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Serenity at it's peak

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Instablog9ja
Instablog9ja@instablog9ja·
Marriage as a system was designed to benefit men, as it allows even the p+orest men to have a companion — Feminist Chidera Eggerue British-Nigerian author and feminist Chidera Eggerue has made a controversial comment about marriage on the Honest Bunch Podcast. During the conversation on marriage, feminism and relationship on the Honest Bunch Podcast, Chidera argued that marriage was created mainly to favor men. “Marriage as a system already was designed to benefit men,” she said. “Marriage allows for even the p+orest of men to still have a companion.” She also stated that she would leave a partner if he lost his wealth. “And yes, if that man that I’m with, let’s say he loses his money, right? Because that’s the thing women hear a lot; ‘You want a rich man, well what if he loses his money?’ right? We fantasize about the idea of a woman who likes rich men being with a man who loses his money. Guess what? He loses his money, he loses me. I move on,” she said. Her comments quickly got a pushback from ManLikePharaoh, who described modern feminism in Nigeria as “a joke.” “Feminism is nons£nse, especially in Nigeria. It’s actually a joke,” he said, leading to a tense back-and-forth between both speakers. Chidera, however, defended her stance, insisting she was speaking for women who no longer want to downplay their expectations in relationships. “I’m here to represent the women who are not going to p¥ssyfoot around trying to make men feel better,” she said.
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@CatiaKyen There's one popular lady in Instagram too. Can't remember her handle but it has Arewa in it.
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Plateau Asian girl🌟
Plateau Asian girl🌟@CatiaKyen·
I just saw this video by a Jos content creator lady talking about “Gote”. She mentioned it originated from Northern Nigeria and is eaten by Plateau and Southern Kaduna people. I almost slammed my phone on the wall out of pure annoyance, Plateau and Southern Kaduna in the sentence, yet she still called it Northern Nigeria?! These TikTok people will keep dragging us back to the “Plateau and Southern Kaduna are NOT North” conversation 🤦🏽‍♀️
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@lollypeezle Allow your beans to sit in water for about 5hrs b4 cooking.
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Lola Okunrin
Lola Okunrin@lollypeezle·
God will punish beans for me. I have never liked that food. It doesn’t digest whenever I take it. Took beans last night and it nearly killed me on 3rd mainland bridge today. I was sweating inside AC like a brand new goat. My stomach was ringing. The more I sped, the longer the road. Lagos State needs to check very well, seems I broke that 80km per hour speed limit several times 🥵🥵 I was tightening my ass just to make sure it doesn’t drop because if it does, Hiroshima will be second. What I carried in me has never been witnessed before. At a point, I removed my face cap like it was the problem, the sweats kept pouring like I was walking through the valley of the shadow of death. I would squeeze the gear stick like I had beef with it. With all the speed from Ajah, epa o boro on 3MB. Any small traffic build up, my heart will start beating fast while I cursed those idiots causing traffic. They were fighting themselves, I was fighting for my life. I held on like Shedrach Meshach and Abneego in the fiery furnace until I got to the eatery in a Filing station at Alapere. I parked and rushed in. “Where is your rest room?” I screamed. The security woman looked at me with disgust but pointed to the door. Honestly, I didn’t need anyone to point to it because it was right in front of me but oju mi ti su. I rushed in opened the male toilet door and dropped it like an album. Baba nla next rated. Fruuuuupaaa fruuuu tum. In minutes, I was done. The person who opened the door next ran out. Mo fe pa werey. Emi ika. 😬 I tried flushing but there was no water, just tissue to clean up. Ewwww. I managed it. I don’t want to believe water doesn’t run in that almost perfect toilet. I walked out to the security man and woman and they managed to squeeze out money from me so they can fetch water to flush later. I know this is a scheme. I can bet they locked that water somewhere. All the same, it was until I got to the car back before I realized I didn’t switch off the car. Key was still at the ignition and AC was still blowing. I might not eat beans again in this life. 🥵
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@TDeisine The power of denominationalism as if Christ was divided!!!
