
RVA Dad
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RVA Dad
@JBalazek
Dad of two, Husband of one. Teller of Dad Jokes.



Bad news, dude: If your kid doesn’t play travel/AAU they have no chance of playing varsity in high school. Only exceptions would be small, rural schools without many players to choose from. Any decent sized high school, every kid on varsity plays travel.




If Marco Rubio is the 2028 GOP nominee, Dems can't screw around with another weak, unpopular pick.





When I was growing up in the 1970s and 1980s no one saw color. We were all just Americans. Why did that change?


We are the only team executing advanced underground scans of the site where Noah’s Ark landed. Soon we will show it all to the world..








I took my 11 year old to her checkup this morning and the nurse asked me to step out of the room for a moment. I politely declined and she said, "It's just for a moment." And I told her, "No thank you, given all the stories about children being abused my husband and I decided to never leave our children alone with anyone, even medical providers. Anything you need to do or say you can do with me in the room." She looked all miffed and just left, no idea what her plan was but she didn't feel the need to continue it with me present and that makes me even more suspicious?? When she left my daughter thanked me for not leaving, she's already shy about the doctor, her eyes got so wide when the lady asked me to leave.



Kids know the score when they aren’t good enough. If girls don’t make the ECNL, they often quit within 2 years. If they don’t make Varsity by sophomore year (girls) they quit because there is a varsity or bust mentality. ECNL and MLSNext have made more kids quit, than gone pro.

I’m not entirely convinced by the usual explanation for why so many kids, often cited at around 70%, quit by age 13. Pushy parents and inexperienced volunteer coaches are commonly blamed, but I think there’s more to it. As kids get older, they develop greater self-awareness and start to recognize that they’re not as skilled as they once believed when they were just playing freely at ages six, seven, or eight. The reality is that many young players never build a solid technical foundation, which hinders understanding of the game. As the game becomes more demanding, requiring greater commitment, involving more travel, and offering less playing time, those shortcomings become harder to ignore. Faced with these challenges, a lot of kids lose interest. When basic skills like first touch or ball control aren’t there, the gap feels too big to close, and many simply decide to walk away.












