Label Your Y Axis!

And there we touch on the core of what I am trying to explain. I am on my phone now, and I dislike writing on the phone, call me old if you want to. So I am not gonna go into a lot of details and point out all the things I could have to make my point. So please try to understand. I have never ever heard any man IRL say he needed to find a women, because he wanted kids. Women on the other hand... And I was expecting you to say love also. But the thing is love has different meaning based on sex, age and experience. A man's love for a woman is extremely closely connected to sex. A man has 13-20 times more testosterone than a woman (on average). That means a man's sex drive is far far higher than a woman's. And this drive is what makes a man give up things and go into a relationship with a woman. Today the price is faaaaar higher than earlier ages, due to feminisme. Young men will kinda deny this, same will men that pretend they are super 'holy' Christians. But a normal man that have been in a long time relationship, and are honest, will mostly agree. Sadly, for a typical woman sex is a tool to bind a man to her. Once she has him, sex declines, and she changes. After kids, even more. Unknowingly(?) killing the man's affections for her, which means also his experience of love for her. And she starts accusing her man of not loving her any more. Go figure. A man that is denied sex, given very seldom, or only given 'duty-sex' from his wife, change both physically and emotionally, can even say spiritually. His love in life, changes to be his frustration in life. Frustrated men are not nice to be around. So one can only guess how that goes from there. For a woman, love, is for the man to take care of aaaaaaal her problems in life, and treat her like a princess and give her aaaaaal his attention. She wants to be center of creation. If you are Christian, this is very unbiblical in several ways. Eve was made to be a help for Adam, not the other way around, neither to be his frustration. Could also have gone into details on how women whore their most attractive years away on shit-heads, for then demanding a good man pick up the leftovers and marry her. On top of that, she is done with 'her fun', so the poor sucker she lures into marry her, will never be given what she gave for free to 'random shit-head number 54' in a dirty gass-station bathroom in her 20s. You have no idea how provoking and turnoff this is for a good man. This is one of the reasons why men with self-respect talk about body-count. The higher BC, the more trauma and resentment she brings along. Only a idiot pays full price for a used car with problems. So in short; a normal man's motivation to go into a relationship with a woman is his experience of love, that is very closely connected to sex. He expects sex, and a lot of it. Kids and someone to grow old with, is more like a bonus. Most men these days have no need for a woman to survive or live a good life. Women on the other hand... I was not born yesterday, neither born-again yesterday. I know how naive young men, or unexperienced men in general are when it comes to women, but I did not understand how big of problem 'sexless marriages' was until recently. It destroys good men, ruin marriages, and pastors for the most part refuse to adress it due to being afraid of women and flack. This is already too long. I hope you try to understand, and if not, God bless you no matter what.