Matthew Fray

"Every couple has their own unique version of The Same Fight. For us, it was dishes by the sink." In an excerpt from my new book, I argue that little things that fuel The Same Fight are what become major problems in marriage and long-term partnerships: theatlantic.com/family/archive…

@mwc0511 @TorreySmithWR Several media outlets confirmed the president posted it. It won’t be hard to verify if you try. Be for it or against it.

@TorreySmithWR Hey Torrey- I just looked at his account, this is posted nowhere! People respect him more than they did BHO

Doesn't mean a thing either. People have zero standards for him as a person or leader. It's embarrassing and disappointing. Choosing to side with him is agreeing with him. My personal line is drawn with people and I move accordingly.

4 books to strengthen your relationships 👫🤝 @bobgoff @MBTTTR @MitchAlbom #tbr #bookrecommendations #relationships #books

@BBGreatMoments @KenCarman @SportsBoyTony 👀 Love you, Ken. But also. Check 23 & Me on this one.

George "Fatty" Hackett. The world's heaviest baseball player at 450 lbs and played for the 1908 Citizen's Baseball Team in Pennsylvania.

@ChitownBrowns @TonyGrossi I don’t totally disagree, but how do we explain Flacco’s 2023 run? That was Stefanski too. Offensive line and skill position players may be more of a factor than scheme.

@TonyGrossi Well said Tony. Baker & Joe leave the Stefanski system & get legitimate NFL WRs & their talent shines. This is an indictment on Stefanski, Berry, & DePodesta.

Flacco just embarrassing the Browns.

@Happy_teachers_ @TonyGrossi (Yale. But your point was not lost on me.)

@TonyGrossi Amazing, so this is what a real offense looks like...oh..and they're running the ball up and down the field as well...but Stefanski and Barry went to Harvard so we got that...

@HeroMemoryCard @BS_Cleveland Ernie Davis is the name I was looking for. Wish we could have seen the non-tragic version of that story play out.

@BS_Cleveland Steinbrenner buys Indians and spends massive dough on building a dynasty. Ernie Davis doesn’t get Leukemia. Every good starting QB in the league that the Browns passed over. or Josh Gordon stays grounded and doesn’t fall into addiction.

@MBTTTR @qz qz.com/women-workplac…

@Unvassassinaded @RealWashedGamer @TheDunkCentral @SpeakOnFS1 He’s not a liar. But I think he may be overstating where he ranks as an all-time scorer. His career was GREAT. Therefore, no need to embellish the truth. No pun intended.

@MBTTTR @RealWashedGamer @TheDunkCentral @SpeakOnFS1 All of them would tell you and the people calling Paul a liar that he is an all time great player and fully deserves to be mentioned with the elites especially Kobe who Paul beat personally in the finals.

"I was probably the best pure scorer in the history of the NBA." - Paul Pierce (🎥 @SpeakOnFS1 )

@Unvassassinaded @RealWashedGamer @TheDunkCentral @SpeakOnFS1 Jordan, Kobe, Curry, KD, Jokic, Iverson, Wilt, LeBron, T-Mac, Mitch Richmond, Carmelo Anthony, Shaq, Olajuwon, and probably at least three hall of fame Celtics players, and a load of people I’m forgetting would like a word.

@RealWashedGamer @TheDunkCentral @SpeakOnFS1 HE TOLD THE TRUTH!!!! PAUL PIERCE WAS THE BEST IN THE LEAGUE FOR A LONG TIME - WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH YOU PEOPLE???

@theyondan @TheFreeFeminist @pinkcels Should women be asked to perform duty sex on demand? Orrr, should we all accept responsibility for looking and behaving in ways which result in people wanting to have sex with us? She didn’t want to. I’m confused why that doesn’t land on him?

@TheFreeFeminist @pinkcels A 95% rejection rate for intimacy will likely find your husband in the arms of a woman that doesn't prioritise a 10 year old rerun. Its not just rejection of sex. It's rejection of closeness, affection, and pair bonding.

"The divorce came out of nowhere"

@BiasedSC30fan The correct answer is Marcus Camby.

@923TheFan @KenCarman @SportsBoyTony Slippery mothereffing wizard.

"It just sounds, to me, like no one can talk about the refs unless you deem it capable to talk about the refs. You're putting words in my mouth that I didn't say." 🎙️ @KenCarman and @SportsBoyTony on the officials debate in #Cavs #Pacers 🏀⤵️ 🔊 Listen: go.audacy.com/SoZwCxpe9Sb

@Gbemisoke He wrote a very good (imo) book too however I think long term partnership at the end of the should be more than a lot of small and relatively insignificant things…

Screenshots. If this helps only one person, I'll be satisfied. You're welcome ❤️

@GregHuntoon Hey @GregHuntoon. I’m a lot better about email than any of the social channels. If you feel okay about it, send a note whenever — mf@matthewfray.com.

@MBTTTR would love to respond privately to your article (the OG one). Promise I’m not spammy. Profoundly identify with your words.

💔This week: Matthew Fray of @MBTTTR on how marriages can slowly unravel, and the skills you need to rescue things early in the piece. themeaningfullife.podbean.com/e/matthew-fray… #therapistsconnect

@bigern245 @Browns @FitnessMamma @deshaunwatson 😆

@Browns @FitnessMamma @deshaunwatson

happy birthday, @deshaunwatson!

@BeeADeplorable @therealroseanne @megynkelly @FogliftQ @DavidMuir @realDonaldTrump I live in the neighboring county to Stark County mentioned in this article. Stark is home to Canton, Ohio. Springfield, the town people are making immigrant-related claims about, is in Clark County. These two places are not close together. We’ve got to be better about truth.

@therealroseanne @megynkelly @FogliftQ Not one fact check of Kamala … @DavidMuir lied … our pets are being stolen and eaten ! @realDonaldTrump is right

The absolute gall of ABC to keep “fact checking” ONLY Trump while letting her lie in every answer is infuriating.

@TonyGrossi The nicest stadium I’ve ever been in is the Minnesota Vikings stadium in Minneapolis. (The Browns’ 14-7 win a few years ago.) Great game day experience. This rendering looks equally nice, if not better. So much will depend on the quality of the tailgate experience.

Game changer?

@peopleareatrip1 @Cslither973 @WalshFreedom ♥️

@Cslither973 @WalshFreedom are we no longer the United States of America? Did you all decide we are just two countries, on the brink of war with each other, instead of a nation working together to create the best country possible? Decide who you are America, this is getting old

A conversation last night with a Trump supporter: Me: “But he was found guilty by a jury of 12 ordinary Americans.” Him: “Those weren’t ordinary Americans. They lived in NYC.” Me: “Where do ordinary Americans live?” Him: “In real America. Not NYC.” We have a problem.