Saba Hölderlin

@DisaffectedPod @Howlingmutant0 Actually, you’ve been saying this too :)

@DisaffectedPod @Howlingmutant0 Haha thank you, Josh. Btw I found your podcast in it’s early days, like 2021, and was blown away. I know you probably can’t discuss it yourself, but I see parallels between NPD and black ‘culture’ too . Thank you for your work

Interesting. Personally I’d prefer like a big fat ass and giant tits, but I suppose famous sodomite Oscar Wilde knows best

@DisaffectedPod @Howlingmutant0 It’s a picture of Lana Del Rey race-swapped lol. But I don’t look too different

@ModernAnx @Howlingmutant0 Off topic, Saba, but is that you in your profile pic?

@mershaqback @ntl0022 @J2daJones The biggest flirt in Survivor history is not a girl’s girl. She knows how to get both men and women to do what she wants

@ModernAnx @ntl0022 @J2daJones Stop it. Parv is such a girl’s girl.

I can’t believe I am writing this … are yall tired of dragging Joe & Johnathan yet lol. #Survivor50

@DisaffectedPod @Howlingmutant0 Fair. The psychology field actually used to blame autistic traits/ other abnormal child behaviors on ‘frigid mothers’. But now that frame is considered misogynistic or whatever. So I doubt the theory will be explored anytime soon

@ModernAnx @Howlingmutant0 Yeah, I don't think it's "autism". I think, yet again, we've found a way to diagnose a psych problem in children instead of diagnosing abusive mothers. What is called "autism" today looks exactly like. . . .the results of child abuse.

@SteveStuWill @CostelloWilliam Interesting that having a baby cures some women’s PMDD (debilitating PMS)

Why do women get PMS? Evolutionary biologist Michael Gillings offers a provocative suggestion: The condition nudged ancestral women to ditch infertile partners. stevestewartwilliams.com/p/domesticated…

@ntl0022 @J2daJones She’s always been a mean girl

@J2daJones The bullying of Jonathan after the show has been ridiculous. I used to like Parv, but no thank you now.

@JEFFVARNER @OneEyedAndy Like that guy Colton of Bachelor fame. He was in a long term relationship with a woman and frequenting bathhouses. But apparently he only deserves sympathy

This wasn’t “change,” “evolution,” or growing apart. This type of relationship begins apart, and unfortunately only he knows it. This isn’t life. He didn’t just wake up one day and decide he was into guys. He dabbled along the way as these men do. Which is why my point with this post is we should not be celebrating it.

Hot take… be mad if you must. This feels “celebrated,” without regard to the woman he used. 14 years of her life wasted. She matters too.

@DisaffectedPod @Howlingmutant0 I’ve found that a lot of autistic people came from narcissistic mothers / parents. Another interesting venn diagram to explore

Homosexual men's relationship to women is conditioned by their mothers. Most of us (I'm a celibate middle aged homo) came from enmeshed, domineering, narcissistic mothers. That's where the bitch diva worship comes from. Unconscious negotiation with/worship of the troubled mother figure.

@XOQueenEsther @foxfairyUSA Narcissists are so entitled that any little thing they do for you they’ll hold over your head for a lifetime as a heroic act of self sacrifice. Delusional

@foxfairyUSA 😭 Sometimes I genuinely wonder if in her mind marrying into the Royal Family was itself some enormous act of public service worthy of national gratitude 👀 Because “we appreciate everything you did for our country” is such a wild statement to attach to someone who married in.

