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When You Have a Cool Password (2026)

@perspicoI @mudscryer Probably you feel the special psychic connection and sense the kinship that the others radiate towards you. Perhaps you are not the only ones who have such a connection.

@chillbert32 @mudscryer A goy wouldn't recognize a jew if he saw one.

Whenever I talk to a high iq Jew I’m always like damn I really am just a silly little goyim

@perspicoI @mudscryer I don't detect the Jewish spirit within you. Sorry, fella ☹️

@chillbert32 @mudscryer We are the promised people, goy.

@AwesomeNintend0 I miss when white boys made videos of themselves as pitched up cartoon characters analyzing children's media

@blessedtism @wastedsight @meadandjuniper It depends on your goal. Lots of people want free sex, and dating apps are great for that. Looksmaxing might work there. For a relationship? It's best to work on being the kind of person you'd want to spend your life with. You spend your life with yourself anyways, single or not

@chillbert32 @wastedsight @meadandjuniper The personality attraction develops over time. In your example, hours of exposure to an epitomal fictional character. Most relationships today form over dating apps where women reject men within a second of seeing one picture - his personality is never a serious consideration.

The rise of “looksmaxxing” seems to indicate that many modern young men have little confidence that they can acquire gf through improving their personality or learning social algorithms like the 2000s PUAs, which is curious

@wastedsight @blessedtism @meadandjuniper If my point was that personalities are more attractive to women than looks, then doesn't that strengthen my point? Nobody cared about how he looked, really. What women crushed on was him as a person.

@chillbert32 @blessedtism @meadandjuniper I talk to you like that bc of your personal takes, I dont talk to people like that. Its an incredibly simple minded take, you fell for the actor. You know the cliche line "you dont love me, you love the character I play on tv"

@wastedsight @blessedtism @meadandjuniper You talk to people like that and expect women not to pick up on what you really feel, but women are very keen on these things.

@chillbert32 @blessedtism @meadandjuniper Yall are so simple minded you fall for exposure through acting. You dont get that personality without putting in active effort to learn who they are beyond their looks, which is increasingly rare. but you saw jack black play a character that was written to be charming and likable

@drakemaylover @blessedtism @meadandjuniper I have my theories but the whole movement is very odd, especially given the complete lack of dating success with these methods Unlike, say, PUA, which did have its own level of success in a scummy way

@chillbert32 @blessedtism @meadandjuniper Ya I’m not sure why men are doing this tbh, I consider myself an average looking man and had good amount of success on dating apps in my late teens and early 20s, maybe the landscape has changed but I have a feeling men are starting to have the same problem as women were they

@AnthonyDamys @mookmookiee I'm pointing out a contradiction Here is another contradiction: despite all the evidence of looksmaxxing that the community has provided to each other, that hasn't resulted in significantly increased relationships within the community

@chillbert32 @mookmookiee You're contradicting yourself: first you say a strong physique doesn't matter and then you emphasize Tony's strong physique, which is indeed part of what makes him attractive. Add charisma (which his physique contributes to) and power (same) and yeah.

@drakemaylover @blessedtism @meadandjuniper You get it, women are much more attracted to personality than looks This is why I think the concept of dating apps is what directly led to the incel movement

@chillbert32 @blessedtism @meadandjuniper Lmao they had entire seasons to get to know Tony and his personality, u don’t have that on dating apps, and the reason I know this is because I used to do a lot of Netflix and chills and women were always more attracted to the character than the actor

@mookmookiee His physical features convey strength, stability, robustness, loyalty, and resilience, do they not? But there is an effete appearance to someone who goes to the gym all day and doesn't wear their strength as if they can take a punch.

@chillbert32 Because Tony was wealthy, had status, authority. Obviously not all women go for those things, but plenty of women love men who have money and authority. Even if someone is out of shape or thinning hair.

@TheIshikawaRin @VinnyTheUHHH Everything has to be as big as possible. This is the driving force of America. Big food. Big church. Big money. Big tech. And so on. I live close enough to Canada that its icy coldness radiates down and protects me from this impulse.

@chillbert32 @VinnyTheUHHH what is America even about

Legit cannot stop thinking about how funny this is

@blessedtism @meadandjuniper I don't know if you are old enough for this, but when The Sopranos was airing, women all over were talking about how hot Tony Soprano was. Supposing what I said is true, how would you fit that information into your worldview?

@chillbert32 @meadandjuniper Because they can't become taller or change their hair genetics. Strong physique is also pretty high ROI.

@AnthonyDamys @blessedtism @meadandjuniper Toned physique, not strong. Big muscles are a turn-off for many women.

@chillbert32 @blessedtism @meadandjuniper Strong physique does attract women. This should be obvious but if it isn't this is shown unambiguously in basically all research on physical attraction that has been conducted.

@TheIshikawaRin @VinnyTheUHHH You haven't lived until you've been to an American megachurch that is indistinguishable from a rock venue

@VinnyTheUHHH Highly religious Americans who make it their entire personality really feel like parody at times.

@blessedtism @meadandjuniper Then why do they focus on signifiers that attract men? Strong physique, square jaw, high levels of self-grooming... These almost always are high on lists of gay men's attractiveness priorities and lower on straight womens'.

@meadandjuniper Nah, it seems like a very logical reaction to the reality they're in. With most relationships forming over dating apps, where most women will reject you on sight in less than a second, looksmaxxing is increasingly necessary to get your foot in the door.

@meadandjuniper What they're doing is almost all (shallow) stereotypical woman stuff. Makeup and plastic surgery, cliques, discussing who to accept and who to reject, setting standards for themselves and others, etc. These are things they see women doing. They're imitating. It's bizarre.

@meadandjuniper I don't think it has to do with picking up women at all, and I think most of them don't even recognize that. To me it seems more about finding ways to embody the feminine spirit themselves. The Jungian anima, and so on.

@MorlockP Why do you write? To be famous? To feel heard? To see the product of your thoughts on paper? Other? A mix? Now examine those motivations more closely. You will find the shape of who you really are, and who you were trying to be with your work, and who you can really be now.

@MorlockP The best thing you could possibly do right now is cultivate your sense of love and gratitude for nature, for life, for the things you appreciate, and especially for people. Do this as much as possible. This will help you so much in the transition to this new, better world.

Film was mass, going niche. Novels were mass, going niche. The world I loved has died, in so many ways, and it sucks. Old school hacking, old school startups, science fiction novels, heritage America ... it's all dead. I don't know what to do.