KaibaShoe

I don't think I'm healing. I think I'm just learning how to carry pain without spilling it. Everyone calls it strength, but really, it's just silence , I laugh, I smile, I show up but inside, half of me is already gone.

@Atomixion2 @brianatheroux P3do alert. You would be thw type to believe in phrenology back in the day cause: guyyyysss i'Ts sCiEncEee

@brianatheroux "Teen pregnancy carries significantly higher physical risk and worse maternal outcomes than adult pregnancy" Nope. Optimal delivery peaks at 13. No statistical difference between 14 and 20. x.com/i/status/20538…

Men love posting the OkCupid chart as a gotcha… see, men age, but they still want 20 yo, we’re just wired this way. What they leave out is that OkCupid’s age slider only went down to ~20. The curve bottoms out there because it has nowhere lower to go. Cap the floor, get a floor effect. That’s not a preference, that’s a methodology artifact. When the floor comes off (like in the Hall/Hirschman/Oliver plethysmograph data) the curve shifts dramatically younger. Peak around 14. But went lower. For clarity, the y-axis of this graph represents the percentage of females in that age group rated as sexually attractive. So, roughly 9 in every 10 females aged 13-16 are seen as sexually attractive by adult men. Thats scary. That doesn’t mean men all are predators. It means raw physiological response and long term mate selection are not the same system. Humans have plenty of evolved impulses society places limits on because acting on every impulse would be destructive. But that’s also telling for women. Women care that some men are physiologically responsive to children. Many were sexualized, pursued, manipulated, or exploited by much older men while underage. Reacting negatively to that isn’t irrational or because they are afraid of competition (lol). It’s normal motherly protective instincts kicking in. The “it’s about fertility” argument also falls apart the moment you look at the peak. A 14 yo is not biologically optimized for pregnancy simply because puberty occurred. Teen pregnancy carries significantly higher physical risk and worse maternal outcomes than adult pregnancy. So reducing all male attraction to “fertility detection” is biologically simplistic. There is obviously something more going on that people are noticing and reacting to. Most of us agree men and women are attracted to markers associated with fertility and vitality. That’s normal. But at some point those fertility markers are clearly being surpassed and the rationale starts becoming a post hoc justification for something potentially harmful. And people know that intuitively. Which is why the conversation creates such visceral discomfort in the first place. The irony is that women prefer youth and physical vitality too once you strip provisioning and resources out of the equation. Men aren’t unique there. The chart shows a difference in age selection based on what women know about men in certain age brackets and their ability to provide security/safety—not necessarily what women find most physically attractive in a vacuum. And another thing… why are we acting like men constantly publicly announcing they’re attracted only to a 20 yo is somehow irrelevant to women? If you want to get married, that messaging is not what you want to loud speaker. Why would a woman willingly sign up for a relationship with a man openly telling her he will lose attraction to her once she crosses some arbitrary age threshold and no longer retains childlike qualities? We all age. That is objectively a terrible deal for all women. Being attracted to youth and vitality is one thing. Being fixated on adolescent traits and extreme youth is another. Honestly, this discourse may function as a useful screening mechanism. Men loudly broadcasting this worldview are essentially removing themselves from the long term dating pool for many psychologically healthy women. The chart is basically a Rorschach test. What people project onto it says more than the data itself does.

@PMauricard @ElenaBoboc52984 @PBaboins @brianatheroux Do you think anyone buys 99% of research done by p3do men to justify their p3do feeling through science? In all of mine and every other woman doctor's careers that i have seen all pregnancies under the age range that you claim to be the perfect one go to sh.t one way or another.

@ElenaBoboc52984 @PBaboins @brianatheroux Very early pregnancy is risky, but for older teens, the risks are minimal. Even in a society with no modern medicine and later menarche than in the US, there’s no evolutionary fitness benefit for girls to delay pregnancy beyond roughly age 14-15. link.springer.com/chapter/10.100…

no talent, no future plans, no spark, i’m just here

okay so i think the boomer conversational trait at the root of many problems is a total failure to even attempt to model whether the people around them care about what they’re saying. they tell the same old stories 100x and deep down they definitely know you’ve heard it, but it just feels so good to be talking that they go for it. in the absence of the thought process “would this person enjoy hearing this story?” the only factor that matters is how it feels for them to talk. same thing for the constant narration of everything that’s happening and the constant questions about tiny stuff and the random pieces of mundane information about ppl you don’t know. toddlers do the same thing before they develop complete theory of mind. idk if this is the consequence of some sort of old age cognitive regression or if boomers were just socialized really poorly.

Categorizing homosexuality under adultery because it didn’t make it into the 10 commandments shows how desperate religious people want it to be a sin

colt m1911 pistol, chambered in .38 super

& it’ll look like u just spazzing but it’s dead nasty out here like people don’t understand man lmfao

happy lesbian visibility week !! you are all seen, loved and valid 🩷🤍🧡

happy lesbian visibility week to all my lovely lesbian moots

idk man, apologies don’t do nothing for me anymore… people always sorry but never better.

i want me back, this isn’t me.

when your heart suddenly feels heavy but you don't have anyone to talk so you just sit there quietly.

losing your spark is so weird like wtf happened to me

wanted to be so many things and i ended up being nothing

making it to an age you never thought you would because you’re suicidal

yeah i bet moon's lesbian ass is happy to be visited by her

@Allisonknowsnow @Goldiesupremacy @awkwardbadbitch @euthusiast4art @poutynoah @NickyZalez @grls4megtan Yes. Actually alot of times bi women have invited me in their homes and then the bf(that i didn't know existed) just shows up. Alot of them are into breaking lesbians. Should i give u all the reddit threads where bi and straight women plan how to break dykes?

@Goldiesupremacy @awkwardbadbitch @euthusiast4art @poutynoah @NickyZalez @grls4megtan Damn so these people are just harrasing lesbians and never get those hookups instead of asking women who like both to hook up with them?

a lot of ppl feel a weird misogynistic ownership over the bodies of bi women they date. your ex dating a man after you is none of your business and it’s weird that this incel like fixation on it is being encouraged.

@grls4megtan @ThatoneQueen3 This is a level of delusional that is new even for bi women

@ThatoneQueen3 they genuinely think our queerness relies on them and that they have to approve of who we date

life when you don’t let anyone get too close to you