Remember when Meghan Markle said that on the “freedom flight” a crew member knelt next to her seat, took his hat off and told her, “We appreciate everything you did for our country.” 🤭 She later said it was the “first time” someone had recognised the “sacrifice” she had made 👀 I’m sorry but what sacrifice exactly? Apart from taxpayers ending up with a wedding estimated around £32 million that she later called a “spectacle”, I’m struggling to remember the contribution we’re all supposed to be grateful for 🙄 Meghan Markle always seems to have something extraordinary happening during flights, doesn’t she? It’s like all her biggest admirers are permanently somewhere in the skies 😌 And now we have not one but TWO Richie Richs signing her anniversary message… what are the odds 😂 But then it’s Meghan Markle’s world and stranger things have happened, so two crew members with the same name on one plane? Who knows 🤯 Maybe next we’ll hear about a crew member thanking her for her bravery in surviving hardships no ordinary person could possibly comprehend 😌 Or a pilot interrupting the flight to say, “Ladies and gentlemen, before landing we’d like to personally thank Meghan Markle for her extraordinary sacrifices and everything she has done for humanity.” 🤭 Or a cabin crew member wiping away tears whispering, “No one has ever suffered or sacrificed quite like you.” 😭 At this point, with Meghan Markle flight stories, I’m just wondering how long before we hear the next one 👀😭 On a serious note though, I’m embarrassed just listening to some of these stories 😭 The dramatic sobbing into a security guard’s arms… girl where was your husband that you had to collapse into the The “I tried so hard”, the kneeling crew member, the endless admiration, the extraordinary sacrifices… how do people listen to all this and not think, “this sounds less like real life and more like a Wattpad story where the heroine is worshipped by everyone she meets” 😭 Because the level of self importance in some of these stories is genuinely astonishing… and what surprises me even more is there are people listening thinking, “yes, this all sounds perfectly normal” 👀

@XOQueenEsther It’s extremely unprofessional to ‘collapse in the arms’ of your security guard. It shows her lack of boundaries with service staff. Also very disrespectful to your husband - she likely triangulates Harry like this with any man in her vicinity

@Fibutton All narcissists love taking excessive photos and videos with their prey. They get their ideas on how to behave from romance movies - photo/ video montages of them looking in love, intense eye contact, cheesy nicknames, dramatic declarations of love/ soulmate connection

@freedom_007__ Meghan convinced Harry that Kate was out for her

Princess Catherine and Prince Harry actually had a very good friendship. What I don’t understand is how, after spending years around her, he could turn on someone he knows is a genuinely good person who helped him enormously as did Prince William. There has to be some regret.

@thatdorrk “Everyone was laughing at you behind your back” is awfully cruel and you can’t deny that. Uncalled for from CIRIE especially, a player who should be more magnanimous given her legend status in the game

@ModernAnx Be difficult to be firm on any vote and when he said he adapted, that’s when Cirie refuted him. You either take the punches or fight back. That’s what final tribal council is… to dismiss the negative claims against you and show the jury your strategy to it

It’s funny how people are saying Cirie was being “rude” when the point of FTC is to air out how the jury feels about the finalists and their games… also, we had people bringing up dead relatives and taking teeth out at FTC on the rude scale so this is nothing! #Survivor

@sberrios5171 @willjames93 Yes. They hate strength, true masculinity, work ethic, even beauty. Survivor is a microcosm of the wider culture that valorizes weakness.

@willjames93 Aubrey won because the majority of players chosen for survivor are snowflakes. They can’t fathom a man that actually has testosterone winning. It’s also a reason the show is so suck now compared to the past.

If you can’t fully understand why players like Aubry win over Jonathan, you’re essentially telling us you’d probably lose the game as well just like Jonathan. I think the show you’re ultimately looking to play is Amazing Race, but even then it’ll be hard

@Howlingmutant0 You’ve watched ‘Girls Trip’ I see

This is what Harriet Tubman looked like when she was grapefruiting niggas in the fields

@MintyMacro @Brandhorst1997 Good point. Especially pre-merge when she clearly drags her tribe down in challenges

@Brandhorst1997 She was unnecessarily cruel. Especially coming from someone who is notoriously bad at an aspect of the game (physical), but people have given her grace instead of ridiculed her.

@alex_abads Cirie lost my respect with that. Her real character came out. Blindsiding Arie on Traitors was also really dishonorable behavior

on the one hand i feel bad that this handsome dolt probably has no idea why he’s always dragged to the ftc and gets no votes … but he’s a hypocrite and has the emotional maturity of a toddler and deserves every second of this lashing

@addthesugarbabe @TheBigBroTea He pointed out that Tiff being a challenge beast is more impressive than when a man is a challenge beast. He shouldn’t have stated it so plainly but he’s not wrong

@ModernAnx @TheBigBroTea It wasn’t show but:

Jonathan is saying losing Survivor 50 hurt so bad, because he knows he played a better Survivor game than Aubry. He says “if that’s a jury, then I’m confused” #survivor50