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@i2equalsj2 @ArtemisConsort @ZyMazza It may be the other way around sometimes because IQ has nothing to do with how good you are at reading other people. These machines though? Facial recognition of emotions is scarily accurate already.

@ArtemisConsort @ZyMazza I think you'll find it's the other way around.

I just don’t really believe in the superintelligence thing. I do think the spectrum of possible intellect dwarfs the maximum intellect of man, I just dont think it really matters! What can a 2000 IQ being do that a 500 IQ being can’t? At a certain point knowing isn’t the barrier

@sulmoney @andrewhopper The thing is, once people heal the emotional wounds he talks about, ADHD symptoms improve. I do know some non traumatized ADHD people, I think there is more than one cause for someone to struggle with focus/perception of time.

@andrewhopper He’s hardly an ADHD expert He’s the poster boy for trauma trauma trauma being the “root cause” of anything and everything He’s overly reductionist and simplistic But he sells lots of books and gets paid to talk, so people listen to him

Joe Rogan had the world's top ADHD expert on his podcast. He revealed mind-blowing facts about ADHD that 99% of people wouldn't know. Even Joe Rogan was speechless. Be prepared to have your mind blown... 7 uncomfortable truths he exposed: 🧵

@allen_brutus @BovrilG HMO (house of multiple occupancy) can be hell depending where, low end communal is not very fun. Also HMO law makes it hard to find a place with a few friends, forcing the need to live with random unbearable people when life gets tight.

@BovrilG Closure of residential mental institutions might have something to do with this? Low-end communal accommodation is much less fun if it means you are in the company of deeply disturbed people

The decline of the boarding house between 1950 and now is a topic that deserves more attention. If you wanted to move cities then, you could get a cheap room, breakfast and dinner for a few months more or less anywhere easily, and it’s much harder now and I’m not sure why.

@whitecaphoosier @dotampabay @DrewHLive Look up 'ecstatic dancing'. Many middle class whites are taking to it because it is healthy to let your body move how it pleases to express emotion. But if you associate being repressed with dignity then you're right.

All future DEI hires on the way to destroy your life brought to you by affirmative action

@Makatokenboi @MichaelStanwyck @dotampabay @DrewHLive Ecstatic dancing is a big thing in the UK, middle class "spiritual" people pay for classes cos it's an innate skill our culture has lost.

@MichaelStanwyck @dotampabay @DrewHLive Can you show me another race who does this?

@blahhhhh1202 @icmpressure @dotampabay @DrewHLive Apparently for this guy civilised means repressed and probably mentally ill. Nobody who sees dancing like this as a problem behaviour can be proper happy in their own skin.

@icmpressure @dotampabay @DrewHLive since when is dancing in a celebratory manner uncivilized? people have done that forever across all cultures

@saviorshoney @Aella_Girl Everyone, traumatized or not, has to revisit their past identities to face new stages of life. It's normal growth, and doesn't mean it isn't "fixed", just that it needs to be looked at for an "update".

@Aella_Girl There are also a lot of people out there who thought they fixed it for many many years only to have it unexpectedly reappear later in life in a novel situations fwiw.

I used to be pretty fucked up from my childhood (nightmares, trouble sleeping, invasive violent imagery, constant sense of rage), but after an intense meditative process I fully fixed it, down to the roots. Rage just vanished overnight, never had another nightmare about it, etc. I get the sense this is really rare? Most ppl who are childhood traumatized seem to be carrying it for their entire lives. I just assumed there was some cohort of ppl who got lucky and solved their issue, but I'm realizing I'm not sure I've met anyone actually? This makes ppls skepticism that I'm actually pretty chill about my childhood, make more sense.

@Chezetaki @Aella_Girl That approach to the average human does sound pretty well adapted depending where you live. I trust the average person at the barn/venue I call my local, but not at the pub down the road.

@Aella_Girl I will never easily trust the average human because trust is whimsically turned around for their benefit. But I've at least managed to find some few trustable and dependable humans.

If you have childhood trauma, are you still traumatized, or have you fixed the trauma?

@petrolatumlinga @Aella_Girl Trauma is relative, if everyone is beaten up by their parents then it's accepted and integrated. If you're the odd one out because of it, it will leave a scar and become part of your identity as you grow up.

@Spencer_Gray @Aella_Girl I guess those who didn't just don't engage cos the topic isn't interesting to them

@Aella_Girl The idea that 60% of respondents were traumatized must seriously mean the term has been watered down to nothing.

