
I think the best way I can respond is to just post from what my church teaches about handling disputes.
As with any family, there will be times of disagreement, disappointment and misunderstandings. It is in those trying moments that we have the greatest opportunity to show the lost world that we truly are the children of God by our loving and forgiving spirit.
Sometimes, even among the closest of families, there are bitter arguments and disagreements that lead to sinful actions and attitudes. If left alone, bitterness can set in and great harm can come to the body of Christ. Signs of bitterness are backbiting, harmful gossip, unnecessary criticism and faultfinding. The consequences of not having a loving and forgiving spirit can do great damage to the cause of Christ and bring unnecessary separation among God's children that are to be united not divided. So...what is a believer to do?
Matthew 5:23-24...our service for the Lord is not more important than our relationships...stop what you are doing and go get things fixed between you and your brother...both are very important to the Lord.
Galatians 6:1-2...we are to go with a spirit and attitude of love and forgiveness...our goal is to restore, not condemn...we are to help lift our brother, not beat him further down.
Matthew 18:15...go alone...no one else needs to know or be involved.
Matthew 18:16...if things can't be resolved, get two or three others and go back...broken relationships need to be mended.
Matthew 18:17...sometimes sin or just an unwillingness to make things right gets such a foothold in a brother's life that we can no longer fellowship with them...it may be a sign that they have never truly experienced the saving grace of God...in such cases we are to stop treating them as a fellow brother in Christ but as a lost person that
needs Jesus.
Our ability and willingness to stick together, confront problems, love one another and forgive are a very important part of our testimony to the world that we are true children of God.
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