dey dominated by females

@AntoIbeh @bigstepper890 @ItzCephas @maxvayshia Yea his opinion 😂😂

@bigstepper890 @ItzCephas @maxvayshia Do you have a reputable stats to back up this claims stating there are more women in these courses than men ?

@bigstepper890 @ItzCephas @maxvayshia I know like 5 female medical students and like 2 male med students 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

@ItzCephas @maxvayshia Medicine is filled with women my gee, chemistry, Biochemistry,law, accounting,are these useless courses to you.

@glow_world_1 @3xPierre @GloriousGod01 There a reason those kids arent his and its obviously because hes incapable of fathering children 😊

@3xPierre @GloriousGod01 What would you have done ????

You're already 36, your wife is dead, and you just discovered the two kids she had aren't biologically yours at all. Do any of these: 1. Track down their real father if you have all the time in the world, then hand the children over to him. 2. Give them up for adoption. 3. Don't fool yourself into thinking you want to keep them. Their biological father could show up one day, and your mind will never be at peace raising another man's children. 4. Take them straight to your late wife's family; her parents, her siblings, anyone. Tell them plainly you cannot raise children who are not yours. Say very little, drop the kids with them, and leave. 5. There is no need to keep mourning her. Start looking for a new wife immediately and aim to remarry before you turn 38. Move quickly, but don't act desperate. 6. I repeat: Do NOT keep those children with you. End of discussion. Above all, love God.

I haven't been on twitter today - but someone brought a few of my old tweets to my attention and I can't not address it. 14 years ago, I was 23, so I was definitely not a child. I'm not here to make excuses because I don't have anything to make excuses for. What I can't let anyone do is twist my story to fit false narratives. In 2012, I lived and helped out at my mom's daycare while I was hustling my music. I tweeted everything that happened in my life, as we all did at the time. Kids can be mischievous. If a child did something I found funny, I tweeted about it. Kids are cute and lovable. I want to hug, kiss and cuddle them. I tweet about it. Nothing I tweeted was from perversion. I was not famous, so maybe if I was, I would have understood that anything is open to whatever interpretation including being used falsely by a faceless mob. I've never been depraved in my life. You can retweet all the tweets in the world about me loudly crushing on people I admire/d. Or being a cheeky young woman. I wasn't trying to hide it, because I don't have anything to hide. My team has been deleting some of my tweets because of how sensitive it is for my family. To be honest, I did not want to. I have always spoken against rape and sexual assault even before you knew I existed. It's not a costume I'm wearing, it's who I am. I've never claimed to be perfect. I've never claimed to know everything. I said stop raping women. I stand by it.

@socetyhatesjay Thank im going to stream her now

WE MADE YOU😂😂 if we no stream your useless music, you go get money??? if we no support your music, where you for dey??? you wey your neck long like ladder before with your rags. better behave

@girlsMum1 @Wizarab10 Does your brother act sleazy? 🙃 why would he be falsely accused

@Wizarab10 Men should leave women alone, don't r@pe or sexually harass us abeg, but in as much as I'm scared for myself and my daughters, I am also scared for my brothers, false rãpe accusers should be made to go through the same punishment râpist go through.

She wrote this? My God! 🤦‍♂️