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@White_Crayon_00 @brianatheroux I guess I AM a sugar baby - though that dynamic is usually about much younger women and older men. Go read my previous posts.

@Veronicathanks @brianatheroux So why are you here exactly? I'm not a sugar daddy and you're not a sugar baby so what part of this got you all riled up? Is it the fact you just don't want to see these 'losers' get what they want?

This is a very common arrangement actually. Especially in larger cities. I’ve had multiple friends in setups like this with men who were either 1) married, or 2) aged out of the competitive dating market. My guess is a lot of the married men didn’t want the moral implications of sleeping with another woman, but still wanted female company, emotional intimacy, validation, novelty, etc. And a lot of the older men likely had ED or lower libido but still wanted proximity to women and femininity. And per yesterday’s post… this is the reality of waiting until you’re decades past your prime and then being told you’ll suddenly have unlimited authentic romantic options because you accumulated money or status. A lot of what actually ends up available is negotiated companionship. Not raw mutual desire.

@JocastaMoney @asda Try @sainsburys - they have a clearly labelled halal section and they state that their own brand products and not halal or kosher.

I tried to order a roasting chicken from @asda yesterday but the only ones they sold were Halal certifiied. I try to spend as much money as I can buying higher welfare chicken, paying twice the price to minimise the pain and suffering they endure in life. To then slaughter them in the most inhumaine way imaginable, just to meet the religious deamands of a seventh century desert cult? No. The British are a nation of animal lovers. Decisions such as this by our supermarket monolopies and the poulty industry are incredibly devisive. To make it worst, they will likely ignore the many customers who complain as bigots, reframing a genuine concern for animal welfare as racism. I am done with being turned into a second class citizen. I don't want to eat meat slaughtered in such a barbaric way, nor do I want it blessed by an Imam. If did I would move to Tehran. I am boycotting @asda and all supermarkets who continue to place the demands of a small but entitled minority over the values and wishes of the mutliracial majority.

@White_Crayon_00 @brianatheroux Oh honey, i don't date men over 36 let alone bald and fat ones 😂

@Veronicathanks @brianatheroux Who hurt you sweetheart? I bet he was bald fat and over 45.

@SirDWindscale @MeghanEMurphy It definitely isn't easier. I have to bat off the way to young men and most age appropriate above average men are logistical challenges (By this age you tend to be settled in a particular location, many have family commitments & that makes it difficult)

@Veronicathanks @MeghanEMurphy I find it all very strange because everything I read says that if you are ‘above average’ at 50 it should be easy to find a partner but that hasn’t been my experience at all. I can’t use the apps though so anecdotally I’m talking about encounters with people in real life… 🥹

Aaaand this is why so many men in their 40s look like shit and why women their age are going for guys in their 30s instead. Letting yourself go at 40 is sad. You should always strive to look your best. Trying to be attractive is not a bad thing! x.com/Griffit1599994…

@SirDWindscale @MeghanEMurphy I'm 50, 110lbs, blonde, and get mistaken for being in my 20s on a daily basis. I don't throw myself at men. I don't have to. I am discerning about who I date. I am open to being wooed though.

@MeghanEMurphy I'm 50, 6ft, 206lbs, with a head of dark hair and £1 million in the bank and I haven't had any women throwing themselves at me. What is the point in looking your best when women are no longer seeking men? If you need me I'll be in the gym contemplating the end of civilisation.

@RawMind94 @lallathurayya Qualified personal trainer and short gal here. She's right. As short girls our base metabolic rate is much lower than regular sized people. Standard advice doesn't work for us. We need to move more and eat less than most. 1600-2000 calories for AVG women, 1100- 1400 for us.

@lallathurayya My opinion is don't listen to anyone here including me unless the person is certified physical trainer

Women under 5’3 don’t listen to this. Those steps are crucial for us

@itsbaonx @brianatheroux The guy who pays for my hair is your age. I don't request what they pay for, they decide. And yes, it's buying an experience they wouldn't otherwise have access to.

@Veronicathanks @brianatheroux I can believe it, if you're as you say, I wouldn't pay for your hair but all the dinners etc, just for the company of a top end woman, and I'm 39. I've found that as I earn more I don't buy things but I'm happy to pay alot for experiences.

@White_Crayon_00 @brianatheroux Oh honey, does the truth sound bitter to you? I LOVE my life. You really need to focus on making yourself as attractive as possible and settling down before you find yourself bald, fat, 45 and single.

@Veronicathanks @brianatheroux Lol, you sound bitter af about it. I bet they love their life. Something you could never say.

