Dominic C

Crazy 🤓

@thedarshakrana So good!!! I actually had this same conversation with my 16 year old this morning on the way to school so I asked Grok to put it in words he would understand. x.com/i/grok/share/0…

You think you're unhappy because life is hard. Wrong. You're unhappy because you're still operating at infant-level selfishness with adult-level expectations. Happiness isn't found in gratitude journals or positive thinking. It's found in the INVERSE relationship between your talent stack and your need to be selfish. When you're born, you're 100% selfish, 0% capable. Perfect equilibrium. Society expects nothing from you. They age chronologically but not competency-wise. They hit 30, 40, 50...still operating from scarcity, still locked in survival mode, still taking more than they give. The stress you feel? That's the cognitive dissonance between where you ARE (high selfishness, low talent) and where you SHOULD BE on the developmental curve. Your path to meaning is mathematical: Accumulate talents → Eliminate personal scarcity → Reduce selfish need → Turn outward → Experience meaning Every moment you stay below the curve...high selfishness, low capability....you're in psychological debt. The interest compounds as stress, anxiety, emptiness. The solution isn't to "be less selfish." That's premature morality. The solution is to BUILD POWER through talent acquisition until selfishness becomes *optional*, not necessary. Only then does happiness become accessible. Only then does meaning emerge. You can't transcend selfishness through willpower. You transcend it through competence.

More people need to realize this…preaching victimhood is poison…especially for young people…true empowerment comes from believing you are capable and that hard work matters! 💪🙏❤️

Once the numbers are available, it is possible to run an analysis to identify the fifty worst judges in America, meaning those who are putting the country and its citizens in severe danger. You go after those first fifty. You use whatever legal means are available to get them impeached. You investigate whether they have engaged in corruption. Whatever is within the scope of the law, you use to remove them from power. As people are removed from the list, you replace them with the next worst remaining, so the list always contains fifty. If you were to do this with a couple of wealthy sponsors, you would likely need a team of three or four people to handle the investigations and a lawyer to file suits. That effort would provide a significant service to America and Americans. Put the judiciary on notice.

@Breedlove22 Top 5 tweet...basically perfect...I wish I could insert this message into a certain loved ones heart and mind...it would change a lot.

The victim mentality almost destroyed my ability to lead, love, and grow. Here is how I broke free from it: For years, I unconsciously played the blame game (the way most people do). By the time I understood what it was costing me, I had already wasted years of emotional energy, damaged relationships, and handed over the steering wheel of my life to people and circumstances that had no business driving. It nearly became a permanent way of operating. Others I've watched do the same thing never came back from it. They aged into their resentments. Became bitter. Isolated. Stuck. We had the same capacity for freedom – they just never chose it. So here is how I found my way out: 1. The first turning point was realizing blame is a transaction. Blame buys you innocence, sympathy, and the right to stay exactly where you are. Once you see you're collecting a payoff, you can no longer pretend it's something happening to you. By reframing adversity as something happening for you rather than to you, you can transform your habit of blaming into spiritual growth. 2. The second turning point was Viktor Frankl. A man who lost his family, his freedom, and everything he owned inside a N*zi concentration camp... and still chose to respond from a place of love. He called it the final human freedom (the space between what happens to you and how you respond, the one place no external circumstance can reach). When I really sat with that, I stopped being able to justify my own smaller grievances the way I had been. If he could exercise that freedom there, I had no excuse not to exercise it everywhere. It felt uncomfortable (the way responsibility always does) but also like reclaiming something that had always been mine. 3. The third turning point was the daily practice. Understanding something intellectually and living it are two completely different things. What I did every day was simple: Whenever I noticed the urge to blame, to tell myself a story of what someone did to me or what circumstance derailed me, I stopped and asked myself – what is the payoff I'm collecting right now? Self-pity. Sympathy. Innocence. The right to stay small. I started letting these things go rather than using them to write my story. The result was simple. I stopped being a victim of my circumstances and started being the author of them. That's what personal sovereignty actually feels like. I'm not special and I'm not better than anyone who's struggled with the blame game. I just got honest with myself about what I was actually doing and chose to walk a new path in life. If you find yourself pointing the finger outward more than inward right now, this is your sign. Blame has never solved a single problem in the history of the world. But personal responsibility has solved every problem that has ever been solved.

@tyromper @ZubyMusic Facts 💪🙏❤️

@djchill76 @ZubyMusic Right! We can affect politics 0.000000001% by voting. We can affect our lives 100% by intentionally living!

Yeah...

@tyromper @ZubyMusic Same…bringing all that into my daily life adds zero benefit 💪🙏❤️

@ZubyMusic I've blocked & muted most politicians & accounts that obsess over it. Peace >

@CliftonSellers Results aren’t easy especially at the beginning…patience and effort compound…keep going even when it’s hard (especially when it’s hard) 💪🙏❤️

What’s ONE thing you believe about success that most people need to hear?

@bgarlinghouse @BankXRP Yes 🙏💪❤️

Progress > Perfection

@katiivey Worst case you end up with another Twitter (X) friend…zero downside. ❤️🙏💪

Always shoot your shot with your long-distance Twitter crush 😘

@Breedlove22 Yes! 💪❤️🙏

@EndWokeness They have openly admitted this…all while claiming they are the sole defenders of “democracy”. It’s madness…we know who they are…praying “normal” people wake up before November.

