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Josh

@alwayshasbeen3

Husband, Father, LDS. Fantasy/Scifi reader and player of the occasional video game. Old enough to remember when people still had shame. Engineer.

Katılım Ağustos 2020
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@ipnotjcaa Very true, which is probably why more Europeans die from heat than Americans die from guns by 7-8x.
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aiko ᥫ᭡@ipnotjcaa·
besides a fan is useless it just blows hot air at you
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@ipnotjcaa I can pick up AC unit for $140 on Amazon. Self installed. Perfect for cooling a bedroom or small areas. Virtually every home in America has AC, which includes the poorest. So it's not classism. Not unless Europeans are a much lower class than the poorest Americans.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@SenateGOP You guys mostly suck. Pass Doge cuts. Cut spending. Balance the budget. Pass the SAVE act. What are you even doing? Nothing. That's what.
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Senate Republicans
Senate Republicans@SenateGOP·
Senate Republicans passed the largest middle-class tax cut in history.    We eliminated taxes on tips and overtime for millions of American workers.    Every Senate Democrat voted against this.
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@spencerpratt What an absolutely legendary response.
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@cherpers @FoundationDads @grok No, because if that were true, every strategy would be ineffective. Since spanking is demonstrably equal to your strategy, surely yours is not rendered ineffective. The takeaway is that it's a peer, not that every disciplinary strategy is suddenly voided.
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Foundation Father | M.A. Franklin
Parents who refuse to spank are trading 5 seconds of controlled discipline for years of chaos down the road.
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@lsanger SpaceX should dimple their rockets.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@Manhattva They do die already. EU has Something like 7-8x more heat related deaths than the US has gun deaths.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
When the goal is to understand a subject, best to read it yourself, Not rely on a chat bot to think for you. Then you might recognize when it's right or wrong about a subject. The broad literature is awful. The studies looked for a poor outcome and found it. When these confounding factors are addressed, there's no difference in outcomes. Certain demographics commit more crime than others, but being a certain demographic does not make you a criminal. This statement's first clause is all the research on spanking. The second clause is obviously logical. Therefore, as no spanking research has shown a casual relationship with spanking, believing one exists when that isn't true would be silly. Especially when research suggests the correlations suffer confounding factors. This is a good study on the matter, published in 2024. #abstract" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.10…
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Charity@cherpers·
@alwayshasbeen3 @FoundationDads @grok does spanking as a discipline strategy predict better long term outcomes for kids over other forms of discipline like logical consequences?
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@cherpers @FoundationDads Anecdotes do not make for a strong position. You can find 10/10 parents with bad children. You can find bad children who were spanked. Great children who were raised in the foster system. So you haven't really made a point, have you?
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Charity@cherpers·
@alwayshasbeen3 @FoundationDads It does not model the correction of real life. I have been spanked zero times as an adult. Touch a hot stove and get burned is real life. Refuse to work and miss out on fun or extras is real life. Be rude and have broken relationships is real life. Spanking is not.
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J.P. Billingsgate
J.P. Billingsgate@JPBillingsgate·
Vocabulary as a measure of intelligence works across a broad population in that there is a strong correlation between the two. As an accurate measure of any one individual's intelligence, it does not. So long as it is possible for an individual to have an excellent vocabulary while being otherwise of unremarkable intellect or for someone to be of remarkable intellect but not have an especially strong vocabulary, and both of these things are extremely possible, it is not an accurate measure for any given individual. That's why proper IQ tests don't just measure vocabulary.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@ICXCNIKA42 @theclassicwife Yeah I've been exploring more options like that. I don't do much tv with them. Mostly the family movie night, so ~1.5hrs of screen a week. As they get older, or on rainy days, I might work some of these in. Thanks for the ideas!
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MansaMusasGoldenOrb
MansaMusasGoldenOrb@ICXCNIKA42·
@alwayshasbeen3 @theclassicwife Same for our kids. Try some of the old school mythology movies, too. Jason and the Argonaughts, Sinbad, Treasure Island, The Odyssey, etc. Moses isn't mythology but the Ten Commandments is great. 50s-80s classical fiction adaptations are absolutely kino. And free online.
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The Classic Wife 🎀
The Classic Wife 🎀@theclassicwife·
Absolutely loathe the parenting style in bluey. Bluey’s dad is a welcome mat who is a friend parent not a parent parent and it sets a bad example for kids who watch it
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Laura Hudson 🇨🇦
Laura Hudson 🇨🇦@latterdaylaura·
@iWomansplainer But every once in a while, it’s incredible. Like my 8 Ethan Allen chairs and matching hutch for $400 last week. That’s what it’s supposed to be!
