Ed Williams
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Long term plans don't work because life's chaotic and unpredictable.
Learnt this the hard way. I'll give you a few examples from my personal experience
First time I learnt this was in high school. My dad started having a random health issue and had to do some brain surgery. He survived but wasn't the same anymore. Happened out of a sudden and made me reconsider my plans and how I needed to operate now that I had to take care of my family.
Then years later I remember being super focused on business while also being in a long term relationship. I was focused on building my webcam company so I didn't want to go out too much or entertain the girl I was with. My mindset was "Yeah i'll sacrifice now and have fun later". Out of a sudden, in a random day she comes home and says "I'm not okay mentally, I don't think this will work". This came as a surprise, we didn't have too many fights prior to this. Fast forward the next few months were shit, the girl was depressed because I was working non stop then we broke up despite being together for 6+ years.
8 years ago my webcam studio had all the rooms filled. Loads of models working, very good results. I was already daydreaming of how I'll have 1000 models at the same time 😁 Then one day my assistant comes to my crib, wakes me up and tells me that one of our employees from the staff, which I was paying very well, convinced all the girls working on the morning shift to leave with her because she opened a new studio. Had to reconsider everything and start from scratch, hire new models, organise things differently etc.
Even 3 years ago, everything was going smoothly in every realm of my life. Then out of a sudden I get arrested and had to spend 2 years in jail / house arrest / with restrictions. It came as a surprise since I wasn't committing the crimes i've been accused of. I even remember the night before police stormed into my house I couldn't even sleep because I felt amazing and had a great vibe. THEN BOOM - had to accept the new reality and come up with solutions.
I guess the lesson is that you need to become an adaptable person that's always ready for changes and that cannot be stopped by temporary setbacks. Having a long term vision can still be useful as a directional compass but be prepared for unexpected, fucked up situations.
Namasteeeeeee
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Humble women are the biggest hoes
A humble woman is generally polite, respectful and naive. Talks to anyone, respects any male presence, doesn't know how to be rude and push men away. Thinks every loser is "a G". Impressed by average dudes, overestimating their level. You send her home with an Uber, might laugh and get attracted to that driver too if he's a lil bit funny 😆🤣
Nobody talks about this.
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@MurrayHillGuy1 Some girl I was on a date with asked me if I love Trump
I smirked and said I love him. Like over the top. She took it as sarcasm and said “THANK GOD YOU DON’T LIKE HIM!”
Best pair of tits I’ve ever seen.
The same girl ended up throwing a drink on me in the bar 2 months later.
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97% of the time if a girl brings up politics before you’ve even met, or on the first date, she’s liberal.
My advice? Don’t debate her. Just laugh it off or nod your head.
If she’s into you, she’ll care a lot more about how you treat her than winning a political argument.
I’ve seen plenty of NYC “liberal” girls end up dating conservative guys. They will turn conservative over time.
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@HamzaAdonis or more weight in general
NOT fat territory
but higher BF% e.g. 15% instead of sub-10 - with lots of muscle ofc
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@JimRope35993 @MurrayHillGuy1 no. absolutely not.
want it explained?
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@eddwilliams8 @MurrayHillGuy1 Bro, you’re a complete moron. She was actually being genuine there can tell.
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If you ask a girl out for drinks and she replies…
“I’ll let you know.”
99% of the time, you just got placed on the bench. The backup plan.
Your ONLY response:
“Sounds good.”
Then go live your life. Don’t follow up. Don’t double text. Don’t ask again. Make other plans or even another date.
If she comes back later and says she can make it? Great. Go if you still want to.
But never sit around waiting for someone to decide if you’re worth their time.
You are not a backup plan.
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@eddwilliams8 @MurrayHillGuy1 Wow, what an idiot. Burned a bridge just to satisfy his little ego
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@MurrayHillGuy1 absolutely. I knew that when I said it
she flaked previously so was happy to take the L on this one. last message was a week prior
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@eddwilliams8 Way too aggressive. You didn’t really prove anything here. You just lost a potential lead
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how I closed a sassy cunt in 3 days (screenshots)
Women are just like chihuahua.
They bark and bark and bark.
ZERO BITE.
COMPLETELY HARMLESS CREATURES.
You need to shift your perspective and stop taking them so LOGICALLY AND LITERALLY.
Let's take this example.
This girl was being a sassy cunt on hinge literally for amusement.
This was fun to her.
Shit test after shit test.
Telling me to do things for her Instagram.
So obviously, I'm being a cunt back and not engaging but keeping it moving forward, why?
BECAUSE I DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY AND I KNOW SHE WANTS ME, SHE'S JUST PLAYING GAMES.
If you truly believed that, wouldn't you behave the same?
The problem is, guys take it logically and respond logically.
Ruining the GAME.
3 days later, she came right over.
Why?
Because if you can speak their emotional language, they will break every rule in the book for you.
This is when you reach mastery.



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@MurrayHillGuy1 Only below 5s will fall for this type of trick
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@joelampton_ talk to that bitch even if you didn’t drink any alcohol real
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Friend and I were sitting next to an obvious Hinge coffee date this morning.
Guy was noticeably better looking than the girl.
Low key we started judging. Coffee dates are basically public job interviews lol.
We’re listening in and she goes:
“So what made you swipe right?”
Without missing a beat he goes:
“My therapist said I need to be less picky.”
I thought she was gonna throw the $10 iced latte at him.
But actually, She laughed…
They’re probably getting married.
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@MurrayHillGuy1 I slept with 70 in 1 year in Vancouver. Pretty much all were first night
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Average number of dates before sex, by city:
Miami — 0.5
NYC — 2.2
LA — 2.7
Chicago — 3.2
Austin — 3.4
Scottsdale — 3.5
Nashville — 4.2
Dallas — 4.3
Charleston — 5.0
San Diego — 5.1
Denver — 6.1
Boston — 6.4
Charlotte — 6.5
Washington DC — 7.4 (requires a resume review)
Seattle — 8.1
Portland — 8.7 (poly doesn't count)
Minneapolis — 8.9
Boulder — 9.1
San Francisco — 10.1 (only after she invests in his startup)
Vancouver — never ("just seeing where things go")
Salt Lake City — Marriage
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@NYKevinOfficial @MurrayHillGuy1 He said 'Trump is going to the Knicks game tonight' you goofball. Where did he defend Trump
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@MurrayHillGuy1 I mean yea your defending a pedophile protector and terrorist enabler
Plus you probably know nothing about politics.
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This morning on a Zoom call I mentioned Trump was going to the Knicks game tonight.
One marketing girlie launched into a rant about how awful he is. Said how evil he is, etc
I said, “I think it’s probably a good thing he’s supporting our city and Knicks.”
Now I have an HR meeting on my calendar.
It’s gotten to the point where you can’t even say the word “Trump” without people acting like you just confessed to a crime
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@MurrayHillGuy1 I had to cut off someone for this. I didn’t say anything
I see her post pics with her new bf and I wonder if he has to deal with it. LMAO
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