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“Socialite” I haven’t left my apartment for 3 days but ok



Best way for a guy to find a girl is to get a “sexy hobby” - social dancing - street portrait photography - hiking tours - learn guitar - learn multiple languages - world traveler - tennis - beach volleyball/suf - skiing/snowboarding Get good at it, display it, find/build community, and you’ll never be lonely or have to use the dating apps again. Oh and pursuing something fun outside of work that doesn’t involve responsibilities or pressure is great for mental health


being a regular is drinking 8 drinks, getting charged for 2 drinks but then you tip like it was 8 drinks











To find a gf Let's say you have 1,000,000 people city Only 1 in 5 are in your age group = 200,000 left Half of those are women = 100,000 left Half of those are not single = 50,000 left Women are selective and don't like 90% of men (even if matching in age group etc) That leaves you with just 5,000 women But on avg you will like only 1 in 5 of those women (eg your type) = 1,000 left On approach/match 10% of those lead to a date = 100 dates left Of those dates 10% lead to a relationship = 10 women So as a rough rule: Divide a city's population by 100,000 to know potential amount of gfs For women looking for bfs this is obviously much easier, probably 10x easier so 1 in 10,000 The point is cities are for single people, it's where you find bf/gf, it's statistically VERY hard to find them in a village, beach town or rural area Try dividing a 10,000 village by 100,000 you end up with 0.1 potential partner, it's low odds (Ironically, Bali looks like a very sexy place but confirmed by my friends living there VERY hard for dating for foreignere exactly because of the relatively small foreigner population, which some say is only 5000 actually settled there, the rest being transient, obviously finding a potential partner in a tiny pool of 5000 will be hard, as many foreigners are not dating locals) But that's why those places are perfect once you are not single Peaceful and also no distractions anymore Well except for Bali ;)












