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No one will see this but I'll say it anyway: "Prot" is not actually short for "Protestant." It's a slur and anyone who uses it demonstrates their hardheartedness and their inability to engage in a constructive debate and unify in Christian faith.

@Ashleydoncare @emilymcclements @RachelReneeRee1 That clears up nothing. They still abused a human corpse by throwing it out like a rotten banana peel.

@emilymcclements @RachelReneeRee1 They won’t release the gestational age which would clear up all of this. But yea there’s no indication she gave birth to an infant.

This woman was not arrested for miscarrying her baby. There was a year long investigation after she gave birth to an infant, left it to die outside by an embankment, called emergency services, and DID NOT TELL THEM, and left the baby when she went to the hospital. Be honest.

@SWalzzzz @HazelAppleyard Yes, we do. Not only was he an ass for doing that after she'd only had 5 hours sleep, when she was clearly upset and not laughing, he showed no remorse and continued to find enjoyment in her suffering! That is 💯abuse.

@HazelAppleyard Jumping to “abuse” is ridiculous 🙄 We don’t have nearly enough context to label this man an “abuser”.

She had 5 hours of unbroken sleep, up with the kids. He dumped flour and water on her to wake her up. Sometimes pranks are just abuse.

@allie__voss That's not a display of "invisible labor" (the only thing we know for sure that the wife was responsible for in the video was cooking dinner, clearly visible) but what it is a display of is a young married man who, by all appearances, lives like he's still single.

Every conversation around “invisible labor” seems to imagine that the woman in the scenario is totally unacknowledged and unappreciated Who knows if she even has a job? Who knows if she has her own activities? Why are people getting offended on her behalf?

@CryptoInvstr64 @Geniustechw I liked her first solo album, but when she released the second one and bragged about how she recorded it in just two weeks and it was so terrible (she should've spent more than two weeks on it!) I was done.

@Geniustechw Initially, and I do mean when she was part of Destiny's Child, they had a catchy sound and put out a few danceable tunes. As a solo artist she just got way too self-absorbed and both hers and Jay-Z's egos got the best of them.

Am I the only one who genuinely doesn’t get her popularity? 😭

@LeahDiscovers I don't think this counts as a role reversal since they're not married. And, as such, he gets nothing. If he wants to break up over it, she should cut her losses and let him go.

That's kinda what you get for having a house husband and playing house before he married you. Don't live with this kind of man unless you are willing to foot the bill.

@HazelAppleyard Whether you're "compatible" or not is 💯 a choice. They can work out a compromise on the frequency & a plan to achieve their goal. He's probably going to have to give up some/all of his "kinks." He is not entitled to anything that would make his wife uncomfortable or hurt.

Man wants s*x more than his wife and thinks this is somehow a unique situation. He’s right. He promised to be her rock forever. And now he wants to leave her cause she isn’t k*nky enough. 🙄

@Cr7Godbrand @Han81 But that's as far as it goes, asking or telling. You can't force her to comply or obey. That's on her. So you have no controlling "power over" her.

@Cr7Godbrand @Han81 You've got it backwards. With responsibility comes power. (That's the truth, not a cliche.) The power, or authority, to fulfill your duties/responsibilities, which sometimes include asking or telling your wife, out of love, to do something that promotes her best interests. Cont.

We don’t live in a patriarchal world; it’s matriarchal. Most college graduates are women. Most degree holders are women. Men’s duties are enforceable by law, but women’s duties are not. The courts favor women more. A woman can falsely accuse a man of rape, regardless of his status, and potentially ruin his career and life. The government focuses more on women. Grants are given mostly to women. Scholarships are awarded mostly to women. When couples fight, the man is often told to leave the home. “Happy wife, happy life.” Marriage, relationships, Valentine’s Day, is centered around the woman and her happiness. Alimony is awarded mostly to women. Women receive automatic child custody. Men have to fight to see their children. These benefits apply to women rich, poor, and average alike. Now, What power does a poor man have over his wife or any woman, government and the court of law? So how is the world patriarchal if women hold this much benefit and power over both rich and poor men? Stop your nonsense.

