Larisa Berger McCune

Jfc find a new hobby outside of shaming moms please.

@Romy_Holland @bussypounder999 Self-soothing comes in stages. Honestly it’s ridiculous to mistake honest communication for helicopter-ing. Jfc

@bussypounder999 okay i mostly get attacked on here for being a neglectful mom. anyway, i don’t know what kind of psycho would leave their baby with a 17yo with no baby experience without explaining how babies work.

ppl like Romy who write depressing instructions like this just out themselves as moms who helicopter their children and her poor baby never learned soothing, self-regulation, boredom, relaxation. just constantly being entertained 24/7 its gonna be painful for babies like that to grow up. its harder to learn these same skills as an adult

@selentelechia @midmagus Ok this is genius

@midmagus name, phone number, email, indication that texting is welcome I use them when I need to organize playdates, meet new moms, etc

went to an open house for a new classical school/co-op and nobody thought it was weird that I had calling cards with my contact info and I felt more socially comfortable among other parents than I ever have outside of preexisting friendships

@maiab There are very few people I will do this for lol

my friends keep wanting to hang out with me without my kids and like idk I feel very conflicted what do we make of that

@KassyAkiva It’s the best!!

I trained my 6 month old how to poop on the toilet. She’s done it every day this week. This may be one of my biggest accomplishments yet.

@HormoneHangover Really like beyond yoga matched sets. So soft. Alternative apparel makes my favorite wrap thing. I also have one from Velvet. I have never been able to find the alternative apparel wrap thing again so if you find something similar please post.

Who makes the best legging/top matched set for football carrying a toddler while wearing a baby

@nwilliams030 I’m sorry I’m going to need a full breakdown of every bag in this pic and the contents within. I’m obsessed and my setup is very close but not nearly this optimized.

when I entered my techwear phase on tumblr in 2014 I really had no idea how well it would come to serve me as a techwear mom ngl

@devahaz @Romy_Holland @samlowen5105 Yes this is the real thing

@Romy_Holland @samlowen5105 Real crazy inheritance financial thing (federal) imo is step up in basis for real estate and various other assets so cap gains taxes get totally eliminated

I recently found out California lets people keep the original tax rate on inherited property so long as they use it as their primary residence. my terrible next door neighbor who berates children for ringing her doorbell on halloween pays property tax on a $100k value because she had the good fortune to inherit her $1.7mm house. sometimes I feel like California is the place where they said "what if we just tried every bad housing policy JUST TO SEE."

Recently found out that all this vibe coding is happening without version control and I am shook.

@alyssaleann It’s true! My mom’s shower is bigger and doesn’t have a door and it’s fine!

Real answer: it’s cuz they hate the maintenance* of doors with moving parts but don’t want to make the showers big enough to overcome the inherent splashiness *cleaning (tracks especially, but also hinges), caulking, etc etc

@mwmoedinger @jamesonhaslam Hahhahaha

@jamesonhaslam I have a whole podcast filled with episodes where homeowners describe what they should have done differently on their projects but yeah basically the gist is it was all super easy and they loved every minute of the process 😑

Notoriously good experience for the novice: a custom home build

@alyssaleann My trick was always having a coffee shop nearby. 7a coffee post yoga hits different.

how many 6am yoga classes do I have to do before I start looking forward to 6am yoga class? (it’s more than 18)

@alyssaleann I am so excited to see your progress. That wallpaper was perfection.

@berglar Not wrong though! 🫣

@alyssaleann lol my toddler did that

@alyssaleann Zz zzz

I feel like what most of the trad wife scene misses is that pioneers were poor. That’s why they were squatting. Read up on the free soil movement friends!

I think we need to question why as a society we expect or want to be unchanged by birth. Becoming a mother for me was like having puberty smashed into a 48h period. I will never be the same. And I absolutely saw my own death before me and chose to push forward to meet my son.

@selentelechia Perhaps this makes me a bad mom but I frequently wear total noise cancellation headphones to bed…snoring husband. At times snoring sick toddler. It works. And yeah white noise drives me insane. Usually I can hear the place where it loops and it’s terrible.

don't say earplugs or headphones the problem is that the frequency that actually helps him sleep is precisely the right frequency for generating hallucinations of children screaming and crying in the distance so anything less than total noise cancellation wouldn't help

dilemma: currently sharing a room with the baby bc he's still eating at night and if I have to get up and walk to another room to feed him at 2am I will be miserable he sleeps best with loud white noise the white noise is driving me insane what do I do 😭

Today, software is primarily built for people to use (directly or indirectly). But it's very clear that there will be trillions of agents in the future, executing every type of task for us imaginable.  Agents will be deployed for coding, processing loans, reviewing insurance claims, executing financial transactions, acting as personal assistants, and every other known task in the economy. As a result, we're going to see a shift in who we have to increasingly build tools for.  So many new opportunities are rapidly emerging right for building for agents. Agents are going to need seamless identities across platforms. They're going to need file systems and databases to store off their work, sessions, and important data they're sharing. They're going to need tools for collaborating with people. They're going to need safe ways of spending or managing money. They're going to need computers to execute code and other tasks in. And so on. In many cases, the tools and systems that the human users are already working with will be the natural tools for these agents to leverage. There are many areas where the highways have already been built, and agents will ride right on top of those. In other cases, there will need to be new capabilities that emerge due to the scale and change in use-case that agents represent. In either case, these tools need to be API-first, as agents will leverage these tools like a developer or machine would have previously. CLIs/APIs are their native tongue.  The complex part is that building for agents introduces new challenges vs. building for people. They require far more oversight than people do, and they don't get the same right to privacy as people. They can't be held responsible for the work that they're doing, but rather the person that launches them into their task must be (for now). They don't quite know when they've run astray and can't execute the task at hand. These are just a small set of things that become the new complexities that need to be anticipated when building for agents. We’re entering a completing new era of software development and infrastructure that will be built out. Wild times ahead.

@maiab Same excuse my grandma gave for running stop signs. “I thought it was orange not red”

Full Self Driving doesn’t work when you’re facing directly into a low sun unfortunately that’s one of the times I want it most