What the left plans to do once in power -Crackdown on social media speech -Mass amnesty = 30M+ new voters -End the filibuster + pack SCOTUS -Nationwide mail-in + no voter ID -52 states (DC and Puerto Rico) -Abolish the Electoral College -MAGA arrests, de-banking Remember this

@PAlexONeil 😂 Stop…for a minute I thought you were too cool to say hi but you made my day brother…always great to see you!

Hoboy!!! I had a fantastic day. Ran into @djchill76 this afternoon before my afternoon steps got started and again as they were ending. Sorry, no pic. He looks WAY MORE handsome than I remember. Would have made me look like a troll in comparison. Great seeing you Daddio!!!

@beherleader I’ve seen a few “why bother” type comments but such a great blueprint for any man who wants to be the best version of himself and has found a like minded woman…that should be the goal. 💪❤️🙏

We send men into marriage with a suit, a speech, and a stag do...then act shocked when they don’t know how to be husbands. A lot of pain could’ve been avoided by a simple letter like this from their dads the night before the wedding. A father’s letter about marriage to his son Son, Tonight you stand on the edge of a new life. Tomorrow you will speak vows that will shape your soul. You won’t just marry a woman; you will accept a mission. You will become a husband, and God will judge you as one. I want you to remember this first: marriage will not run on feelings. Feelings rise and fall like weather. Marriage runs on virtue, sacrifice, and truth. When you love your wife, you don’t merely feel warmth toward her. You will her good. You choose her good when you feel tired, when you feel misunderstood, when you feel tempted to withdraw. That choice will make you a man. Your wife will not need a perfect husband. She will need a present one. She will need a man who leads the tone of the home. When tension comes—and it will—your calm will act like a roof over her head. If you panic, if you react, if you argue like a boy trying to win, you will teach her that the home has no shelter. If you stay steady, you will teach her that she can exhale. So lead with steadiness. When she feels upset, don’t treat her emotion as an enemy to defeat. Treat it as information to understand. Ask yourself, “What is she feeling, and what does she need from me right now?” Name it simply: “You feel hurt.” “You feel scared.” “You feel alone.” That kind of clarity will lower the fire. Then you can move to action together. You don’t need to fix everything in five minutes. You need to make her feel safe with you in the storm. At the same time, do not confuse “being loving” with “being weak.” Love needs backbone. You must hold your frame: your dignity, your boundaries, your direction. Some days she will test you—not because she hates you, but because she wants to know whether you can carry weight. She wants to know whether your strength stays when her emotion rises. Meet those moments with warmth and firmness. Speak slowly. Stand tall. Choose clarity over sarcasm. A man who holds the line with kindness becomes trustworthy. Never tolerate contempt. Never feed it. If she speaks with disrespect, address it quickly and privately. Keep your voice low. Make your boundary clear. Then return to peace. When you allow disrespect, you train the marriage to rot. When you correct it with calm authority, you train the marriage to heal. Build trust through consistency. Keep your promises. Show up on time. Follow through. A wife relaxes when she knows your “yes” means yes. She will forgive many imperfections if she can rely on your word. Consistency will feel boring to you some days. It will feel like oxygen to her. Keep courting her after tomorrow. Don’t let the wedding end the pursuit. Keep dating her. Plan. Initiate. Touch her with affection. Speak admiration out loud. A woman blooms under steady cherishing. Romance does not compete with responsibility. Romance fuels it. When conflict comes, repair quickly. Pride loves delay. Pride loves silence that punishes. Choose humility instead. If you wound her, own it cleanly. Don’t justify. Don’t lecture. Don’t say “I’m sorry you feel that way.” Say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. I will do better.” Then do better. That is how a man leads: he takes responsibility without theatrics. Make your home orderly. Create a shared mission. Decide what kind of marriage you want to build: prayerful, joyful, hospitable, disciplined, generous. Talk about money with honesty. Run a budget like a grown man. Learn the practical skills that prevent resentment: planning, chores, logistics, childcare. Don’t “help” in your own home. Own your share. Competence is love made visible. Now listen carefully about intimacy. Treat it as sacred. Your body will tempt you to take. Your vocation will call you to give. Lead with tenderness. Pursue connection, not release. Communicate. Learn her seasons. Respect her rhythms. Create emotional safety, because intimacy depends on trust. Guard your eyes and imagination like a man guarding a city gate. Porn and lust do not stay in a corner; they spread through a marriage like smoke. Purity gives you strength; strength gives her safety. Above all, put God at the center. Pray with your wife even when it feels awkward. Go to confession like a man who wants to stay clean. Go to Mass like a man who knows he needs grace. You cannot love her well on willpower alone. Grace will make your sacrifices fruitful. Virtue will make your love stable. Tomorrow you will speak vows. Speak them like a man laying his life on the altar. Then live them on Tuesday afternoons, on sleepless nights, on hard seasons, and in ordinary hours. Ordinary hours will build your marriage. Ordinary faithfulness will make you great. I love you. I’m proud of you. Now go and become the husband God calls you to be. Dad

@katiivey Definitely

Yes

@IOV_OWL Amen

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

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@tyromper @ZubyMusic @elonmusk Here for it!

@ZubyMusic @elonmusk round 2!!!

I will be in the USA again in May! Who should I record a podcast with? 🇺🇸