Tess 🏳️‍⚧️

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Tess 🏳️‍⚧️

Tess 🏳️‍⚧️

@Gortress

she\her; hrt 11 15 23; programmer; metal enthusiast; autistic but special interest is sarcasm

Iowa, USA Katılım Kasım 2022
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@OddballxP It is incredibly difficult to be people, and most people make it look easy, like it came natural to them somehow.
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Oddball :3
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i do not think im a mentally okay person and that really bites im not sure ill ever be normal enough to have healthy relationships with my oomfs, i am actually way too parasocial i am now realizing and idk how to fix it
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@michellexotter It is like, I just want to make my partner happy, and if pushing them against a wall or some light grappling or flogging or cnc or whatever is part of that, I don't mind it. I'm more into genuine passion than complicated role playing but, whatever works.
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Michelle Otter 🏳️‍⚧️🦦
Whenever I hear someone says they are a submissive top or a dominant bottom it breaks part of my brain because I just can’t imagine how that works lol
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@OddballxP Try dungeons and dragons, otherwise you'll end up doing some sport thing one person enjoys and the others suck at, or staring into your phones at a restaurant.
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
how do you hang out with people? idk how that works, what do you do? why do you do it? social interactions make no sense
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Aspen goes birding⛸️
The youth yearn for tiny sub $1000 dollar studio apartments in walkable cities
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Kivvy Cat!@KivvyCat·
Whats a good starter sin for someone just getting into transgressing against god
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@hasanthehun We shouldn't attack China, but we should be clear that we will defend Taiwan in coalition with the world, while excluding China from trade, should they invade, see also Ukraine.
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hasanabi@hasanthehun·
democrats. do not try to engage in china hawkery. please do not repeat your mistakes. the best and only path forward is peaceful coexistence and cooperation.
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@LukeTrago @hasanthehun the best way to make sure they don't risk Armageddon is to make it clear that is what they would be doing i prefer China returns to the pre Xi policies of cooperation and economic growth but I would prefer if my own government did that too.
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Luke Trago
Luke Trago@LukeTrago·
@hasanthehun Everyone projects their own imperial ambitions onto China. It's pretty astonishing. Yes, China wants Taiwan. No, they're not gonna risk armageddon and militarily invade Taiwan. The only reason there would be a conflict in Taiwan is if the United States interferes, as always.
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@upshine3 you are not alone and i can help you with this because this thing or similar happened to me is the vibe but some people think it is a competition
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✦ 𝓢𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓮 ✦🪐
As a neurodivergent person, I’ll match your story with one of mine thinking it shows empathy and solidarity. Next thing I know, someone says I’m trying to compete. Bruh, I’m not competing—I’m just trying to relate the only way my brain knows how.
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@OddballxP i just info dump the definitions of words like reckless and capricious and let my kids autistic sense of justice handle it now that she can properly categorize the behavior.
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
what is the proper way to punish a child who does something like this after being repeatedly told not to? i mean the vid is probably staged but what would a reasonable person do?
mala@mala_malaghazal

he is a real man

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@rosezeemore if you want that but like more goth, check out xmal deutchland, if you vibe with the more avant-garde Siouxsie, her The Creatures project with budgie has more of that and a lot of drums for some reason. 😆
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Rosie
Rosie@rosezeemore·
I only started listening to Siouxsie and the Banshees and I’m obsessed and I never really listened to them before
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Rosie@rosezeemore·
Probably a band out there that’s my favorite band and I’ve still never listened to them yet
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@suchnerve What if you grift conservatives into tattooing algae into their skin so they can get energy from the sun instead of having to eat chemical laden processed food? like as a joke
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Vivian
Vivian@suchnerve·
Floating the idea that I might become a conservative grifter at any point in the future is definitely way up there near the top of the Most Offensive Things It’s Possible to Say About Me leaderboard and I’m not joking
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@stacycay Personally, I think the Communists should just admit they were wrong and join the ROC. Or at least accept the status quo and decide to work together, two governments, one nation. But people are rarely not gigantic fucking assholes.
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Stacy Cay
Stacy Cay@stacycay·
You don’t understand: Taiwan was actually promised to China 4,000 years ago
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@OddballxP if you are on pills probably if you are on injections possibly not age and genetics are a big factor, but I'm just on the shots.
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
Do I have to take an anti androgen when taking hrt? I don’t think I have the money for it right now will hrt still work without it? Or am I just wasting my time and money
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@OddballxP I dunno if any of this is helping. But the goal should be to find an exit from the situation, not all the situations forever.
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
@Gortress i have a disability application in the system and after calling they said i should get a phone call by the end of the month, not sure what about but im hoping they accept it soon cause having absolutely no money is no fun
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
im bored and its starting to make me feel really depressed again because i genuinely dont know what i stick around on this world for. i have nothing, i talk to no one, im just wasting time and energy sticking around for nothing whats the point of any of this? i can not see one
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Tess 🏳️‍⚧️
@OddballxP being disabled is ass, even just my dumb ass having diabetes once set off the allegedly woke white guy from boston boss I had one of the last times i worked in an office. like bro i just need to finish my lunch so i dont die, i have insulin on board.
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Tess 🏳️‍⚧️
@OddballxP just have to figure out what would get you one step closer to any goal you might have and take it even if that step is finding a therapist or something like that, depends on what has you stuck.
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Oddball :3
Oddball :3@OddballxP·
@Gortress idk i feel like not being able to be out as trans is definitely causing issues, but also if i was out it would make it even harder for me to try and get a job because im too scared of what everyone else thinks of me
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Tess 🏳️‍⚧️@Gortress·
@OddballxP Being on e makes my brain feel so much better though. Having hips and breasts has helped with the disassociation, a lot. but i work from home so I don't have to deal with working retail or the kind of misogyny involved in kitchen work
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Tess 🏳️‍⚧️@Gortress·
@OddballxP I'm targeting an undeclared butchy non binary situation rn. I wish I had started hrt in my 20s when it would have been safe and I lived in seattle but here I am in my 40s in a red state in the worst political times of my life.
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