Bithy

Here’s the thing If your woman says “I don’t need anything for Valentine’s Day” and then gets big mad at you for not doing anything- YES. That’s a lie. Women. Don’t say things that aren’t true. However. Men. Let’s be honest. If she says “Yes. I want a Valentine please.” How fun is that? How do you feel about it? If she goes one further and even tells you exactly what she wants? Do you feel all warm and fuzzy and “oh I can’t wait to delight her with my compliance!” Probably not. Most people don’t like to be dictated to. And how fun is the gift when you had to tell him precisely what to get? Not fun at all. At the bottom of it all, for both partners. If this is the person you love- you KNOW what they like and what will make them smile. (If you don’t, get on with learning it or admit you don’t love well). Unless the relationship is very very new, you know whether she wants a little something, a big something, or truly doesn’t care about this made up holiday. Know how to make your partner smile CARE about making your partner smile Do it as often as you like and how it works for you both and the internet’s opinions be damned.

jawbreaker was crazy for this