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@boldpath

Helping parents navigate youth sports so they don't raise fragile humans / Award-winning coach

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@pdoh00 @GregBerge I love watching it too. And you can still go to lots, but if you think about it, many parents go to 100% of activites, and as such, you're never giving your kid a chance to explore development without their parent watching EVERYTHING, (and the kid knows it too).
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Phil Cleveland@pdoh00·
@boldpath @GregBerge This one hits hard. Guilty. Love watching the journey. Ill work on ejecting every so often. I can see the growth benefit
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Greg Berge
Greg Berge@GregBerge·
See a parent sitting quietly at a game? Often, that’s the one who gets it. No complaining. No criticizing coaches. No yelling at refs. No drama. Just watching their kid compete. Youth sports need more parents like those. Be part of the solution.
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
Unfortunately whenever I say this people act like I’m attacking their sport Yes, nba also requires grind but we have ample data in that it’s not as big of a slice of the pie per say as soccer They aren’t putting the same time in as youth kids at pro academies for soccer NBA still rewards athleticism at a bigger percentage than soccer
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Aaron Weremay
Aaron Weremay@werm21·
@boldpath @EdLatimore You're dead wrong on the NBA. Theres definitely a physical/athletic barrier to entry but there's nobody in the league under 6-10 that hasn't been grinding relentlessly since 10 or 11 years old. Plenty of NFL players that never touched a football til high school though
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Ed Latimore
Ed Latimore@EdLatimore·
Anecdotal stories and research have an answer, and it's a reality of life you have to face with many things. You simply can't tell if your kid has real potential to go far until they've gone as far as they can. And here's a tale of two ends of it, without using outliers: 1) One on the one end. 60% of high school 5-star recruits make it to the NFL. Ok, so it's a little better than a coin flip, you'll make it *if* you're the best in the country at 18 at your position in high school. But that's still 4 out of 10 of the BEST 18-year-old high school players who don't make it to the NFL. On the flip side of this same story, on average, about a dozen "0-star" players are drafted each year. There are currently 257 draft picks, or 4%. 2) Now, for the other piece of data on this. A longitudinal study of 47 players at a top Spanish academy used bone-age data to classify biological maturation, with career outcomes tracked 15 years later. Late maturers reached professional football at 30.8% vs. 5.6% for early maturers. At follow-up, every player from the cohort competing in a top-5 European league belonged to the late-maturing group. So the answer is pretty much you can't tell until you've maxxed out and you're done developing. This is a valuable life lesson. applicable to a whole host of other things. With that said, you simply can't push someone to this if they don't have the passion, grit, and "rage to master." Economically speaking, for parents, your decision on how much to invest in your kid should have nothing to do with your kid's current ability. Only in their interest and dedication to getting better. Obviously, if your kid is 5'6", at 17, you might want to do something else with the time and money. Then again, Dennis Rodman grew from 5'9" to 6'8" from age 19 to 21, and David Robinson was 5'9" as a HS junior and grew to 7'1".
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@EdLatimore The real question is how soon is to soon to realize your kid won’t be a future pro and that doing well in school and making friends is more important instead

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JLB@AirJlb·
@boldpath @GregBerge 👍👍. Nothing worse than seeing a kid strike out and immediately looking for their parents reaction
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
Look, I'm the biggest proponent of soccer relying LESS on athleticism than any other sport period. I argue it all the time. I wans't even focusing so much on soccer, it was a joke about athletes in general. Having said that, it's just about increasing odds, (even if ever so lightly). You still have an advantage IF you're more athletic in soccer, and as such, genetically speaking, if both parents are athletic, you're much more likley to be endowed with superior athletic ability
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Travis
Travis@Tsmith47·
@boldpath @sven89exp @the_marcoliboy I get it but there is absolutely a regression to the mean and living a very comfortable lifestyle doesn’t necessarily help. You think both of zidane’s parents were super athletic?Soccer has a lower percentage of father/son than other sports.
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A Miller@amilleraz0·
How does he stay so balanced under pressure?
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
One of the reasons you see this is because if you're too dominant athletically at a young age, you in turn rely on that athleticism over the proper technique. You see this in soccer all the time. The young and fast kid relies on speed, and in turn doesn't develop the touch he needs to thrive later. then the late maturer catches up in athleticism, but this time, he has superior technique, and ball control
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Jon Finkel📚💪@Jon_Finkel·
You have to coach youth sports to understand how much raw athleticism and genetics play a role in who has real HS, college and pro potential. I've coached kids who were passive or awful at 8 and 9... then came across them again at 12 and they're a foot taller, faster, stronger & confident. different human, basically. and maybe the kid who was dominating them at 9 has peaked already and everyone passed them. you never know.
Ed Latimore@EdLatimore