@Strangeland_Elf Not everything given is a gift, so I think using "gift" as a verb is perfectly fine.

To be fair the earliest known use of “gift” l as a verb is from the late 1500s.

@Cr7Godbrand @Han81 That's not power, that's responsibility. You have a lot to learn. But you won't, because you're too angry and bitter.

@Han81 They are not. Men are suppose to have power over his wife. He is the head of the family.

@Strangeland_Elf I'm very confused as to why their calves are bigger than their thighs.

Why do they look so… thin? Like the head to body ratio is off? Also why do you need the historical characters in “modern era” style when you can just put the old dolls on any cloths you want? Also also… why is Samantha’s skirt so short?

@tanyaelisabeth @MellyWigs Misandry is evil. Feminism is not. Learn the difference. And let's be honest. There are both career women and SAHMs who are wasting their potential for those things they're not doing because they have tunnel vision. But all women need balance. We're not a monolith.

@MellyWigs No I’m actually not. I’ve spent years talking about feminism and to feminists who all vast majority hold this view that women who stay home are wasting their lives and potential. So yes I will continue talking to you and about how evil feminism is. Thank you very much.

If I pay another woman to do what I do for my children, she would be called a professional doing important work. But if I do the exact same work myself for my own children, then I’m just wasting my life and my potential. Welcome to feminist reasoning.

@Blueblur_23 A wife is a homemaker, not a maid. They are, in fact, two different things. Just because she is the primary person responsible for keeping house and making it a home does not give her husband the right to be a slob and make more work than necessary.

This hits hard for so many men, I imagine.

@Strangeland_Elf That comment about 'if you're bored staying at home then you're not creative enough' came off to me as condescending.

Anyways, just want to encourage people to be more gracious to those who have concerns about or don’t understand or are struggling with things like being a homemaker or having kids.

@allie__voss Judging from his thread I, like her, would've also questioned if he was really saved. None of his comments sound like a Christian man. And calling her a "church mouse" is insulting. He is unkind.

"I dated a church girl and was surprised she... -wanted several kids -was waiting til marriage -didn't like me having a trucker's mouth" Wow steak too juicy lobster too buttery, condolences, my guy

@Strangeland_Elf Anyone who says it was the original post with the tone of superiority seems to lack reading comprehension. She never said nor implied that other SAHMs lacked intelligence or intellectual capacity.

I’m getting really tired of the mom/housewife side of Twitter. There is so often a tone of superiority that gets so grating in a lot of the discussions I see. Yeah, maybe someone ISN’T a very creative person or they’ve never really had a version of homemaking that allows for intellectual stimulation models to them. Maybe someone voicing their concern that, though they see the value in homemaking, it doesn’t seem intellectually stimulating enough to them is an opportunity to help them, not belittle them. People, yes even women *gasp*, are different from one another and some personalities are going to struggle more than others with this stuff. Why is there so much judgment and hostility and denigration of each other in this space? You don’t make a great impression of what kind of community a woman who is thinking about being a homemaker could look forward to having. “Oh you’re struggling? Clearly you’re just doing everything wrong.” Okay but are you going to actually be helpful or just flex your superiority?

@USAforeverfam @jenanamericngal Show us where it says they are NOT permitted. You can't.

@jenanamericngal Show me where in the bible it says that women are permitted to divorce over their husband's infidelity. It's not there.

A Christian woman should absolutely be willing to forgive her husband for infidelity. Keeping your family together should be your top priority, especially when you have children. A lot of Christian women believe that a man's infidelity justifies divorce, but this is not biblical.

@HPluckrose Also, when someone walks in on a woman in her underwear, she is vulnerable in a way that she isn't when she's on the beach and everyone else there is pretty much equally exposed.

Because they wear bikinis in public environments and underwear in private ones.

My grandmother kept the house and raised 7 kids, but she was never just a "stay at home mom." She was a pastor's wife, Sunday school teacher, missionary, and so much more.

Being a wife and mother is a beautiful thing, but we were all made by God for "more." We are not meant to be isolated within our own immediate families. We are all meant to be part of a larger community in some way, whether it's a job, charity work, serving in the church, etc.