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Deisine@TDeisine·
I don’t attend same church with my husband, it was agreed before marriage. I am catholic and he is Pentecostal, I remember telling him that I have no intention of leaving my church for his if we eventually get married. He said he don’t care, after all, what’s the big deal? My kids dedication was done in his church because I was too lazy to pursue the process. We always do crossover night in my church and we attend our various churches on sundays when I am not too lazy to attend church. Some things should be settled before going to the altar
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Married couples attending separate churches, is that supposed to be normal or a sign of distance in the family?

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phaet@phaethakuri·
@CRawkeen @kodyfy **ninu**This miserable auto correct be going on errands not sent by any!!!
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@CRawkeen @kodyfy 🤣🤣🤣🤣mini awe yii, in this fasting🤣🤣🤣
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Bàbájídé B𝗹𝘂𝗻𝘁
I remember this AY comedy where Seyi law said Yomi Casual advised him not to wear black black for a night show but he refused. On their way to the show that night, they were attacked by armed robbers and the robbers said everybody get down now. He was the last person at the back seat but before he could get down, the robbers had already concluded no one was left in the car. One of the robbers looked into the car and didn't see him because he already rhymed with darkness 😂
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Nina🐝
Nina🐝@papel_em_branco·
@RyanRozbiani Greater Israel is being born. Expanding all the way to Iraq now?
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Ryan Rozbiani@RyanRozbiani·
🇮🇶🇮🇷 Israel Built a Secret Base Inside Iraq to Bomb Iran, A SHEPARD Exposed It The outpost housed Israeli special forces and search-and-rescue teams, was built just before the war started, and positioned forces closer to Iranian targets roughly 1,000 miles away. The U.S. knew about it. When a local shepherd spotted unusual helicopter activity and Iraqi troops came to investigate, Israel launched airstrikes to protect the secret, killing one Iraqi soldier and wounding two others. One shepherd in the Iraqi desert just exposed a covert operation Netanyahu never wanted the world to see.
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@TechnicalBben Talking about racism but there's tribalism, ethnic bigotry, religion in Nigeria!! What about the superiority|inferiority btw African Americans & black Africans. Ethiopians, Somalis, Sudanese don't see themselves as black. Xenophobia in SA. It's pathetic!!
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Millz@Millz_umar·
Can you identify any regions outside Nigeria or Niger Republic where the Fulani practice the same cultural traditions and wear the same attire? The Fulani are not known to have dyeing pits, tailoring records, or textile production like wool farming. Historical accounts suggest they arrived in Hausaland with minimal possessions, lacking the attire you described. In Futa Toro, for example, the Fulani do not wear the same clothing seen in Nigeria., Facts stated that it originates from Hausa textile traditions, given their established history of dyeing, weaving, and embroidery, as seen in garments like the babban riga. The Fulani, as nomadic pastoralists, lacked a comparable textile tradition, and their attire in regions like Futa Toro differs significantly from Nigeria's elaborate styles. Historical migration patterns and the Sokoto Caliphate's cultural blending suggest the Fulani adopted Hausa attire. Outside Nigeria and Niger, Fulani attire varies and does not resemble the Nigerian styles, reinforcing the Hausa origin.
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Millz@Millz_umar·
BREAKING 🚨🔥 Our Hausa elders have begun mobilizing to defend the honor and dignity of Hausaland against the injustice and oppression inflicted upon our forefathers. This meeting consisted solely of Hausa Zallah natives and indigenous descendants of the Hausa nation. May Allah prolong the reigns of the king of Katsinan Maradi and the King of Gobir Tsibiri.
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@IyelolaIge Rest well in the bossom of the Lord mama!!