Anecdotal stories and research have an answer, and it's a reality of life you have to face with many things. You simply can't tell if your kid has real potential to go far until they've gone as far as they can. And here's a tale of two ends of it, without using outliers: 1) One on the one end. 60% of high school 5-star recruits make it to the NFL. Ok, so it's a little better than a coin flip, you'll make it *if* you're the best in the country at 18 at your position in high school. But that's still 4 out of 10 of the BEST 18-year-old high school players who don't make it to the NFL. On the flip side of this same story, on average, about a dozen "0-star" players are drafted each year. There are currently 257 draft picks, or 4%. 2) Now, for the other piece of data on this. A longitudinal study of 47 players at a top Spanish academy used bone-age data to classify biological maturation, with career outcomes tracked 15 years later. Late maturers reached professional football at 30.8% vs. 5.6% for early maturers. At follow-up, every player from the cohort competing in a top-5 European league belonged to the late-maturing group. So the answer is pretty much you can't tell until you've maxxed out and you're done developing. This is a valuable life lesson. applicable to a whole host of other things. With that said, you simply can't push someone to this if they don't have the passion, grit, and "rage to master." Economically speaking, for parents, your decision on how much to invest in your kid should have nothing to do with your kid's current ability. Only in their interest and dedication to getting better. Obviously, if your kid is 5'6", at 17, you might want to do something else with the time and money. Then again, Dennis Rodman grew from 5'9" to 6'8" from age 19 to 21, and David Robinson was 5'9" as a HS junior and grew to 7'1".

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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
@sven89exp @the_marcoliboy It 100% does in any sport It doesn’t guarantee sh*t, it just increases your odds The more athletic you are the better chances you have, regardless of sport (Although some sports reward sheer athleticism more than others)
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Sven89@sven89exp·
@boldpath @the_marcoliboy This works in skiing where you have maybe thousands of competitors worldwide but rarely in football with millions of players.
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Dustin Burnham@ModernDad·
Namaste! May the Fourth be with you. Anyone recognize the reference on my yoga mat?
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@boldpath @ankorinclan There's well documented cases of this exact behaviour toward total strangers. Eg. There's video of a hitchhiker that Chris picked up in Brisbane, on the way to Byron bay (where he lives), him and his brothers just treated him awesome, flew him in a helicopter!
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Ankor Inclán
Ankor Inclán@ankorinclan·
Dijo una vez MrBeast sobre Chris Hemsworth:  “Pensé que me diría: ‘Tienes 10 minutos, graba y vete’. Pero no. Cuando llegamos a su casa, mis amigos estaban afuera, y Chris dijo: ‘No te preocupes, amigo, estamos aquí pasando el rato jugando videojuegos’. Antes de grabar, estuvimos como una hora platicando, y después de grabar, jugamos videojuegos varias horas. Es muy amable.”
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
@cptdankkk ZERO incentive for the NBA to do this. Until there's a competitive league where players get the same fame, money, and level as the NBA, no point in placating players in this area.
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cpt dank@cptdankkk·
Steph Curry says NBA players are underpaid "I think because the way the CBA is structured right now, we can't participate in equity. And that's a big deal because it’s a partnership with ownership, the league and we're on the short term of that revenue" "The idea that we can't participate in equity while we're playing is a part of why I would say yes, we are underpaid because you want to be able to participate in that rise" "I know we're blessed to be in a position where we're playing basketball for a living, and these are the type of checks that people are earning" "Hopefully sooner than later those rules change a little bit so that players can participate more in the upside of team equity. I think we deserve it"
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
@9mmsmg It's kind of like the idea is awesome, but the delivery never was.
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9mmSMG@9mmsmg·
Some of you aren't going to want to hear this on May the 4th, but Star Wars is awful. The original three where watchable I suppose, but revisiting them, they still aren't even good, never mind great. This message brought to you by Frodo and the Shire Boys.
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
@FiredUpCoug This movie had a laundry list of gimmick moments like this. It's like they were trying to intentionally alienate those who actually were hardcore fans.
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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
@calecampbell88 The hate on travel sports is so misguided. It's only unhealthy if you're in denial as a parent and think sheer effort alone is going to get your kid to make it pro. Also that 70% stat is so flawed it's not even funny and people take it as gospel
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Cale Campbell
Cale Campbell@calecampbell88·
This guy is a getting a lot of shit for this take, but he’s largely correct. If you want your kid to go play on his high school baseball team, he has to be a club baseball player or be in the top like 3% of athletes if not. That’s just life in 2026.
Jason Helmes@anymanfitness

Bad news, dude: If your kid doesn’t play travel/AAU they have no chance of playing varsity in high school. Only exceptions would be small, rural schools without many players to choose from. Any decent sized high school, every kid on varsity plays travel.

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Boldinfluence@boldpath·
Also, the 70% stat, (although shaky at best), doesn't tell you a kid quit sports, it tells you they quit a specific organized program... Meaning, it includes the kid who started focusing on another sport, or another hobby, or the kid who simply got cut. Which by the way, if you didn't make the travel team, there are other teams you can play for. Not everything should be about making it pro
Jason Helmes@anymanfitness

This article says “70% of 13 year olds have stopped playing a sport they used to enjoy” It’s been touted as a reason to avoid travel sports. I have another theory. 13 is 8th grade. Maybe they try out for their school team and don’t make it. So they quit. They realize they won’t play in high school. 8th grade has always been a big drop off year for kids who suck at sports. sportsleadership.acu.edu/why-kids-quit-…

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