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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH

@MereHarvey

wife, mom to two littles, former doc, still figuring it all out

Katılım Temmuz 2022
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Paleoncologist
Paleoncologist@JOSEPH45075332·
This graph tells a better story than the average. Almost immediately after graduation, doctors start quitting, and it drops at a continuous pace for 25 years. No plateau. Just continuous decay. Looks as bad as some of the survival curves in oncology! 20% are gone in 5 years! 5 years!! They train for 7 years after college and quit in less than that. They get out as soon as they can! That says one thing clearly - Graduating doctors are realizing that this is not what they signed up for The gaslighting during med school and residency fades fast in private practice. Doctors are not dumb.
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C. Michael Gibson MD@CMichaelGibson

The mean age of physicians who leave clinical practice in the US is now 48.1 years, 9 years younger than observed in a similar cohort in 2008. The biggest causes cited were stress and the hassles of practice. 11% of women decided not to even enter practice. What are your thoughts about this? thepermanentejournal.org/doi/10.7812/TP…

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Hurley
Hurley@Johnsjawn·
Or go to the Presidio, jump in the ocean, get a coffee at The Mill, watch sunset at Twin Peaks, ride a bike anywhere, see live music, eat a burrito, take a grass nap in GG Park, have beer at The Page, watch the Bay Bridge lights, wander Chinatown, wander Ferry building, run across GG Bridge, walk Fort Funston, eat the best meal of your life with friends…drive any direction for 2hrs. And be deeply grateful for the heavenscape you live in.
Deedy@deedydas

The vibes in SF feel pretty frenetic right now. The divide in outcomes is the worst I've ever seen. Over the last 5yrs, a group of ~10k people - employees at Anthropic, OpenAI, xAI, Nvidia, Meta TBD, founders - have hit retirement wealth of well above $20M (back of the envelope AI estimation). Everyone outside that group feels like they can work their well-paying (but <$500k) job for their whole life and never get there. Worse yet, layoffs are in full swing. Many software engineers feel like their life's skill is no longer useful. The day to day role of most jobs has changed overnight with AI. As a result, 1. The corporate ladder looks like the wrong building to climb. Everyone's trying to align with a new set of career "paths": should I be a founder? Is it too late to join Anthropic / OpenAI? should I get into AI? what company stock will 10x next? People are demanding higher salaries and switching jobs more and more. 2. There’s a deep malaise about work (and its future). Why even work at all for “peanuts”? Will my job even exist in a few years? Many feel helpless. You hear the “permanent underclass” conversation a lot, esp from young people. It's hard to focus on doing good work when you think "man, if I joined Anthropic 2yrs ago, I could retire" 3. The mid to late middle managers feel paralyzed. Many have families and don't feel like they have the energy or network to just "start a company". They don't particularly have any AI skills. They see the writing on the wall: middle management is being hollowed out in many companies. 4. The rich aren’t particularly happy either. No one is shedding tears for them (and rightfully so). But those who have "made it" experience a profound lack of purpose too. Some have gone from <$150k to >$50M in a few years with no ramp. It flips your life plans upside down. For some, comparison is the thief of joy. For some, they escape to NYC to "live life". For others still, they start companies "just cuz", often to win status points. They never imagined that by age 30, they'd be set. I once asked a post-economic founder friend why they didn't just sell the co and they said "and do what? right now, everyone wants to talk to me. if i sell, I will only have money." I understand that many reading this scoff at the champagne problems of the valley. Society is warped in this tech bubble. What is often well-off anywhere else in the world is bang average here. Unlike many other places, tenure, intelligence and hard work can be loosely correlated with outcomes in the Bay. Living through a societally transformative gold rush in that environment can be paralyzing. "Am I in the right place? Should I move? Is there time still left? Am I gonna make it?" It psychologically torments many who have moved here in search of "success". Ironically, a frequent side effect of this torment is to spin up the very products making everyone rich in hopes that you too can vibecode your path to economic enlightenment.

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Clint Teeples
Clint Teeples@TeeplesCY·
Poor Americans who attend church regularly are happier than rich Americans who never go. Behavioral scientist William von Hippel thought he'd made a coding error. He hadn't. "Regularly attending services has a bigger impact on your happiness than wealth," he writes. "Money buys a fair bit of happiness but connection gives you more bang for the buck." What's happening? Rich people already have most of what money buys. What they lack is what churches provide for free: weekly, repeated contact with people who know your name. Von Hippel is direct about the cost: "I suspect that wealthy, educated urbanites are paying a steeper price for their lifestyle than they realize. Many of us have paid too great a price in connection for our increased autonomy."
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Daniel Berk 🐝
Daniel Berk 🐝@danielcberk·
Spotify needs to release a “kids” setting so I can play all the songs my kids listen to without it affecting my own Discovery algorithm. Insane that I can’t do this already. My Discover Weekly is just nursery songs and Moana. @Spotify please fix this.
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Robert Bye
Robert Bye@RobertJBye·
I’ve only been here a few months but I’m not sure how much longer I’ll be able say ‘London is the best city to live in the world’ Pretty wild where you can go in under an hours drive here
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Dr Kings
Dr Kings@DrKings_1·
Los rasgos de personalidad que se acentúan con la edad son: los rasgos obsesivos, narcisistas, dependientes, esquizoides y paranoides. Los que bajan de intensidad son los rasgos histriónicos, límitrofes y antisociales a menos que no tengan comorbilidad con Trastorno Bipolar. La peor combinación es la de narcisista-obsesivo porque de adultos mayores se vuelven soberbios, egocéntricos, poco empáticos, autoritarios y lo peor necios, acaban solos porque nadie los tolera y sufren mucho porque quieren seguir siendo independientes, autosuficientes y siempre tener la razón. La familia se desespera con ellos.
Steve Stewart-Williams@SteveStuWill