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ARÁKÙNRIN ÌYÈLỌLÁ 👷🏡
I wanted to post my late mom's picture this morning on my WhatsApp with a happy mothers day caption. But the moment I opened her photo the tears just came. Seeing her face reminds me of everything she went through with breast cancer. No woman should have to experience that kind of pain. It is horrible in ways I cannot fully put into words. I will not let myself get too emotional this morning so I will stop here. I don't wanna cry. Happy mothers day Mama 🌹🕊 Keep Resting well ❤
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Alhaji
Alhaji@yeankhar·
Happy birthday, my darling wife @olusola__ . Thank you for all you do for General and I, we’re so lucky to have you. Cockroach use to shine till they murd, you won’t stop shinning my dear taiga ❤️❤️❤️
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Harry Da Diegot
Harry Da Diegot@trigottista·
APC wan use lie kill Nigerians 🤣
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O.J Darasimi
O.J Darasimi@josh_olonade·
Flour didn’t originate from Italy but the Middle East, tomatoes come from South America, will you go and tell the Italians that they can’t lay claim to Pizza and Pasta because it’s “dough/flour pie and flour made strings??😅. Cassava didn’t originate from Nigeria yet Igbos claim cassava flake meal (Abacha) originated from them, will you go tell them that they can’t claim Abacha?? Will you go tell the different parts of Africa that claim different native meals gotten from Cassava like Fufu, Akpu, etc. that they can’t claim it simply because it’s “cassava swallow”?? Ogi, Agidi, Tuwo Masara, Abari are all gotten from corn so will you go and tell the Hausas that Tuwo Masara isn’t theirs because it’s “corn meal” and corn isn’t from Nigeria?? Will you go and tell Northerners that they can’t claim Tuwo Shinkafa because it’s “rice meal” and rice isn’t from Nigeria?? What sort of foolishness is this?? You’ll just lose your peace every single time any tribe that isn’t yours decides to say they own something meanwhile nobody drags yours with you😂. Even the original person that posted this thing that caused this whole discuss credited the appropriate tribe so what’s the point fgs??
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Corn didn’t even originate from Nigeria, yet they want to claim corn snack originated from them? This weird thing has been happening for the past few years.

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phaet@phaethakuri·
@Mstar042 God knows how to handle debaucheries like this, who take His patience for granted!!
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Mstar@Mstar042·
BLESSED SUNDAY ✝️ Build your X account now✅ Follow @Mstar042 Gain daily 💯 and also drop your user account let others follow you ASAP🔥
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Dr. Ose Etiobhio
Dr. Ose Etiobhio@osemagnum·
How some of your favourite celebrities dressed to the #AMVCA... like a few Specialties in Medicine. 1) Cardiology (heart) ...because this is the heart of the matter. Don't stop beating!
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Aderonke Asake Oreke(Foodstuff vendor)
Motherhood go almost make you craze and if you’re not cautious,you might just beat these children to the extent that you’ll regret it later And they are always tempting you Cos tell me why I sent my daughter to go and blend beans for akara on the street cos there’s no light After hammering it for this girl that she should tell them it Akara and they should not put plenty water o,she came home with omilaye😭 So watering that it cannot even stay inside oil I have sha poured it inside the sink out of annoyance make everybody fast till tomorrow If I say make I touch this girl this evening,ko ma lo faint momi lowo This teenage age ehn,make God just give me the spirit of patience😔
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phaet@phaethakuri·
@Madigho @d_ocheido No doubt about that, many unbelievers are morally upright but, Can their decency & morals be substituted for Christ's salvation?
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Omavoware@Madigho·
@d_ocheido There are unbelievers who don't cheat, I hope you are aware? We Christians must understand that there are other people doing well and living a decent life and still don't know Christ.
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Deborah Ocheido
Deborah Ocheido@d_ocheido·
Marry someone who knows Jesus genuinely Not a church goer I’m not saying he or she plays Elevation worship on Saturdays when doing chores I’m saying someone who has been to the cross and has met Jesus for real It is the fear of God that keeps your spouse faithful
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New Direction AFRICA
New Direction AFRICA@Its_ereko·
🇨🇳🇺🇸 BREAKING: US SANCTIONS CHINA’S LARGEST SATELLITE COMPANY Chang Guang Satellite Technology the operator of China’s biggest commercial satellite constellation has been hit with fresh US sanctions. The company is accused of providing high resolution satellite imagery and targeting data to the Iranian military to help strike US and allied forces in the Middle East. This is the latest move in Washington’s push to cut off Tehran’s access to Chinese intelligence support. China denies the claims but the sanctions are now in effect. How will Beijing respond?
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