Sunflower

More than 10 years raising my autistic son 💙 From embarrassment, neglect, challenges to learning & growth. Lots of therapy done, still ongoing. Siwezi sahau kabisa , the vibrant moments & tough journey. Fellow parents, drop a 💙 or your story! 🇰🇪 #ProudAutismDad @autismspeaks

@Be_like_legend Many autistic people are more clever than normal one

AUTISM IS A DISABILITY, NOT AN IDENTITY TREND

@marriedmn Follow back

Marriage is hard. There will be seasons where you barely understand each other. -Seasons where money is tight. -A lot of stress and pressure -Where intimacy drops and you barely touch each other. -Where you have arguments every now and then The couples who make it are not the ones who never struggle. They are the ones who decide that giving up is not an option.

I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.

On point

After watching so many failed relationships and marriages, I realized that: “A loyal partner and a peaceful home are two of the rarest blessings a man and woman can have.” In a world where trust is easily broken, loyalty has become something truly rare. Many people chase excitement, attention, and temporary feelings, but they forget that real happiness is built on consistency, honesty and commitment. A loyal partner is someone who chooses you every single day, even when life gets difficult and emotions change. And a peaceful home is priceless. It is the one place where you should feel safe, respected, understood, and loved. Unfortunately, not everyone gets to experience that kind of peace. That’s why when you find someone who is truly loyal and helps create a calm, loving home, you don’t take it for granted. You protect it, appreciate it, and nurture it. Because in today’s world, a loyal partner and a peaceful home are not just blessings, they are treasures many people spend a lifetime searching for.

@marriedmn Marriage can seem complicated at some point but it has also his achievements No life that has got free happiness all through.

Marriage is not all happiness and love, ask married men; -some of them sleep on couches -Some of them go weeks without s-x -Some of them don't talk even to their wives for days -some don't eat in their homes; they eat in hotels and come home to sleep. -Some sit in their cars for a couple of minutes before walking in the house because there is no peace It is a very technical institution.

@lawrencekitema If you love your family , privacy is the key

Stop posting your wife or husband on social media. Never even post your children on social media. Let me tell you, social media is full of eyes, and not everyone wishes you well. Believe me, jealousy is real. Protect what makes you happy.

Your career is important. Your children are important. But your marriage is the foundation that supports both. Many couples spend years pouring all their energy into work, deadlines, children, school activities, and responsibilities while completely neglecting each other. Before they know it, they have become excellent co-parents but terrible partners. One day the kids grow up and leave. The career slows down. And suddenly two strangers are sitting across from each other wondering what happened. Never stop investing in your marriage just because life gets busy.

@A_lettertomyson Standards and boundaries that is the summary

Marriage is a construct, and I firmly advise you to take precautions. Be brutal and honest about your standards and boundaries. Marriage holds different meanings for different individuals, largely shaped by the partners they choose. I can only share my own experiences, which are vastly different from those of others, such as Mr. A. Many beliefs about marriage passed down from our parents, society, and religious institutions are deeply flawed. Too often, I hear people saying that one must be the head of the family, carrying all the burdens, or that, as a man, one must sacrifice his well-being for the happiness of others. I am committed to protecting and providing for my family, but I will never do so at the expense of my own life. I refuse to sacrifice my health or happiness for anyone. We are in this together as a team, not as isolated individuals.

@ManOfFocus_ It is a matter of time, every struggle and setbacks in life are steps to achieve that.

You will take your family out of poverty. You just gotta trust the process and put God first.

Hustle until you see yourself on your Cousin's Status. Family don't post broke people.

@amerix The stress a man carries for his family is often hidden, and not always noticed by those he loves most.

A man may have nothing today, but he still carries one burden & hope that his family will eat and his children will go to school the next day.

The Hidden Strength of a Family Strong families are rarely built during major life events. They are built during ordinary moments. The conversation after a difficult day. The ride to school. The family dinner. The encouraging text message. The hug before bed. These moments rarely make headlines in our lives. Yet over time they become the infrastructure that holds a family together when life becomes difficult. Reflection Question: What ordinary moment today may become a meaningful memory tomorrow?

What is our purpose? Who are we? Where are we going? The larger questions in this life have no easy answers Yet, with faith we see A type of hindsight over generations that can glimpse it My family’s story is so intertwined with faith that lends itself to some broader purpose some grand design that is yet to be revealed yet its weight is felt By chance My grandfather escaped a communist prison camp in Yugoslavia to come over and have two kids before a car accident took his life in 63. Of those two, my mom, Met my dad, Who himself led a life chasing death, Of the two kids they had? My brother, a week before his scheduled baptism, a horrible winter storm broke out and my Grandma felt the need to do an emergency home baptism. He then was swapped with me for my dad to take care of and died in his arms of SIDS one night after accidentally falling asleep after coming home exhausted from work. From then on? my memory began at 1. A searching, to categorize everything and understand. A family dynamic forever haunted. Then there is the course of my own life and the Long series of events that Finally culminated in my snap, Now here I am, talking to the world. Using that gift his death gave me, to help others understand this world and prepare for something better. Then there is your story, and everything leading up to this moment you are reading this post How connected you and I are right now… Do you see it? That’s God’s hand It’s frightening to think of the myriad of events that had to of happened to connect us isn’t it?