Your personality probably won’t change much in the next year or even in the next few, but it probably will change quite a lot over the next few decades. Odds are you’ll get more conscientious and agreeable, and also less neurotic. stevestewartwilliams.com/p/12-things-ev…

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a16z
a16z@a16z·
Jesse Genet on Agentic Parenting Jesse Genet joins a16z's Sarah Wang and Katherine Boyle to discuss her journey from founder to parent, how she's using agents in her household, and how AI could transform parenting for the better. 00:00 YC founder turned homeschool mom 03:00 Discovering Claude Code and agentic building 06:00 Building while homeschooling 4 kids under 5 11:00 How AI generates personalized lesson plans and logs progress 18:00 Jesse's 11-agents 27:05 Agent tech stack deep dive 33:56 How agents improve daily life 40:04 Letting kids interact with AI: values, risks, and the future of parenting @jessegenet @KTmBoyle @sarahdingwang
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vittorio
vittorio@IterIntellectus·
US fertility reached 1.57 last year, the lowest ever recorded, and the WSJ explanation is "uncertainty about finances, relationship stability, and the political climate" my great grandma had eleven children during the second world war, in a country being bombed, in a house with no running water, on rations. poor people have always had kids. the poorest people on earth right now still have kids and the financial excuse is a story we tell ourselves because it makes us feel good and the real one is unbearable the real mechanism is that we got rich enough to redefine children as an expense instead of the point. somewhere in the last fifty years the cultural goal inverted and a child stopped being what life is for and became a line item competing with the lifestyle. once you frame it that way the math never works, because the math isnt supposed to work. that's the point we are living in the richest moment in human history and we decided to use the surplus to buy ourselves out of the future. the most prosperous civilization that has ever existed is committing demographic suicide at the altar of personal optimization and comfort, and the official line is that we cant afford it the birthrate is a lagging indicator of a civilization that forgot why it was alive
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The Wall Street Journal@WSJ

In charts: The nation’s fertility rates hit record lows in 2025 as childbearing continued to shift toward older women on.wsj.com/41qPbw7

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Julia McCoy
Julia McCoy@JuliaEMcCoy·
The kids who will thrive in the AI age aren’t the ones with the best grades. They’re the ones who learned to think for themselves, solve real problems, speak multiple languages, and build something before they turned 18. Schools teach compliance. The future rewards creativity. Parents: Your own home is the most powerful classroom on earth. Use it.
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Chloe
Chloe@chloe_1028·
@MereHarvey @emilykmay Putting the kids to bed is not something the husband should be “helping” with. As a parent, he should be equally as capable of putting his kids to bed. If my husband could not handle putting our kids to bed without me, I would absolutely be shaming him bc that’s not partnership
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emily may@emilykmay·
a massive parenting platform run by two moms wrote a piece on being the default parent while being married to a "an amazing husband who is an equal partner in every way" and she talked about how her "tipping point" was that he didn't know where they kept the pajamas
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
@ChloeWest28 @emilykmay Sounds like he’s trying to help his wife with a responsibility generally under her purview. She then mocks and criticizes him on a podcast as an incompetent husband? This is not how healthy marriages operate and should not be commended
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Chloe@chloe_1028·
@MereHarvey @emilykmay But this mom wrote that her breaking point was when her husband didn’t know where the pajamas were. That indicates to me that he did not look around and find pajamas bc if he did, the wife would never have known. Sounds like he didn’t look and instead went straight to his wife
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
@ChloeWest28 @emilykmay By dividing instead of sharing responsibilities, most tiny conflicts about task management in the home can be avoided. I have no doubt this husband can find some clothes and put clothes away if actually needed. We need to stop villainizing men for not sharing all domestic tasks.
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Chloe@chloe_1028·
@MereHarvey @emilykmay Not knowing something as simple as where the pajamas are is a critical indicator that they’re not actually that involved in things like putting clothes away or getting the kid ready for bed, which is something that both parent should be able to do without needing help
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
@FullAsMuchHeart If you have a growth mindset there are so many wonderful parenting resources available now to help guide. It’s kind of a build your parachute as your falling gig and very worth it
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the human anachronism™️
the human anachronism™️@FullAsMuchHeart·
I do think some women are just naturally good mothers. I know some of it is what you're taught to do but I have friends who were seemingly instinctively good at it right away. I somewhat doubt that would be me. Perhaps I could be good at it but Idk if it would be instinctive.
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
@emilykmay Sure, I just laugh at the suggestion that knowing where the kids pajamas are is some kind of critical indicator. Under his care, are the kids happy, safe, well fed, and being intentionally connected with?
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emily may
emily may@emilykmay·
@MereHarvey yes but some things signify being a guest in your own home
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
Hot take but I don’t believe in sleep regressions. Kids will sometimes have a bad nights sleep, but it’s always the parents responsibility to quickly get them back on track.
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Adam Grant
Adam Grant@AdamMGrant·
Telling kids to sit still doesn’t build discipline. It stifles imagination. Evidence: When students are given freedom to fidget and wiggle in their seats, they pay just as much attention—and generate more creative ideas. Physical activity unlocks mental agility.
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Meredith Harvey, MD, MPH@MereHarvey·
@SarahTheHaider With the right man, this advice is golden. Being home and present with my little kids had been the most rewarding experience of my life
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Elie Jarrouge, MD
Elie Jarrouge, MD@ElieJarrougeMD·
Babies live exclusively on whole-fat milk for 4 to 6 months and we’re told their first solid food should be: Rice cereal and puréed vegetables? From fat-rich animal nutrition to processed grains and fiber? What does common sense tell you?
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