abh

as a man, you want to be evaluated in a setting you define. not in someone else’s marketplace, not in a feed. & certainly not on some dumb app. basically you want to make sure it’s not in a room where the ranking system rewards the shallowest possible read of you, like a police lineup. what you need a backdrop that reveals what is actually compelling about you like your taste, your judgment, your discipline, your humor, your presence, & most important your way of seeing the world. if you let modern systems define the frame, they will reduce you to the most superficial version of yourself & then judge you for it.