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@AdolphRizzler @kaitybella Fair enough!

@Rach8674 @kaitybella Because it's New York City and there is no such thing as a cheap 15 minute Uber ride

I hate to defend a man but if the first two dates were close to her I think it’s fair for the third to be in his neighborhood, and asking for a car is crazy

@Reality34414211 @kaitybella I sort of see what you are saying

@Rach8674 @kaitybella *suggar daddy community

@Reality34414211 @kaitybella Making a man jump through arbitrary hoops you have decided in your head is the opposite of sw culture

@Rach8674 @kaitybella Its funny how easily you guys were influenced by sw culture.

@PottyJohn911 Aw but isnt that the lovely thing about relationships that you act like each other mother/father when needs be

I don’t really even mind spending money on uber it’s more that I’m only interested in dating women that function like fully grown adults, are self sufficient, and do not expect me to be a second father. There was a political movement or smth about this maybe 50 yrs ago

@skoolisf @xosleahxos true true! although women can emotionally abuse men, especially if they are older

@Rach8674 @xosleahxos These girls obviously look younger & smaller than the guys. Males always have advantages over women ever if she's older. There is no universe in which it makes sense for older men to pair with younger women. Men just say that because they're jealous. And older men have bad sperm.

When 40 year old men realize that 18 year old girls like dating 18 year old boys

@skoolisf @xosleahxos what

@Rach8674 @xosleahxos Oh I didn't even realize that's what this post was about. All I saw was two giant males who look extremely dominant over these girls. Physically but also mentally because we know how aggressive and entitled males can be. He thinks women have advantages over men because she tans??

@MrBombastic2525 @kaitybella her friends arent trying to stick a penis inside of her 🤣🤣

@Rach8674 @kaitybella If you felt you were worth that youd probably cop it yourself. I guarantee she uses the subway to hang out with her friends

@MistressKlM @kaitybella Right! if i can sense my friend can't be bothered taking public transport and would rather me cover a taxi i'll get them a taxi, cos i'm excited to see them and i know i'll enjoy the next few hours

@kaitybella @Rach8674 I’d argue that it’s a signal of anyone’s worth. It just chivalry and if he wants her to come to his area then it’s fair that he covers it. Back in the day a man would send a cab over or pick up his date. Why’s that any different now?

@Kerrineedshols @frankie2001mia @British_Airways just out of kindess, he can't help being disabled. his life is hard enough without his holiday being ruined

@Rach8674 @frankie2001mia @British_Airways Why should BA cover their costs? He made a threat, whether he could help it or not he made a threat.

This you @British_Airways "We are not refusing him because he's got a disability. "We are refusing him because there's been a threat made that he has a bomb in his bag." HE HAD HIS DIAGNOSIS LETTER FOR TOURETTES WITH HIM. They split up his family and they had to pay £2.5k

@usedtoparty @kaitybella 🤣🤣🤣

@Rach8674 @kaitybella 🎯 tired of having to explain that hetero dating and relationships ultimately boils down to “man wants to be inside woman”

@kaitybella you'd so well with someone like him because your obviously stingey and uptight and don't do things out the kindest of your heart. miserable bird 🤣

@Rach8674 I mean it’s probably not all that cheap, and why is that a signal of your ‘worth’?

@FondOfBeetles @frankie2001mia @British_Airways I never even considered that but you a right! what if other passengers tried fighting him, which they probably would! especially stressed out fathers with kids

This is actually a situation that sounds manageable on paper but awful when it rolls out. I’m well aware of Tourette’s and what it means. Helping passengers to understand, perhaps in advance, would be useful. Reassurance that all bags and people have been carefully screened. Maybe over egg this a bit, because all bags and people on all flights should always be carefully screened, of course. So it’s not the bomb threat. I don’t know how I - a flyer who constantly manages anxiety, usually successfully and with little outward appearance of nervousness - would respond if he tics “the wing’s on fire”, “we are going to crash” or whatever. I can’t control my adrenalised response to that kind of stuff. Even someone pointing out of the window raises my alertness. And I reckon many more people are actually afraid of flying than would admit. I don’t know how an in-air, multiple passenger, fight-or-flight (no pun intended) response might play out. And people will get angry. Human behaviour doesn’t work neatly to information and doctor’s letters? It’s really difficult. Perhaps with advance notice that I might experience anxious disruptions, I’d actually try a proper pharma solution rather than a few G&Ts. But then they are telling me about someone’s disability, and it primes people to be nervous. That’s not a neutral setup. I don’t know what the solution is here? Free G&Ts, I’d hope, and a good holiday for all.

@Modemavin @seanajune this poster is a transvestite, they dont know what they are talking about

@seanajune Hey, she tested to see if he was a gentleman and he failed. Good for her.

Who is telling straight women to insist upon working girl transportation fees?

@QueenMab87 Do you have a husband?

This kind of demand early in a relationship sets up a toxic unequal dynamic for the entire thing. Demanding an uber for a daytime date sets you up as pampered and incompetent. It’s not “having standards.” It’s acting like a child

@JayDarkmoore In abusive relationships you can still have the odd healthy moment, where the relationship makes you grow and learn something about yourself. Which is so hard to reconsile, because how can a normal healthy moment of self actualisation come if the relationship is toxic?

I have seen a lot of posts and videos in relation to the new MAFS BBC Panorama documentary, essentially asking why, if women were being mistreated on the show by their partners, they didn’t just leave. I was a police officer for many years, specialising in cases of domestic abuse and abusive patterns of behaviour. I thought we had got past victim blaming in relation to domestic abuse? People don’t leave abusive relationships, even short-term ones, for a variety of reasons. The person is not abusive 100% of the time. When they are kind and compassionate, it can become intoxicating, especially in contrast to when they are awful. This makes victims crave the good parts, and they are conditioned to believe that the bad parts are their fault. This makes them want to “try harder” and “be better” for their abuser, because the good times become the reward. There is also the fact that abusers can be scary, and they can play serious mental games with a victim. The victim literally may not understand that they are being abused. The victim may fear that they will not be believed, or that the abuser will create a smear campaign against them, making them out to be the bad one, and trying to ruin their life and/or reputation. Abusers deny that they have done anything wrong when called out, and are masters at turning the tables on their victims, convincing them that they are the abusers, not them. This is called DARVO: deny, attack, reverse victim and offender. Throw in a reality TV show with cameras, the promise of fame, and the impact of leaving a show and the reputational costs this can have depending on what is aired in your absence, and it creates the perfect scenario for abuse to breed, go unchallenged, and for victims to feel trapped with someone who is hurting them. Instead of asking ‘why don’t they leave?’ we need to ask ‘why does the abuser act like this?’ @Rachel_SUTDA

@cljack Crazy thing is those aren't even his kids that he's talking about!

oh is that wrong? are you not supposed to do that