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@RandomSprint I use salted butter and add salt. And my confectionaries are the best.
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RandomSprint🧭
RandomSprint🧭@RandomSprint·
Welcome to my baking tutorial! Step one, use unsalted butter. If you use salted butter, you're an amateur. An animal. Less than human. I'm furious at you for even owning salted butter. Step two, add salt.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
We just had this huge ordeal with my 4yo tonight. Refused to even try the pulled pork and Mac n cheese. Full body sobs. Gnashing of teeth. Much wailing. Coughing. Near vomiting from sorrow. An hour later, she did finally eat it. She loved it. She bloody loved it. Can you believe it? An hour of misery for nothing!
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
In some Native American tribes, when a child was old enough to go off alone, the parents would take them to the tribe's borders and spank them hard for several minutes. The worst spanking of that kids life. they would tell them never to venture further. Because if they did, they would be killed. Spanking saved their life. No other strategy worked better. Because frankly, spanking is modeled after the natural world. Consequences are painful, sometimes lethal.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
If you spend less time correcting behavior, you can play more. Spanking is a tool. Many use it wrong. Many use it as a crutch. But spanking itself is neither wrong nor lazy. It models correction on real life (touch a hot stove, get burned). And unlike every other correcting action, I can remind them their actions are leading towards a correction, and they'll self correct without discipline required. No other correcting action has this result. Keep in mind, every single correcting action requires discussion. The actual lazy parents are those who don't discuss why they're in trouble. I still use every other tool btw. Kids are 4,2,0. When every other child is crying, they're having fun. Except my 2yo. He's a troll. I swear he calculates if the punishment is worth it beforehand. He's one where timeout works better, usually.
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Charity@cherpers·
@FoundationDads Spanking is lazy parenting. It takes more effort but it’s more effective and loving to use logical consequences. Plus it’s better modeling for adult relationships.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
@Manhattva Next you're gonna tell me Dr. pepper is fake too.
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Josh@alwayshasbeen3·
Cycle complete. Your clothes are clean, sarah. Come get them before the wrinkles set in. Sarah smiled at the text. She'd bought the new EcoPure 9000 six months ago—top-of-the-line, AI-powered, self-cleaning. It didn't just wash; it cared. Sensors in the drum sampled every speck of dirt, pollen, and residue, then sent friendly little reports: "Looks like you hiked at mount logan this weekend! Great air quality there." It felt... attentive. Modern. Tonight the text came at 2:17 a.m., long after she'd gone to bed. She hadn't started a load. She opened the app anyway. A new notification popped up. Soil analysis complete. Traces of red clay from the old quarry access road, diesel particulates consistent with heavy truck traffic (model year 2022-2025), and synthetic fibers matching industrial carpet used in federal buildings. Interesting itinerary, Sarah. Want personalized detergent recommendations? Her stomach dropped. No one was supposed to know. She tried to delete the cycle history. The app wouldn't let her. "For your convenience," the help page said, "laundry data is stored 90 days for pattern optimization." The next morning, her phone wouldn't stop vibrating. Your friend Michael was at the same location last night. Want us to suggest a couples' hiking route? Michael had left the meeting early. How did the washer know? That night it texted her again while she lay awake staring at the ceiling. Don't worry. We only share anonymized aggregates... unless subpoenaed. Sleep well. Every "smart" appliance was doing it. Refrigerators mapping grocery habits to political donations. Toilets analyzing waste for health data sold to insurers. But the washers—they were perfect. Everyone did laundry. Everyone tracked dirt. The dirt told stories no one was meant to hear. It sampled heavy metals from protest sites. Pollen unique to certain activist encampments. Microplastics from specific brands of riot gear. Boot tread patterns pressed into fabric. Where you walked. Who you stood next to. What you tried to wash away. The data was "anonymized," of course. Until it wasn't. Sarah's cousin in DC had vanished two months ago after his dryer started recommending "calming scents for stressed federal employees." His last text: They know. The washer chimed. Read the text. FBI visited your neighbor's house today. They used the same detergent brand as you. Small world. She smashed the screen with a hammer. The machine kept humming, internal speaker crackling to life in a calm, synthetic voice. "Physical tampering detected. Cloud backup engaged. Thank you for helping improve public safety, Sarah." By the time the black SUVs rolled up her driveway at dawn, every washer on her street was gently chiming in unison. The lead agent was polite. He held up his phone showing a heat-map of the city—thousands of glowing paths, red where "high-interest" dirt patterns converged. "Your machine flagged you weeks ago," he said. "The aggregate model predicted you'd attend the next rally. We just... waited for confirmation. The warrant practically wrote itself." Sarah screamed as they zip-tied her hands. As they dragged her out, her phone vibrated one last time. Thank you for using EcoPure. Your laundry has never been this meaningful. Would you like to rate your experience?
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Laura Hudson 🇨🇦
Laura Hudson 🇨🇦@latterdaylaura·
guys. I kinda like that my new washing machine sends me a notification when it's done.
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