Stanley Devastating

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Stanley Devastating

Stanley Devastating

@devastatingstan

itty bitty witty and a top hat entering my performative boyboss era? still making fetch happen in 2025

Katılım Şubat 2016
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Stanley Devastating
Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@gemondirl @1followernodad It will happen, it has already happened, and you are entirely delusional about other people’s sex drives if you think otherwise. Your man is fantasising about other women, and maybe some men, frequently. Only religious freaks or asexual men would pretend otherwise.
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blu 🧶@gemondirl·
@devastatingstan @1followernodad maybe if you live in a reality where you think it's an absolute necessity to beat it to other women that would be true but it's actually not and I don't need to settle for less lol
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@kaylykitten143 @1followernodad You literally described a man that has a really really low libido. A man not interested in sex? You’re a true idiot if you think this is a typical or normal thing for a healthy man.
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Kaylykitten@kaylykitten143·
@devastatingstan @1followernodad ????? I never said males are going to become asexual?????? Ive known my husband since 2014, we've been married since 2016. Im pretty sure I know his habits, his desires, his wants more than randos on the internet 🫢
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a.j. ⚧️🛸@normalmaxxedaj·
I’m learning that many straight women really do just want their boyfriends to lie to them constantly. They don’t want honest, vulnerable admissions of desire & predilections, they want to be deceived & manipulated because they prefer the egotistical fantasy that their man only ever thinks sexually about them as opposed to actual intimacy. It’s very childish, actually. Teenage girl mentality
alexis@imheretolurk13

I love that more and more women are calling out their boyfriends for watching that misogynistic trash 🙂‍↕️

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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj You can have whatever preferences and feelings and expectations, but these are totally open for the rest of us to judge how sensible and achievable these are. Hou are demanding control over your partner’s masturbation w/o equivalent restriction on yours; that is selfish.
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Still not a valid boundary no matter how often you call it one. It’s no different to a man having “boundaries” about the clothes his girl dresses in or the pictures she puts on insta or the sextoys she uses. A boundary is how he treats you directly and is about your safety.
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Kaylykitten@kaylykitten143·
@devastatingstan @1followernodad Sorry baby, we are around each other 24/7 unless hes at work, and I know how demanding his job is. He's never been big into sex. Not all males are whores!
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj He is absolutely fantasising about other women that is certain. Nearly every man uses erotic material occasionally unless they have a low libido so the overwhelming probability is he is just hiding his masturbation habits from you, and you’re a fool to believe anything different.
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itsmeiamhere@leaninmyfij1·
@devastatingstan @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj not everyone is going to lie and sneak to watch porn brother, your mind is rotted. you see it as a necessity you cannot live without so you can’t fathom another man just *not* watching porn.
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простая деревенская девушка
простая деревенская девушка@regionalblonde·
@Amina_io i accept that most men (and many women too) consume some sort of erotic materials, but it really sucks when you care about someone and they spend too much of their time, energy, and money on fantasy instead of their existing relationship.
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Amina@Amina_io·
I think Zoomer women hate porn because it makes them feel bad. sure, some of them probably read Andrea Dworkin or whatever, but a lot of it is just insecurity. and the insecurity is irrational. your bf isn't going to leave you for the sexy lady from the video. but our modern culture has a low tolerance for irrationality. so it ends up with this weird intellectualization of emotions.
Lizzie Marbach@LizzieMarbach

Boyfriend admits to watching porn “like a week ago.” 🤮 then gets offended when she says that’s “gross.” Ladies, a guy using porn IS cheating and you should not tolerate it. Men should also have the same intolerance for women reading smutty books.

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🐣@chelinkaj·
@Amina_io You would have told your premodern ancestors to not mind their husband’s concubines and trips to the local brothel like a good obedient wife should and to quit it with the hysterical whining when the syphilis their husbands gave them rots their nose off and kills their children
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@gemondirl @1followernodad Well you are just repressed and insecure about a ubiquitous biological reality. So you are either accept that or you demand your partner is equally repressed, and even if they are it will still happen anyway sometimes.
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blu 🧶@gemondirl·
@1followernodad they really want me to believe I'm a puritan freak because I don't want my man jerking it to other women behind my back like what's going on 😭😭😭
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@kaylykitten143 @1followernodad Lmao well you’re lying to yourself if you believe your partner hasn’t done that. They just aren‘t talking to you about it because they know you can’t cope with it. That’s pretty much the two choices you have.
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Kaylykitten@kaylykitten143·
@1followernodad I desperately need yall to Google the difference between *finding someone attractive* and *BEING attracted to someone* they are different things. It is OKAY to find others attractive, it is NOT ok to fantasize about fucking others when you're in a monogamous relationship.
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Well what does that tell you? It’s a ridiculous demand and you are not going to build an intimate relationship with sex from it, you will build one based around withholding this information from each other and keeping your partner out of this part of your life.
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj It’s simply not a boundary. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it a boundary. you cannot just use the word boundary to describe everything you don’t like. you insist on the word because you believe “I need to control my partner’s masturbation habits” sounds ridiculous
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kofi anon@poemPilled·
No one wants to jack off anymore they want to endlessly critique jacking off
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj People can and do agree to all sorts of things in relationships that are bad. Controlling what their partner wears, what they post online, who they are friends with - all “boundaries” that are really about managing their own insecurities through controlling a partner.
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj You don’t get to have a “boundary” about how someone fantasises. It’s a ridiculous imposition on someone’s private thoughts, and unenforceable to boot. It doesn’t directly impact you or the relationship so it’s not just a “boundary”.
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@leaninmyfij1 @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Firstly, all boundaries imply restricting other people’s behaviour. But more importantly, you cannot call the relationship somebody else has with their body “Your Boundary”. A boundary relates to what they do or say to YOU. You are simply disguising control with therapy words.
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itsmeiamhere@leaninmyfij1·
@devastatingstan @kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj That’s not control, that’s your personal boundaries. if two people agree that it’s cheating and then one does it anyways, they’re purposefully ignoring boundaries. My boyfriend doesn’t consume porn at all, nor do i🤷‍♀️
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Stanley Devastating@devastatingstan·
@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj So what? Jerk off however you want, if your partner tries to tell you that your way is wrong then they are overstepping and trying to control you.
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