
I spent years living about 18 months ahead of myself.
Happy once the project delivered. Happy once I hit the next grade. Happy once I got the house, the title, the number in the account.
The problem with that game is it never ends. Each milestone arrived and the goalposts had already moved. I got good enough at achieving things to realise that achieving things wasn't the point.
The state youre waiting for doesn't arrive automatically. You have to decide to be in it before the conditions are perfect, because the conditions will never be perfect.
This doesn't mean stop wanting things. It means stop making your present self pay rent to a future version of you that might not even want what you're chasing.
Figure out what youre actually doing this for. Most people haven't asked.
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