Rapha Ventresca
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Rapha Ventresca
@drinkwithrapha
Wine is the vehicle. Discernment is the destination. 11 years as a sommelier → now teaching you to trust your own palate. Newsletter 👇


I wasted so much money on clothes in my 20s that I should have just invested in my own health. Getting fit is worth more than any style makeover. A fit person looks better in jeans and a white tee than an unfit person in a $2000 designer outfit.


The older I get, the more I realize most people aren’t out of your reach, they’re just out of your effort. Send the cold email. Walk up to the stranger. Ask for help. Access is closer than you think, but only for those with the courage to ask. Closed mouths don't get fed.


The real reason I picked writing as a career: Most careers have ~30 year time horizons or less. Doesn't matter the field, but it's very rare to see a CEO over the age of 65. But I can write until I'm dead. That's an extra ~20 years of mastery!










Nobody tells you this: You can win by just embracing what most people avoid. Wake up early. Focus. Move your body. Eat real foods. Obsess over one thing. Read old books. Be present. Listen intently. Change your mind. Have difficult conversations. The recipe for a good life.

Nobody is rooting for you to fail. Maybe you’ll succeed. Maybe you’ll fail. For the most part, nobody cares one way or the other. This is a good thing! The world is big and you are small, and that means you can chase your dreams with little worry for what people think.







