@nullpointered @justalexoki I mean I like twink body type more than either but super ripped body types like the guy on the right always freaked me out lol.
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@mudscryer Yeah. I just had to google this nonsense, and "anxious" describes all of the worst people I have ever met.
I am "avoidant" for good reason and it's them
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As someone who leans anxious attachment over avoidant but has traits of both, we should actually be coddling avoidants and demonizing anxious attachers
star ｡･:*:･ﾟ★ #ilmbf 🎀@dwecayedgirl
i dont understand why anxious attachments are coddled while avoidant attachments are demonized
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@biohacker That seems like so much but I rollerblade 30-50 miles a week and I've wondered about that bc I feel like I gotta burn through so much 🤨🤨
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Magnesium splits are an absolute game changer especially if you're an athlete/high performer.
I take 400mg of elemental every 3/4 hours and have no loose stools which shows that I'm actually just meeting the demands.
This will vary from person to person so you need to figure out your own.
Victor@toro__training
Worth trying: supplement magnesium 3-5x per day.
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@venturetwins It's sooooooo annoying like bro stop being so uptight 😭😭 I try to use it to make sure I AM eating enough bc I do long distance skating and it always freaks out eventually.
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I once told Claude that I hadn't felt like eating for a few days (had a stomach bug).
Now, weeks later, I'm STILL getting random notes like this during completely unrelated conversations.
I've asked Claude several times to stop and it is literally unable to do so 🫠
Circe@vocalcry
Anthropic ngmi
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@W4tcherscr0wn @generic_void Theres nothing funny about plenty stories men have too. A lot of guys just don't heed warnings that girls are crazy until it's too late. They think it's "hot" for someone to be that into them until they that girl is cutting condoms and ruining their life
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@generic_void Men have "funny" stories while we have "oh yeah he actually attempted to kill me" stories
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You never really hear the stories about women who have dated men with BPD on here because the stories are literally too ugly and horrific to tell people about for their own sake.
Grug 🪨@grugcapital
I once dated a woman with BPD who threw a prosecco bottle at my head (I dodged that shit) and told me to get out, so naturally I prepared to vacate the premises but before I could she grabbed a knife and threatened to plunge it into her heart if I left. God I miss her.
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@Johntheduncan they need to make witness protection programs for yearners :/
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thinking about when i was down bad for an old fling but lost all his social media so i would stalk his linkedin, only for him to tell me years later that he would get a notification about it every single time
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@MrsCasey6 @tallowqueen Yeah but at the high end of my recommended intake that's like 10 eggs lol. If you don't eat a lot of meat (or any) it is annoying af. Not impossible but I have to really intentionally do it
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@tallowqueen Because they're trying to get their protein from eggs and yogurt.
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@tallowqueen Idk man between 53-96 grams a day is recommended for me bc I excercise a lot and it's super hard for me to get it since I don't eat a lot of meat. I started using protein powder but there's been all these studies that a lot of them have a lot of lead in them.
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unpopular but I think journaling is overrated as a self-help tool. most people journal to vent which just reinforces the same loops. journaling that actually changes you requires sitting with a question for thirty minutes without answering it. that's the kind nobody teaches because it doesn't sell a pretty notebook.
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@ellencarmichael I bought the derminator 2 to do my own microneedling every month and that's been my favorite skincare investment though.
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@ellencarmichael I use differin which is the strongest retinoid you can buy without a prescription and it's probably way less irritating but I do want to try tretinoin too.
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Crowd sourcing here: Tretinoin is a miracle skincare product, right? And while I'm still in my 30s, I should totally jump into using it, right?
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@kezottle @spacetolaney @apathyne @_CharlesPreston Truly. You really gotta go out of your way and be hyper fixating to even think of this type of shit lol. To everyone else he was just a normal guy made a little understandably crazy by circumstances
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@spacetolaney @apathyne @_CharlesPreston yeah i think the idea that anything that could potentially be portrayed as racist IS racist no matter how much of a stretch it seems like just results in more racism since i feel like this is a very specific and intentional but unnecessary way to look at the movie
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Backrooms is racist film. It’s technically brilliant, but racist. And it’s a shame during a time where Black studies is being eliminated on college campuses because I fear people are overlooking the obvious tropes and racist callbacks the film ridiculously displays.
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@TheLoneHandmaid @_CharlesPreston Literallyyyyyyyyyyyy he played a pretty normal guy with fairly run of the mill issues too. Id hate to see how they react to a black villain. Which villains are some of the most interesting characters and probably some of the most fun to play 😐😐
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You're literally just arguing black characters can never be bad people. Do you not think black people are people, too? Plus, thier races don't matter in this film. Would you prefer they have given the role to someone else instead of Chiwetel Ejiofor? Do you wanna tell him he can't take certain roles because of his skin color just so race-obsessed guys like you won't be offended? I bet he'd love that.
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@UWS_Parent @donotuwumulti @_CharlesPreston Literally. 😭😭 And I was never once thinking about his being poor or something he just seemed down on his luck. Also people are poor sometimes and that's okay too...these people are all probably all white
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@donotuwumulti @_CharlesPreston The man owns a large furniture store & can afford regular sessions with a psychologist. He owns a house where his wife and children live. He just doesn't sleep there.
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@donotuwumulti @UWS_Parent @_CharlesPreston What a boring, sad world when when every black person has to play a successful, college educated, morally righteous person or w/e to not offend someone. That sounds way more restrictive than whatever box u think this movie is putting people in
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@UWS_Parent @_CharlesPreston Hes literally homeless, I think being unhoused and having a failing business we see behind bills negates the fact he went to college for architecture. I don't know where you got the upper middle class read from, but he cannot afford an apartment in the 90s. When rent was 350$
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@sarah888777 Would you find it degrading if an actual boyfriend told you that? I'm genuinely trying to wrap my head around these comments bc masturbation is just an expression of sexual attraction. Which most people want in a relationship.
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@MichaeleErin For me it is you might be okay with it, but that doesn’t mean I have to be
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@AGoldmund I didn't realize they had a lot of good and not even cringy music for a long time bc their name was so bad
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