Shim

Me and Dio, newly engaged as of 5 minutes ago, on our way to hit the town and celebrate: This is amazing! Nothing can kill our vibe right now! The Humble Deer:

genuinely terrifying how some of you will invent exonerating stories (he was driving and didn’t see the text disinviting him, she let him in) and convince yourselves the fictions *you’ve* created are more logical and true than the experience of the woman who it happened to

Out of sheer will I will undoom myself and kill this curse

The currently fashionable male view of tattoos on women is a hysterical herd phenomenon, which pretends to be some kind of sophisticated anthropological "red pill"—except it's obviously wrong. The meme says "tattoo = red flag" and "no tattoo has ever made a woman more beautiful." These two observations are contradictory. What none of the Men Against Female Tattoos ever acknowledge is: Red Flags are Hot. Red flags are not predictors of stability, faithfulness, or sustainable compounding of value, but not all the attractions of human life are perfectly correlated with the preferences of uptight Anglo shopkeepers. The most sexually attractive traits are correlated with a propensity toward self-destruction: risk, recklessness, and self-endangerment, even to the point of death. Read Freud, Bataille, or even within evo-psych just look at Life History Theory. Self-destruction has always been one of the sexiest things in the world—and for good reasons, even if it cuts against long-term stability. It may be true that one tattoo rarely makes a woman more beautiful (in part because one tattoo has little signal either way), but what this popular refrain ignores is the following inconvenient fact: Many tattoos can make a woman far more attractive. If you've ever been to a bar at night (many of these men have not), the hottest woman there (according to the actual felt sense of lust averaged across all the men), will ALWAYS be the wild-looking, heavily tattooed baddie over the pristine girl in a sundress, assuming other traits are equal. If any of these anti-tattoo men were approached by one of these women below, in a bar past 11pm, they would simply wet their pants. They would not be able to handle it, and they've never had the opportunity, either. And I think they know that this is true, which is why they hysterically project against any woman with ANY SINGLE tattoo, with this weirdly intellectualized gloss that folds if you even poke it for a second. Men who love to talk about their zero-tolerance policy for tattoos on women are often just boring, fearful, cowardly men who know nothing of romance, love, sex, or death. All they care about is securing a loyal safe obedient slave who is guaranteed to never put their long-term value accretion at risk. This is also why many of them never get married at all, or stay perpetually divorced; and the ones who are married are often just uptight bores and petty tyrants over boring, lame little households. Can we also talk about how this anti-tattoo hysteria is itself a kind of inverted woke feminism—it's so prissy, so fixated on "trauma" (which is probably not real, and a left-wing bludgeon), etc. Sorry bros but the theory presented here is far more consistent with the data. It's OK to have your own preferences; you don't have to dress them up as profound social theories, which conveniently also frame yourself as a good person, and women you could never get as bad people!

i wish women were mean to fat men the same way men are mean to fat women

what do men actually want?

public undergarments shop is already a vulnerable place for so many young women and the idea that men will look at them which they 100% will is UNCOMFORTABLE but these dimwit str8 women would rather stick w their bf to the hip 24/7 and invalidate other girls' negative experiences

Me and Dio, newly engaged as of 5 minutes ago, on our way to hit the town and celebrate: This is amazing! Nothing can kill our vibe right now! The Humble Deer:

So many of you are going to get girlfriends that immediately break up with you once they see what you tweet. So so many of you.

Men, if you're looking for a marriage counselor, your marriage is 99.9% toast, anyway. The chance of finding a therapist who can actually help the salvageable .1% is about .1%. Your marriage is ending. Plan your life accordingly.

If you've ever helped empty out a boomers garage you know "we were just smart with our money and didn't buy tons of bullshit" is a bald faced lie.