dilliah
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Stone Butch Blues isn’t even about a trans man! It never says this once! Reading it made me realize I AM a butch lesbian and not a trans man lol. Acting like SBB is a bible for trans men is hurtful towards many lesbians and trans men alike
ᯓʟᴇᴠɪ★@animal2you
nothing against stone butch blues inherently... but is this a safe place to admit that reading it helped me realize that i am a trans man and NOT a butch lesbian
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@gogoplum @sukhoinos this kind of lie isn’t just stupid it’s counterintuitive because the second a girl literally just googles it and sees that it isn’t true, she can go right back to wanting it gone and on top of that probably thinks people trying to help her are just liars now
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@gogoplum @sukhoinos the better isn’t my opinion, it’s the implication of trying to lie that that area is an organ instead of just fat. if you’re actually okay with healthy fat, why would you lie about it being an organ instead of fat to try and make it “seem better”? i was never tricked, im not dumb
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Does anyone else remember the Tumblr body positivity accepted fact that fat accumulation in people who were AFAB was either necessary to protect the uterus or was literally your uterus just bulging out
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@gogoplum @sukhoinos by denying the fact that it was fat on them and making up a lie that it was an organ instead to make it better…?
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@sukhoinos i think people were just trying to get yall to stop bashing women with healthy fat on them, but okay
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@Verbena_Corpse @directedbywomen no it wouldn’t because labeling a man cruel does literally nothing whereas a woman being labeled a whore can ruin her life or get her killed if she lives in certain places
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@directedbywomen Also are there men who view sex as degrading? Yes, but does that mean all men think that way about sex? No. wanting to have sex is normal
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the final step in feminism is realizing that women are aware of the problems with all of this but choose to accept it.
and when one talks about how many women are just... bad, they will use the victim card and call you misogynist. they love to use feminism to defend themselves
Brisa ⚢@moid_destr0yer
Radfems in this subreddit being the most based as usual.
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@aglassbrightly1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty nope. it’s not discourse, its sexual relations playing out in real life. keep watching the birth rate plummet and the male loneliness epidemic go up. women aren’t going to fuck you losers anymore. post more mental health stats about it
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@dilliah1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty The era of mentally ill women controlling public discourse is over. Forever.
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The making out/dead bedroom discourse is fascinating because once again women are saying “this is what I would like” and men are responding “you’re a fucking liar”
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@White_Janissary @TheMoriartyShow the aspect of being trapped in one’s own body is only especially heinous and scary because it’s a horror movie. it’s not possible in real life. the real world translation would be holding nikki hostage/inducing stockholm syndrome. there’s no realistic translation for abused woman
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@White_Janissary @TheMoriartyShow as a response. your entire argument is predicated on treating both actions as though they exist without context. murder is wrong — but in self-defense, as a response, its different. a restraining order also removes autonomy and forces him not to beat her. is that evil? is jail?
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Interesting interpretation, but let me explain my issue using a hypothetical:
In Obsession 2, a battered woman loves her man, so she Willow Wishes he wasn’t an abuser. He ends up trapped like Nikki because violence is fundamental to who he is.
Is the abused woman a monster?
Craig the Bad Guy@CraigtheBadGuy1
@White_Janissary But I think one of the points the story is that there’s no way to make her love him because that would fundamentally make her a different person, so the wish has to replace her with some entity, which doesn’t fully understand how humans work or act, that does love Bear
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@hellnotoMRNA @Purplezmbiegrl just in case you can’t read, this says that if a mother survives buying out the other partner and/or refinancing, which is already statistically unlikely per the poverty findings, the only way she’s likely to keep the house is for the sake of the bums children not being homeless.
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@hellnotoMRNA @Purplezmbiegrl you’re a porn obsessed liar. at least come up with realistic lies. in reality, where the rest of us live 30% of women end up in poverty after divorce, with a 90% chance of having full custody to worry about too. here are the facts, try not to cry about it: psc.isr.umich.edu/news/research-…
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She is one argument away from being homeless. Stay woke.
REINNAAAA 🦉𐃈@glitteryfem
i’ve been seeing so much tradwife propaganda lately
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@aglassbrightly1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty it doesn’t matter what you call me. type that i’m cruel and contemptuous or whatever sniffling, self-absorbed bs you want. the era of men guilt tripping women into unwanted sex is over. forever
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@aglassbrightly1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty get over yourself and make friends with your hand
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@aglassbrightly1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty that’s not caring about her. that’s caring about yourself. woe is me, i can’t use my wife as a hunk of meat to get off with. if it were about love, you could easily do any other loving thing together. its not about love. it’s about you getting off. if you don’t love her. leave.
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@dilliah1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty Men do in fact care about rejection by a woman, particularly their wife. Emily has posted about how evil men are for being "moody" after being rejected continuously by the love of their life. But they don't love him.
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@ericjames_x @imheretolurk13 this is the dumbest argument of them all. you get that men are hornier than women than men due to biology, but you’re too stupid for your last brain cell to zap itself hard enough to realize that means women are less horny than men. stop looking for a man’s sex drive in women.
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@imheretolurk13 It's called testosterone. Doesn't matter if you like it.
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@aglassbrightly1 @SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty men’s era of using this line to try and guilt trip women into unwanted sex is over. if it were about love, you would care whether or not she wants it. it’s about you. if you don’t love her, leave.
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@SuchAHeather @BeardedMou53355 @trauma_kitty You should want to have sex with your spouse. If you do not love them, leave.
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@titanwuzh3re @fatgirlfaded even calling this is “minor inconvenience” is a huge stretch. it’s a text message. you can fucking ignore it. some ppl really are pieces of shit lol
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@titanwuzh3re @fatgirlfaded i mean yes being annoyed at the possibility of feeling sad about something for .5 seconds that literally has nothing to do with you and no impact on you whatsoever when another person is actually grieving a dead family member is pretty heartless, yeah.
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Maybe I’m evil but a random stranger dumping this on me at 8 at night would piss me off
cailyn 🔪🫀@alpohlovebot
i am so fucking embarrassed and upset lol :(
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@technomess @uncledoomer i agree that doordash is awful and people are lazy, abusive fucks but yall have GOT to stop comparing things to slavery it’s disgusting.
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@technomess @uncledoomer yeah getting kidnapped and forced into disease ridden boats so packed with the dying bodies of your people to be taken to a different continent and whipped and stripped of humanity and legally defined as property along with your children for life is just like a shit paying job
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