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I asked one of my married friends (though older) this question after I visited him and his wife in their UK home. We’ve also been friends since 2010. He said the followings. “Well, we fight, we fight very well, because fighting is inevitable, but in our fight, every single time we’ve had fight, we still remain lovers, we remain kind. Non of our fight no matter how tough surpass our kindness for each other. The next one is, we consider everyone after both of us as third parties, especially our parents and siblings, we started dating during our remedial program in 2012, and till today, I’ve never discussed her wrong doings with my parent or siblings before, I am sure she never did too, the only person I’ve discussed our matter with was her twins sister, they love each other so much and it’s just one time and that was even before we got married. So literally in our 14yrs of togetherness, we both have never discussed our issue with anyone. And nobody has ever helped us settle fight. Hmm, next one is sex, you’ll not have it every time, understand this and it’ll help you navigate your sexual life better. I get tired on some days, she get tired on some days too, both of you should understand that you’re human and tiredness is inevitable. And as a man especially, if your wife is not someone that deny you sex, please don’t force sex on her any day she said no, don’t get me wrong o, even if she deny you sex often too, don’t force sex 😂 but what I’m saying is, if she’s someone who tends to your sexual needs, anyday she said she’s not interested out of tiredness, let her be, you can do cuddles, kisses and other foreplay if she want. Because if it get to a point a woman is having sex with you just so you can be pleased or not angry, trust me you’ll lose her in sexual aspect. Don’t be boring in bed too, try sexual activities that is in line with your religion and belief. Being a parent and being a couple are two different things. Our marriage shakes a lot when we gave birth to Ahmad, my wife forgot me totally, no time for me again, we had to go for counselling before it gets better. So make sure you both understand parenting and its concept before you start giving birth, in fact if there is anytime our marriage had problems, it was when we gave birth to Ahmad because we both are new to parenting. Another one is no raising of voice and no raising of hands, no matter how mad we are at each other, non of us is raising voice at the other person and non is raising hands to hit the other person. We also don’t use foul words during fights. Also during our fight, we don’t sleep separate rooms, we sleep on same bed, under same duvet in fact. We set this rules specially on our wedding night. Another thing is, yesterday fight doesn’t stop today’s love. I’m someone who keep malice if we have unfinished fight, but my wife isn’t like that. I remember one day we had fight a serious one, I was at fault, and the following morning, after prayer, she rested on my laps, for few mins I was like who’s doing this one but I can’t even push her away, then she wake up and prepared my favourite food, prepared my lunch box and still continue fighting. She did everything that she’ll do when we are not fighting. The only thing we don’t do during fighting is s*x, every other thing we do it, that it’ll be as though as we are not fighting. We don’t argue in front of our kids, or anyone else. During last year Eid for example, her mother asked if we’ve ever had a fight because she never see us fight and we never report each other to her before . You can never catch us fighting. There is nothing like 50/50. We bring our hundred to the table. And there is nothing like someone’s money is their money and someone’s money is family money. Everyone money that comes to the family belong to the family.” A thread 🧵

@ButtyGhetto_ One day my brother

@Rahruk I’m always active to receive them lol

I make so much emphasis on linkup/team work cuz it’s something I’m very good at 😎 Tell Vinicius and Mbappe to call me so their partnership can work next season🥱

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AT 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS: 1. Someone earns 10 times more than you on a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their job. 2. Distraction is the biggest killer of success. Atrophy and destroy your brain. 3. You shouldn't accept advice from people who aren't where you want to be in life. 4. Nobody comes to save your problems. Your life is 100% your responsibility. 5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self-discipline. 6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just by learning sales. 7. Nobody cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your opportunities. 8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. 9. Smoking has no benefit in your life. This habit will only slow down your thinking and decrease your concentration 10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression. 11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy. 12. Avoid alcohol at all costs. There is nothing worse than losing your senses and acting like a fool. 13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available. 14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from. 15. Train yourself not to take anything personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems. Which one resonate well with you? Source: Fano from Quora

@Sir_Rufus_Max @SirJarus Okay. Noted sir

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I need a social media handler to help me run and grow my Tik Tok and Instagram accounts. - Post like me - Engage and build a community organically - Not to make it too formal; at the same time, not too personal - Not the banal "I am happy to inform you" post and go silent for next 5 days. I have a personal IG page where I document my travels and other interesting moments, but I will continue to personally run that one. The one I'm talking about is a page opened for my business life. Still personal, but a little more business tone.

So petrol is now 1330 naira this morning 🥲

@Sir_Rufus_Max @SirJarus You can have someone that'll capture for you and I'll edit and post for you sir. I'll use cap cut for the editing.

@SirJarus Was looking for someone like this too. The real issue is having the person follow me around to capture "content" moments. Felt like a job for 3 people when I thought about it - one to capture, one to edit into short videos, and one to post and engage. Having a rethink ...

@adams_yachat @InnovatorYK @Idrisss_aj2 @Mhounique1 @Kepa_Dotmors @OgaNlaMedia @OniDebola @PoojaMedia @Jezil52 @PshevyofGod Congratulations bro

3 games 3 cleansheets 1 penalty save Anambra FA Cup Champion ✅

@InsideIlorin_NG It's the people that's enabling them. If both landlords and tenants fight against it, they will stop it.

Basic rent - 450k Total package - 800k Why?

@PiousGeek It's because it's not easy to park there and you have to want to get something there before you slow down

If your Visibility Score is under 70, here’s why: Unclear role Weak clips Inconsistent visibility No outreach system No pathway You don’t fix everything. You fix the bottleneck. Take the Opportunity Readiness Diagnostic today. #football #soccer #playerdevelopment

@OgaNlaMedia You're welcome bro

This young boy is an example. He has been trying at several clubs in the NNL as a young GK. He left his comfort zone in Kwara to Lagos and from Lagos to Jigawa (I think), from Jigawa to Edel (East). Okay, dey there dey abuse NPFL, NNL and NLO.

While watching the Ronaldinho documentary on Netflix, he said something interesting. When Deco was coming to Barca, he was happy and one of them sacrificed the left 10 for the other. That's what Mbappe and Vini need to do for the glory of the team.

@deejayfaremi They are even making it hard for Jude to score by taking the ball away from him

I see why these boys are never in the box. Tap ins are hard for them, it would seem. Weirdos.

@PoojaMedia Yes bro. As long as the people there are trustworthy

Is Ajo a good saving strategy?

@Nike_Smallz Thanks so much

@Rahruk Higgsfield

I created this a while back but stopped. I’ll pick it back up. By the way, it’s my first video.

@HopeRemy I love this

A friend of mine joined a company in New York last year November. Today, we are 3 friends in the same company. Friends living in same city, visiting each other when we want to. He put us on and we are killing it in the company.

Players try to show everything. So nothing stands out. You don’t get picked for being complete. You get picked for being clear. #Football #PlayerClarity #PITCHEDWISDOM

Coaches are not trying to figure you out. They scan. Decide. Move on. If your role is not obvious, you get skipped. Not effort. Clarity. #Football #PITCHEDWISDOM #Athletes