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@offfwhiter

Intersectional feminist, sexual health professional, birth mother, SJW, short person (she/her)

Brooklyn, NY Tham gia Aralık 2011
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hyperion544
hyperion544@carvajalez_1340·
@offfwhiter @ReichDoll @jaderants And it's better and more morally acceptable to reserve yourself for your spouse. The contrary only brings problems for societies. Besides that, why shouldn't that be my business or the government's business? Sex and its regulation is important for the common good.
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@carvajalez_1340 @ReichDoll @jaderants People fuck for a variety of reasons.* + Intimacy/closeness + Physical pleasure + Making babies + Stress relief + Enjoyment + Access to resources + Expressing love And none of these reasons are any of your business, unless you're a participant. * Not an exhaustive list.
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@carvajalez_1340 @ReichDoll @jaderants + Most people do use drugs. Caffeine and alcohol are drugs. + False equivalence. A urologist doesn't tell someone how to act. + There's an entire field of research about sexual shame, and the damage it causes. You have access to Google.
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@carvajalez_1340 @ReichDoll @jaderants + People like to have sex bc it feels good, no one will stop having sex because some invasive weirdo doesn't like it + You don't even know how it feels, you're categorically unqualified to recommend anything + Your idea just doesn't work, we have the data
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Against Atheism
Against Atheism@AgainstAtheismX·
It's not that Atheists don't believe in God. Deep down, they're angry at Him.
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‏ً@omgsidewalks·
How do you politely tell someone they're overweight ??
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@Johnnyslady19 @omgsidewalks Disrespectfully, you don't know shit about why anyone may be fat. Being fat is not a moral failing, or a behavior, or a personality flaw. It's a body shape.
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Johnny’s Girl
Johnny’s Girl@Johnnyslady19·
@omgsidewalks You don’t. Fat people know they are fat. They know you know they are fat. They love indulgence more than health.
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@CatholicABear @PhilemonaLemon @AbbyJohnson Disrespectfully, you don't know shit about why I chose abortion (nor are you entitled to that information). I'd make the same decision 1000x over. It was absolutely correct. But cute story, lecturing ME about semantics. 🙄 Are you familiar with irony?
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CatholicAnarchistBear
CatholicAnarchistBear@CatholicABear·
@offfwhiter @PhilemonaLemon @AbbyJohnson Parasites by definition are a different species as their host You re-naming it is just to lie to yourself to make it easy for you to cope with the fact that you had your own child murdered. I am sorry you made that decision, you may have made it in ignorance. Don’t stay ignorant.
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Dr. Abby Johnson
Dr. Abby Johnson@AbbyJohnson·
Sex is how babies are created. We all learned this in middle school. If you’ve consented to sex, you’ve consented to creating a baby. You have no right to abort a baby you chose to make. That baby has a right to be born.
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@CatholicABear @PhilemonaLemon @AbbyJohnson Many choose to see it as a baby -- that's called consent. The pregnancy I ended was a parasite to me. I know lots of people who've miscarried a pregnancy, none of them ever called it a baby. And semantics doesn't change that it's literally inside an autonomous person.
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StrongManGuide
StrongManGuide@StrongManGuide·
My wife left me for a man who earns less than I do. Drives an older car. Smaller apartment. No status by any external measure. I spent six months trying to understand it. Then I spent one afternoon with him. And I understood immediately:
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offfwhite@offfwhiter·
@KeruboSk In what world does 30% = 0? The fact that he's giving you shit about looking out for yourself is a HUGE 🚩 I'd be reconsidering the relationship entirely.
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Sophia ❣️
Sophia ❣️@KeruboSk·
My boyfriend and I are planning to buy a house together after dating for 3 years. He earns significantly more than I do, so he’d be contributing about 70% of the down payment. Because of that, he wants the house to be only in his name. He says it’s just “fair” based on the numbers, but we’d both be living there, splitting bills, and building a life together. I’ve been watching a lot of relationship content about equity vs equality, and it made me realize things don’t always have to be 50/50 but this feels like I’d have no security at all. He said if we ever broke up, he’d “do the right thing,” but that doesn’t really reassure me. My friends say don’t move in unless my name is on it. His friends apparently think I’m being entitled. Now I feel stuck between trusting him and protecting myself. Is this a red flag I’m trying too hard to rationalize?
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`@aas_ker·
without drugs... what is the greatest weapon against anxiety and depression????
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