@White_Crayon_00 @brianatheroux But they are doing this now they are older because their datable value has dropped - they're no longer handsome. They can't attract someone at the level of attractiveness they desire so they have to pay for it. Not exactly winning at life is it?

@brianatheroux Do you really think these old guys just stayed virgins their whole life then bought themselves a sugar baby when they got old? Nobody waits. Everyone is getting or trying to get laid by the time they first get a boner. This is just what they are doing now that they are older.

@AlanBT5 @AvonandsomerRob Mine gave me a black eye. It's so heavy and unwieldy.

@AvonandsomerRob It's like dragging a drunk retard around the house though. Always on it's arse.

It seems that a Henry knocks spots off anything else out there, according to todays Great Vacuum Debate. Dyson's are for the Audi-driving pseudo-middle class. Shark are bought by people who think Gold Blend coffee is posh. But you'll never see a tradesman cleaning up with either - they always have a Henry in the back of their van because they are indestructible..

@AposematicHate @elegationvain I have a good tailor but I just try to avoid some styles because I'm overall petite but curvy and sizing up often throws off proportions too much. One day I may have a custom leather skirt made.

@Veronicathanks @elegationvain A like to show support, but it isn't too hard to take stuff like that in at the waist as long as the zip is long enough to be hip accommodating. I have had to teach my bestie how to do some alterations so things fit and look flattering.

If you’re an autoandrophile, this is good advice. If you’re a normal heterosexual woman…why?

@AposematicHate @elegationvain Yes. My hourglass means that often to get something over my thighs and hips it will be about 2 sizes too big in the waist. I recently bought a leather skirt because I had a vision of an outfit but alas, they're meant for the less curvy. I belong in a bodycon dress forever.

@elegationvain My friend would try and target this because if she doesn't dress like a whore she looks fat. She looks like Jessica Rabbit. I actually bought her a dress and gloves to cosplay her. Still trying to find a decent fitting pair of shoes

@BearNecessity3 @Leezabizzbee @supertolerant I know someone who has this. And he has been fired from every job he's had because he takes everything to heart and can't emotionally regulate his response to just do his job and go home. But he still tries and wouldn't dare pontificate in this way.

@Leezabizzbee @supertolerant No, it was BPD but now they call it EUPD, because that's exactly what it is, the inability to regulate emotions.

The “working class” speaks. - Has emotionally unstable personality disorder. - Permanently signed off work. - Fired from every job she’s ever had. Remember when being working class meant actually going to work?

@the_fem_tm I mean, I am perpetually 20. And let me tell you: men are still mostly terrible.

Guys will complain that women have unrealistic standards but like, come the fuck on. At least it’s actually possible for a man to be tall and rich. It’s not possible to be perpetually 20.

@JamesEsses Congratulations! Fantastic news!

Many people have noticed that I’ve been posting a lot less on here over recent months. There are two reasons for that. The first is that today I’m proud to announce that I have been elected as a Conservative Councillor for my home town of High Barnet. I have spent the last 6 months campaigning and knocking on every door in the ward to try to take back control of Barnet Council from the flailing and failing Labour Party. Why Conservatives? I believe that the Conservative Party is the only party that can truly deliver on what the people of Britain need: lower migration, preservation of our national identity, getting the economy moving again, becoming tougher on crime and disorder, and representing us with pride on the international stage. More personally, I believe that the Conservatives are the only mainstream party that recognise and will protect the importance of biological sex. I have spent years collaborating with Kemi on protecting women and children and I truly trust her principles. As for the second reason, watch this space…!

@ChalieStar613 @janesue821 Eat less, move more. Drink more water, give up carbs, eat more protein. And that's all you need to do.

@janesue821 I genuinely used to have a fast metabolism and eat a ton of food, but after my second baby it's shot and I have no idea how to lose the all the extra weight

Today’s discourse is making me think about the first time a post of mine got any attention. Some people were very mad but I stand by it lol

@ThePosieParker No real LV shoes are put in plastic bags to box. These will be fakes.

Seriously, no one is surprised.

@BradfemlyWalsh I work in STEM - I have an Arts degree. I think about things in a way that makes a huge difference to the work of those people with STEM degrees.

This is absolutely heartbreaking. Humanities are so important. Not everyone wants to study or work in STEM not are they capable of doing so. I'm shit at everything STEM related and would rather eat my own eyeballs than have a STEM-based career.

@BradfemlyWalsh That's amazing. How much is it?

Thanks for recommending this top to me, H&M, it's the perfect summer look for every fat 53 year old mum!