@gorillagun @Aella_Girl I think you can learn to deal with those "ugly heads" and integrate how your experiences affect a new life stage, without it having to turn into a bad mental health situation. Psych work doesn't have to mean ill. But if you decide that things aren't fixable then they aren't

I don't think you can "fully fix" your trauma or mental health issues from childhood. You can address it, recover, and learn how to spot those responses quicker. And even lesson how many you might have in a given period. But mental health is a continuing struggle throughout your life. Sometimes involved and difficult. Other times fairly smooth sailing. But as you get older you realize those issues will occasionally rear their ugly head. And you have revisit them in therapy and your daily life. I dealt with issues concerning my mother for years when I started therapy 30 yrs ago. Years went by of smooth sailing. Only to have brought back to the forefront when I divorced and lived on my own. You never know what life change or experience is going to trigger childhood trauma. Sometimes it's a little thing. Sometimes it's a main event. It doesn't go away fully. There is no cure. But pretty effective remedies from a number of sources.

@garethkthomas "Learn to let go" would be such better advice.

@FatherMcKennaa As much as I love my friends, if someone has a mental health disorder they want treated, a retreat will know how to handle them better. Those two scenarios don't cater to the same porpoise.

Psychedelic retreats cost thousands. A campfire and trusted friends cost $0. Choose wisely.

@Vickinumber10 @BBCNews Because the stress of being in hospital unnecessarily puts the baby at risk too. Labor is hormone driven, and environment matters. Plus, hospitals have more sick people than home. For a first it's scary but once you know what good and normal feels like? Homes best.

@BBCNews Why would you put your unborn child at risk? Get to hospital!

Expectant mums left 'uneasy' over homebirth future bbc.in/4aWPjHK

@Ggodzmack @dasShaker1 @MomsPostingLs If men were meant to inseminate and go, they'd have short pointless lifespans like bees. After reading you defending the one you got it from, maybe we'd be better off =/

@dasShaker1 @MomsPostingLs My government paid my mom child support even though my dad never did, like a government should, if they can't support the only thing that secures the prosperity and future of the nation then they're doing it wrong. My dad has 10 children and couldn't pay even if he wanted to.

@AyyyLordNito @divya_venn It depends on the workplace, labouring spaces tend to cross the respect line, outdoor instructing not so much.

@divya_venn This is the most glass half full mentality on what some people would view as workplace harassment that I’ve ever seen, lmfao. Has it worked out for you, or did it end weird?

I’ve been in male dominated spaces my entire life and the fact that it’s common to encounter people who wanna date you is a massive professional and personal advantage

@orchardmama17 @adhdjesse I don't think the tweet refers to a 16 year old... I get it's hard, but it's a skill that needs to be learnt. I had to cheat myself making my clock run fast, setting alarms and keeping my toothbrush in the fridge so I remembered to pack lunch the night before 😅

@adhdjesse The struggle is real. My 16 y.o. has such a hard time being on time…and soon admin seems almost gleeful about giving punishment for tardiness

When I was a kid, I was late to school every single day. Not some days, or most days… EVERY day—always late. Waking up “on time” for school (or work) felt impossible.

@theyondan @harmonizedgrace @xLeslieErin I agree it's vital. It crushes me to see people who think a restart will fix everything, which tends to be the norm. Btw, I don't think people in the past did the work either, the norm was to suck it up. Very few put in the work it takes to both stay together and be happy

@HannyCastro91 @harmonizedgrace @xLeslieErin Sometimes even if you put in the work.. it doesn't. I didn't suggest the parents jump from one unhealthy relationship into another, and people often need to work on themselves. However, being able to model healthy behaviours and relationships is vital to help children develop.

@theyondan @harmonizedgrace @xLeslieErin So I guess the question is, above that could they do the work to become a healthy relationship? Or do they need to separate and learn with someone else? Unhealthy patterns tend to repeat themselves if not addressed.

@harmonizedgrace @xLeslieErin Dealing with it healthily would have been to separate and be happy balanced individuals so the kids don't see an unhealthy relationship and think it's normal.

@VictorVillaDev @igrokall @harmonizedgrace @SacDaddyX @Boxing_Pandas So 55% of divorces are due to men not pulling their weight then? (Cos of they did, those women wouldn't need to "compromise"). Doesn't make them look too good either...