Maxsiuuu
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Maxsiuuu
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1v1 me Chess. Grandmaster 2 ADHS Main LFG Flex. Entrepreneur. Philanthropist. Proud holder of 1 $GME. Skyrim Game No.1 ND
Sovngarde Katılım Ağustos 2021
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@ASublminalAutst most normal hoomans are just walking collections of external manipulations that they rationalize into a "self"
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@WhiteDevilMama @delonperc Exactly. I hate this Stigmatizing Narcisist propaganda bullshitt. We should just ban the word narcist or reform it or some shit. Mentally ill personality disorder or just some younger "soul" which need still need guidance is how we should treat those.
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@delonperc The problem is this is also true of a lot of people without NPD. Emotional immaturity is a disease infecting a good portion of the population.
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@Decayedlov How can i teach someone who let others take advantage of themself to defend themself?
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Anyone who believes hurting you is a way to “teach you” is showing you they care more about control than understanding. Real growth doesn’t come from someone breaking you down.
Kingmaker@MindHealthMaker
Stay away from people who think hurting you is teaching you a lesson
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The narcissistic dynamic isn’t random. It’s a repeating pattern: love bombing, devaluation, discard, hoover. Same sequence. Same outcome. Same extraction. Because it’s an operating system built to run on you indefinitely.
And here’s the shift: once you see the code, you can’t be run by it. Understanding the mechanism is freedom. Because you stop blaming yourself. Stop hoping it will change. Stop executing the pattern.
You can shut down the system. You can remove yourself from the network. You can refuse to run the code anymore.
Read the full breakdown on Substack: @theexitcode/note/p-200484212?r=8lh2hl&utm_source=notes-share-action&utm_medium=web" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">substack.com/@theexitcode/n…
Once you see the code, it cannot run on you.
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@The_Exit_Code Even preframed myself towards her in the months i planned my exit.
Late stage i played in her grandiose delusion with to see if my spider tingle was right.
I had the "ick" the second day i spoke with her and wanted to find out if there is good under it.
Didn't found it.
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You’ve identified the shift that works: from defending against the smear to protecting yourself from it. Pre-frame with safe people. Document with the narcissist. Then disengage. You’re protecting your perimeter while building a record. Every escalation strengthens your position. They’re building your case for you.
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But don't be naive and think you shouldn't protect yourself.
Be financially in position where you could crush them.
Have enough money for 99 hot air ballons with her face and qr codes on it to fly them over every city you associate her with.
Don't be a pussy and think you are threatining with her if you tell them this can be a consequence.
Get a grip and work your ass off for crazy good lawyser.
If you have that ability, they sense it and they won't mess with you further.
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@NarcKilling They dont have the things that i have. They cant feel it they can only act or imagine how it is truly.
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@The_Exit_Code I feel pity towards people who don't have that capacity.
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If there is a good reason to believe a smear campaign is made, then communicate towards your people in your safe space / work only 2 things Prophylactic:
1. If you ever hear anything about person x or that space in general if anything odd is said about me simply attribute it to the fact that there is some personal history behind it
2. If something comes up that doesn’t sound like me, i'd appreciate if you let me know.
Set a frame before everything will rain down at the same time on you.
Also tell your narcisist person, after you told them multiple times you don't want contact.
Explicitly say that you don't wish that.
Tell them every further attempts to reach in your space will be treated as harassment.
Then let them alone. You have everything written down for Law enforcement/ Judgementsystem. Tell them people familiar to this matter are already made aware. But in truth you just told these 2 things.
Next time you see them, just tell them why you don't wish contact again. Tell them they are toxic. Call is out like it's naturally. If they deny, the conversation is ended. They are playing victim?
Good let them sue it's in your favor.
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@Gabbrielxzn My favourite one is "you're toxic".
They'll deflect it trying to frame you as the one beeing toxic.
My go to is "then why are you looking to have contact with me?"
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@JT_Voermann Und wenn er so wie ich sagen würde alles unterhalb der Elbe ist Bayern?
Bin Schleswig-Holsteiner.
Stimme Amthor aber zu.
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"... Labyrinth is finished painting and polished. Now sealed and i reach my hand to draw power out of it, not trapped inside.
I hate bragging, i was often triggered by her constant "Money is the most important, money is Power, succes is Power and bla bla bla. What she never imagined is that before meeting her have enough. Frist date she said "well if you make a present to someone you kinda have to do things to".
Shes was only looking at other sucessfull people around her, because she wanted to be too. Veeery early in the were many Situations where i would have love to smack the fact in her face i'll have more money than she can even graps.
She stopped beeing hostile and disrespectful towards me after i made her aware that 100 blimbs with her face and a QR with everything recorded since she threatenend my life a year ago, will fly over her hometown.
You gotta stratigicaly and carefully scapel these people out.
Leave them gracefully that they can call themself a failure, when it comes to the question if they tried to control you.
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Hey man i totally understand you.
At recovery i am at a point where i question the effectifity of naming these things is crucial to recovery, saying things like recovery, abuse, narcicism. Etc.
It feels like, that thinking that and having these constant affirmation can be problematic to those who did not detach the gravity of thoughts and emotions.
Ironicaly i reached that conclusion by exactly learning it. Like the 4D Tesaract Labyrinth is finished painting and polished.
DM me for Book recommendations.
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It is so strange and bizarre that you can literally not have a single malicious or unfriendly bone in your body and a narcissist will hate you with a murderous obsession. Like vivid, aggressive hatred.
They spend a lot of their time hiding it but you can see in their actions, how badly they’re trying to destroy a good person, how angry and hateful they really are. Even if they’re doing it calmly and systematically. They are still behaving impulsively and erratic and irrational.
Just so strange. And when you’re one of these people being attacked so aggressively and hated so aggressively by them, it’s really weird because you don’t understand why. It makes no sense. It is so bizarre.
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