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Do not Marry POOR MEN

@Adhekunbi Some of them, rent money and school fees. Some don’t even have.

Men have always been asking what women bring to the table Now what exactly do men bring to the table??

“No job, no marriage” — Pastor Adeboye urges women to prioritise financial stability in suitors over religious performance

@Presh__lee Ignore them only men who can afford to provide will understand. Those who can’t afford are triggered so they’re online shouting

What do men really want? I made a post about my future husband providing for the family while I focus on being a good, submissive wife taking care of the home, cooking, and doing chores. But some men didn’t like it at all… they started dragging me. Some are upset because I said I don’t want to contribute financially. And yes, I won’t except when necessary, and even then, it’s something I expect to be acknowledged. If you don’t want to provide for your family as the man, that’s your choice and the kind of wife you attract will align with that. If you prefer a 50:50 arrangement with your wife and she’s okay with it, that’s fine too. But as for me, I’m not doing 50:50. I believe a man should take responsibility for providing for the home. And if you choose to move in with your wife after marriage, that’s your decision. To each their own.

Unpopular opinion A present father and a good husband will never what plenty kids.

@tutorE_LN @gamerwalt I do agree because everyone needs to learn how to cook and take care of their family. But to be dating and asking “do you know how to cook” lol - blocked

@gamerwalt I think the problem is her unwillingness to cook for her family,thinking it's old fashioned. If she can't cook but willing to learn then✅ If she can't cook and not ready to learn then ❌ If they are both career oriented, they can employ a cook .

The absolute truth. Young men... irrespective of of you know how to cook or not, marry a woman who knows how to cook and takes pride in caring for a home. Let's forget about all this woke culture nonsense for a minute and look at reality. If a man is out there breaking his back to provide the resources, the lady needs to know how to manage that home. It is a practical partnership, and these are fundamental survival skills, not oppression. Most times, the woman is the anchor of the household. If she cannot cook or refuses to maintain a decent living space, the entire family structure suffers. You end up bleeding hard-earned money on takeout, your health declines from eating processed garbage, and you come back to a chaotic house instead of a peaceful refuge. A woman who knows her way around a kitchen and values home care transforms a basic building into an actual sanctuary. It shows genuine respect for the family and ensures children are raised in a stable, healthy environment. Don't let modern internet debates fool you... marrying a woman with these essential domestic skills is the bedrock of a lasting, functional marriage.

@Presh__lee Is that all? Only rent and light and school fees. Hahhaa not even fun money? Shopping? Leisure? Activities? Travel? Home improvement. Just basic bills and men are shouting - what of those men that buy their wives cars and the kids are busy in activies and traveling.

When I get married I won't be paying any bill unless when necessary. My husband will be paying for Rent Foodstuff Gas School fees Light I'll help out when he ask to assist and will pay back I'll be a submissive wife and respect him. Cook for him Birth his children Clean the house Satisfy him Take care of the home.

@Taiwo_junzi In Nigeria where the average income is less than what?? 300k monthly. These men have no skills to offer and barely any money. The pastor focused on telling men to not marry a woman who can cook. Nigeria will never be a developed country.

@Taiwo_junzi Also so many men are poor. Dirt poor. Have nothing to offer. Yet they want a woman who is skilled like a professional. Isn’t that funny… She has to clean like a professional Cook like a chef Have kids and have no health issues. No CS no medication if possible Beauty queen

I don’t care if a woman can cook or not. I care more if she’s willing to cook for me than if she can actually cook. Many men are married to women who can cook yet they get cooked for because it’s not something their wives really want to do for them. It’s the same way I care more about a woman earning 5 naira and seeing it as family income than I care about a woman earning 5 billion but telling me I should not care about her bank account. I’ll always encourage to go after a person’s values not their skills/results.

Let’s give this bozo the attention they’re craving. Notice how I actually ignored the countless desperate attempts. They kept on even responding and talking to themselves. Validation is embarrassing… someone wants to be accepted so badly… even after being ignored. Yikes.

@norabird @ethantgibson No. Pay to access.

@ethantgibson To make knowledge accessible 😭

Why would they do that

They wanted more reasons to date younger like lol - most men are naturally PDFs

Don’t marry a man who does not have his own house and his own car - Linda

@dreal_prosper @jailden007 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Maybe for my second marriage. Right now my current husband is doing well 😂

@chitown2710 @jailden007 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Omo Igbo men sweet.. only a few of them are a pain in the ass, you should watch out for those ones

Bro, I’ll be having two kids….whether they’re the same gender or not, I’m good. After that, I’ll go for a vasectomy. But before that, I’ll make sure I run DNA tests on the kids 😅 I honestly don’t have the energy to raise three or four kids. I want my wife and I to actually live, enjoy life, and not just be overwhelmed with responsibilities.

@dreal_prosper @jailden007 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Literally. They’re triggered for no reason that’s why I ignore them My family members are Igbo, I still won’t marry Igbo

@jailden007 @chitown2710 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Why you de crash out?? She tag you? Allow people air their opinions without attacking them

@dreal_prosper @S_O_M_M_Y @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz What about those that get buried in the U.K.😂😂😂 hahaha

@S_O_M_M_Y @chitown2710 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz If a married woman d!e where will she be buried ? Her husband place or her father’s place? Let’s say for instance she’s the only daughter of a farmer who has multiple properties in his village The moment she passes on, her kids mostly likely wont step foot at her place again

@dreal_prosper @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Yeah I know you have your own explanation already. I have mine and I totally think it’s very misogynistic to the point that I didn’t marry an Igbo man because most have that mindset and I no wan suffer

@chitown2710 @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz It’s not really about misogyny imo It’s more like a reality, we see how women change surnames after getting married, they become visitors in their fatherland Igbo culture respects women too… aside the women that be wanting things meant for men..

@GloriousGod01 Nigerian men that post on X are the worst and the most pathetic. First date question: do you have an X account and on a scale of 1-10 how many bastard tweets have you posted.

I don't care how you people see this but just so you know, My wife cannot on her own decide to deliver by Caesarean section. I have heard that some women no longer want to deliver vaginally and are opting for CS even when a vaginal birth is perfectly safe. That is unacceptable to me. Unless the doctor advises or recommends a CS due to medical reasons, she must deliver vaginally the way a woman should. Fear of pushing is not an excuse. I will not allow any woman to carry my child and then choose CS simply because she is afraid of labour pain. Fear of pushing is not a medical condition. Above all, love God.

@dreal_prosper @JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Oh Igbo man, that makes sense. Does the Igbo culture respect women. I’m Igbo myself and it’s the most misogynistic culture

@JEdejewhro @Dir_Martinsz Yes o I be Igbo man, no be woman go continue my linage… na MAN